What Happened to Me?

It was late one night and I felt like I could connect with a spirit. I just had a strange feeling, but I was ready for this to happen. I always felt that I could open up and be a medium, I just never really believed. I thought it was made up or something terrible would happen. It must have been around midnight when I went upstairs to my bedroom and laid down on the bed. I spoke out loud, I said, "I'm here come to me, I'm ready". I heard sounds like someone walking up my stairs then I felt paralyzed, I physically could not move, and there was a loud high pitched scream in my right ear. I could not move, then finally it was gone. I couldn't sleep that night... what happened?

Another time, when I was a little girl about 4 years old. I was living in Miami Fla. I woke up from my bed and started to walk to my parents room, like always I wanted to snuggle with them. As I was walking down the hall, I saw that there was a party. There must have been 50 people/spirits or so. They were eating at our dining room table. It was buffet style in the Florida room. The people were dressed like from a different era, maybe the 1940's.

A lady dressed all in black, with long black hair came to me. She knelt down and told me to "SHHH, go back to bed". That happened 33 years ago & I have never forgotten her. Who could she be? Why did she send me back to my room?