I am 26yr old female and I have never believed in ghosts, until I saw one. Growing up my friends always claimed my house was haunted they heard voices and noises. I never thought much of it, it was an old house. But then my friend one day became hysterical to what she saw, a black mass dart from the bedroom to the bathroom. I just laughed because, well I never even thought of the idea of ghosts.
I met my ex in '04 and moved into his old family home. It was built in 1901 and all his relatives said the place was haunted. In fact his brother-in-law refused to step into the house. I had never noticed anything out of the ordinary, the house was creepy in general due to the age. He always spoke of an old woman that died there and he had seen her in his dreams. I awoke one night to her sitting on the end of my bed and screamed. I brushed it off, assumed it was a dream but the dreams were getting more vivid and it was the same old lady. She was always trying to harm my husband in my dream, I woke up to her holding a bowling ball over his head and screamed. But these could pass as dreams, I still didn't really believe, or want to.
Then one night, I woke up to the door across the hall shaking and the handle rattling. I sat up and turned the light on and it didn't stop. I woke up Mike and showed him, he said its probably the cat. Well the cat appeared and stared at the door. Then something started clawing the door frantically and I couldn't breathe. It abruptly stopped and I was way to scared to even go look. I thought maybe it was a dog but in the morning nothing was in that room and no animal could shake a door handle and claw. I can't explain how scary it was but we eventually moved out.
Ghosts intrigue me now and I love to watch paranormal experiences. About 3 months ago I stayed with my boy friend of a year who always teased me about a little girl haunting his house. He said multiple people say she lives on the stairs and you can see her with a mirror. I wanted to try that night but he refuses to mess with the dead. That night I saw a white mist go through the wall, however at the time I thought nothing of it. I actually mentioned it I said wierd I just saw a white blur by the wall. I did not know at this time that ghosts can take a form as what appears as a mist.
That night I had a dream of a orphan girl who kept singing Oh lady oh lady to me, she started choking me and I turned my head and saw the a old wooden clock in my dream. She told me to look at the clock and it was 1:46am. I woke up screaming and crying, my boyfriend said he had never seen someone so scared in his life. I was litearlly climbing up the wall and I was screaming what time is it. 1:47am. This was the most vivid dream I have had. He asked me why I asked the time and I explained the dream. I can still remember it clear to this day and it gives me chills.
I don't know why this keeps happening because now I have a ghost visit me in dreams once a week and they always try and hurt me. My son asked me if his room was haunted because his computer moved. I moved it but it was wierd for him to say "haunted" Since I had noticed stuff moving in there but I assume its him or the wind. I am not sure if there is a ghost in his room, I hope not.
I want to mention that 2 weeks ago I took photos of an old abandoned house. I wonder if something followed me home. Did I open some door since I believe now? The dreams are getting scarier, so are the ghosts. Last week was some type of demon raping me and I woke up to my boyfriend bawling my eyes out. I found sites saying that ghosts can communicate best when we are unconscious. I signed up here for some advice and at least the ability to relate to others.
Very interesting and spot on. I did turn to psychology because I know the subconcious is repressed and comes out in dreams. That all makes sense to me. I would like to point out when I am alone I do not have these dreams so maybe that person was my subconcious crying for help. We are no longer together and the dreams have stopped.
The time thing also makes sense. Thanks for your help, it really made me think farther into this.