Yesterday while sitting at the dining room table, the door to the deck opened softly all by itself and then closed softly all by itself. It was done so precisely and softly that it almost appeared like it had been done by a person. It was not windy and there is no back swing to the door if it is manually opened. After the whole family actually watching the whole door thing happen, my family was more intrigued and curious than scared.
Then, today while sitting at the dining room table again, we thought we heard the shower running. My sisters went to go see and the shower was on! It had turned on all by itself. They screamed and ran out and the shower turned off shortly afterwards. We went in to see if the nozzle had been turned and it was in the off position.
We were at first thinking that maybe because of our location on Kiawah Island and this being a new house that there may be an Indian burial ground that was disturbed, but then we remembered our grandmother passed away about a year ago from cancer. She frequently visited this house because it belonged to my aunt. Her and my aunt were best friends. We think she might be trying to get our attention and let us know that she is here.
If another paranormal event happens does anyone have any suggestions of what we should do? Can anyone maybe help us understand what's going on or if it might actually be our grandmother?
Being able to eliminate the possibles is how you arrive at the probable, it's called deduction (you eliminate the "nots" to get the "is"). I have my reasons for saying what it's not and I shall stick by those (if curious then email me in private).
Seven - See 2nd half of my above comment. Just because I left out reasons behind my statement of what it isn't does not mean I am wrong. I felt going into that much detail was a waste of time.
And yes I *DO* know what it is and is not.