Paranormal Influence Or Just A Coincidence?

A few years ago, I was dating this guy, who is a devout Christian. I never really thought too much about religion, and I still sort of kind of don't but he and I talked about it, and I began to question the whole Christianity religion.

I used to sleep all day and stay up all night so my experience happened when I was very much wide awake. There is a little cubby hole (or what I call a cubby hole) it leads into and out of the hallway and my room. You have to turn the corner off of the hallway, to go into the cubby hole. The open doorway of the cubby hole is straight across from the bathroom. The hallway is so small, that it literally takes less than three steps from my room to the bathroom.

So, I went to the bathroom one night, and I was standing at the opening of the hallway/cubby hole, and I looked down the hallway like I normally do force of habit, and I saw a very dark black shadow mass, I can't fully remember if it was a little shorter than me (I'm 5'1) or if it was eye level. But, I could make out a head and shoulders, and the rest was, I guess you could say, like a big blob; just a dark mass. I was like "What the heck is that?".

I could clearly see because the bathroom door was open, and we had a motion sensor night light so the light was on. From the hallway you can see the living room and kitchen. We always keep the kitchen light over the stove on so there was plenty of light to see. Before I could blink, in less than a second it was right in front of my face just standing there.

Suddenly, I had seen a bright blue and white light. It wasn't really in a shape of a ball, it was sort of like a star kind of shape. Sort of like when light bounces off a prism, has that long star shape. It flew down the hall and hit the shadow into the bathroom in like a second. That didn't make any noise, my bathtub is fiberglass so if you hit it, it makes a popping sound. Suddenly, I heard the tub pop.

I was shocked, it kind of scared me. I don't know what it was, I quickly turned around, went into my room, shut the door, locked it, and sat on my bed. The whole time I was on the phone with my boyfriend, I told him what had happened. He was shocked, but he believed me. He kept on telling me what he thought it was, but I never listened.

Another experience I had was when I was still dating him. I was still questioning the religion and the bible and everything. He and I were fighting a lot because of it. I had broken up with him because I thought we needed a break. So while this time we were broken up, I started talking to this other guy. He and I would talk all day, everyday, on the phone seeing each other and stuff like that. Well, the sexual tension and temptation were definitely there, but the whole time I was talking to this other guy I was on the monthly. It had just come up out of nowhere like my monthly normally does, and it had to of been two or three weeks.

It was during the summer, and I ran the A/C all the time, but my room stayed hot extremely hot. Even with a fan on and my vent wide open it was like an oven, and I couldn't figure out why. I always kept my door open to let the air flow. I even made sure that it wasn't just me. I got my mom, my dad, brothers and sister to double check, and they couldn't figure it out either. I literally stuck one foot out of the threshold of my door and one foot in my room and there was a BIG difference in temperature. Some nights I would sleep on the floor next to my vent cause it was that hot. I was still talking to my ex boyfriend/boyfriend during the two or three weeks, off and on, I told him how hot it was in my room of course I didn't tell him about the other guy. Somehow he knew what was going on. Like I said, I never told him about the other guy, that caught me off guard. After that every now and then, I swear I saw what seemed to be black portals opening up on the walls and ceiling. I felt uneasy and a little bit freaked out, but I was never scared to the point where I was frantic. I kind of just shrugged it off.

Eventually, I got back with my boyfriend everything went back to normal. We talked a lot about it and what it could be after we talked about it, I actually did feel a nice comforting breeze, I guess you could say.

I was and still am skeptical about religion, I still can't explain it. I broke up with him approximately 1 1/2 years later, due to to mostly religion differences. We still talk to this day, he is one of my best friends, and I love him to death.