I'm 18 years old now, and for the past few months I've had this one man appear in my bedroom. I don't know exactly what he is. I heard from some people that this man might be my spirit guide due to the fact that whenever I see him I don't feel afraid.
I had this experience a few weeks ago which made me really start to wonder who he was. I was lying in my bed and had just woken up, it was probably around 9 am. I rolled over onto my back and noticed something weird. There is a gap between my dresser and bookcase where we used to have a small coffee table, but that is gone now. I saw a young man sitting in the gap. His age, my guess, would be probably be in his mid-to-late 20s. He had medium length straggly brown hair and was wearing a flannel shirt. His style looked grunge. I've nicknamed him Kurt because after I told my sister about him she said he sounded like he looked like Kurt Cobain, which he kind of did style wise.
He had his legs stretched out before him and was leaning forward onto his knees. He was staring forward in the direction of my bookcase. I did the classic thing of opening and closing my eyes a few times to make sure I wasn't imagining things, but as I did this he didn't disappear. I remember not feeling afraid at all, and I'm the kind of person who is TERRIFIED of the idea of ghosts. I felt completely relaxed. After a few minutes he was gone.
It's hard for me to describe what he looked like. He didn't look like a real living person, but he wasn't transparent or anything like that. He just looked strange. I've seen him once before standing by my bedroom door, but this was only a really quick thing. I just looked up from waking and saw him just standing there. He quickly vanished.
I've also had experiences where I've been sleeping and heard a man's voice shouting in my head. It always wakes me up and I feel weird afterwards. Sometimes it will be just screams, or maybe my name or something like that.
I was just curious as to whether anyone else has had a similar experience and could maybe help me understand what exactly he is. He has never, ever made me feel afraid and never interacts with me. He just stares blankly in a different direction.
Any ideas?
First of all I can't believe that I came across your post. I googled ghost in flannel shirt and read the same description of a young man that my mother and I have encountered 23 years ago. My brother and I were just kids and we were in the basement playing video games. Then out of nowhere this man walked past us from behind. My brother had no clue that someone else was in the room. What I found peculiar was that he seemed to have walked from the sliding door to the other sliding door that was across the room. I never heard the doors slide open or closed. I ran into the garage and asked my father if he had a visitor, and he said no. Then I asked my mother who was cooking in the kitchen if she had anyone over. I explained to my parents what I saw but neither of them seemed too concerned. So I let it go. Not sure how long after my mother also saw him in the basement. She was doing laundry. She saw this man walking toward the sliding door, she didn't think anything of it since my dad is usually working around the house and sometimes has a helper. She said hello to him, he stopped and slightly turned his head toward her. She put the laundry basket down and when she looked back up he was gone. This man looked like he was in his mid to late twenties. He was tall with a medium muscular build, had a red flannel shirt, quarteroid pants, work boots and his hair was wavy brown and the length just above his shoulders. He kind of looked like a lumber jack. Every so often my mother and I talk about the man in the flannel shirt and just wonder what in the world we saw.