My Old Spirit Friend

This will be a quite hard-to-tell story because there will not be a real "scary climax" inside it. I apologize for that in advance.

Anyways I'd like to share it because it might be some kind of addendum to my previous stories - so please take your time to read it.

To say the least, I am happy NOT to have too many active "every-day contacts" at the moment/anymore.

Please let me summarize in short points for those who don't know my previous stories:

I have had lots of good/delightful direct-contacts many years ago (10+) before somehow I lost time/interest/connection to that topic for many years.

In the past few months spirits seem to have "popped in" to my life again, probably because I started dealing with that topic again (in my sub consciousness) and/or because of recent "not-so-nice happenings" around me which I just had to cope with.

I eventually dealt with those "happenings" (one particular haunting, to be precise) using contact, cleansing and so on, and everything went back to normal for me within weeks.

After that, I stopped all active contacts whatsoever to bring up a more peaceful life for my family and me.

Okay; I had lots of contacts in the far past, then for a long time nothing at all, then a little unpleasant "incident", and then nothing again for a couple of months now.

Please read my previous stories for more detailed information, I'd finally like to get to the point here though.:)

So, about a year ago I completely stopped all active "paranormal contacts" of any kind because I'm having young children in my house and (as implied above) we had some quite "rattling" experiences with ghosts/spirits in the months before. Everything seemed calm for a few months, there were absolutely no signs of any presences in my house or around me, or at least I successfully closed my eyes to them (I can't say).

At one point, about 2 or 3 months ago, I made a random "call" (mentally) to my "old spirit friend" who I've been in frequent contact with many many years ago (see one of my previous stories about that) - just to see if he was still around and because I was curious. The conversation lasted for only a couple of minutes and it was very vague, that's why I gave it up soon and I kind of forgot about the topic again. I didn't attempt to contact him anymore and I really lost the whole thing out of my thoughts because I was too busy about work and stuff like that. Anyway, some time (weeks) later things started getting pretty interesting again.

For example, if nobody was at home, I sometimes suddenly heard somebody in the kitchen opening the refrigerator and complaining why there was no food (why is there no butter... Milk... Bread... Or whatever) and closing it again. Most of the time it was my wife's voice, but sometimes also my wife's sister's voice (this happened about 2 times so far).

One time, when I was sitting in the bedroom at my laptop, working, I suddenly heard my wife outside calling for her sister to come to the living room. I opened the door, checked what's going on because I thought to be alone at home, but nobody was there. The house was all empty but me.

Sometimes, also when being completely alone at home, and I am in the bedroom, in the kitchen or on the toilet, I hear the front door closing with the usual gentle closing sound like one of my family or myself would have closed it.

Sometimes when I'm in my bedroom (my working place is there, facing the door), in the corner of my eye I can see my wife (or my wife's sister or somebody else) in the living room, walking from left to right towards the kitchen. Again, when I go out to check nobody is there.

I'm alone at home every time such things happen.

Well, things like these happened to me about 5-6 times already during the last 6-8 weeks. Especially the closing front door or other (familiar) sounds in the living room that would indicate somebody to just have arrived at home happen again and again! But for sure there is nobody at home but me, no visitors, none of the kids, just me!

I am not really scared by that stuff although sometimes it (naturally) gives me the creeps, but most of the time I just find it confusing and I shrug my shoulders.

Of course I also cannot rule out that in some of the cases my mind is playing tricks on me (I know how the human mind works), but I don't believe that to be the case in every occasion. Sometimes I think that I don't need to "wonder" about it since I brought the "thinking about spiritual beings" back into my life on my own, so there is no wonder that "they" or "one of them" might be back for whatever reason.

What leaves me puzzled though is that all those minor (really only minor) happenings use to occur ONLY when there's nobody else in the house but me! There is really NOTHING happening whenever any of the other family members are at home, even when they are soundly asleep.

If you've read my previous stories you might know that I've had previous issues about ghosts haunting some members of my family, which I totally disliked and until now I would not accept "behaviour" like that.

Maybe these happenings might be some kind of "message" to me like "okay sorry, we won't scare your family any more, but if it's only you around, might it be okay to contact you?".

Maybe it's even my very self causing these sounds or movements (?) in a telekinetic way or something like that? I don't rule that out although I never had any "abilities" like those so far *gg*, but I believe it's possible.

Who knows, I really cannot tell!

Assuming that there were any spirit/s trying to contact me (again), would you respond to the "messages" or would you keep on trying to ignore them/shun them away?! Usually I used to respond without any big hesitation, but due to the fact that I don't want to involve my family members too much, I am a little bit sceptical about what to do.

Ah and by the way, I can almost surely rule out that it's my "old spirit friend" Cecil behind all those happenings. My guts would just tell me different and he would know the exact time and way to contact me, if he really needed to. Despite that it's always been difficult for him to produce noises or movements or any other sensations of that sort.

Hmmm...

Does somebody have good advice for me?

Thanks for reading!