I was born in 1976 and my younger sister Anne was born in 1979. I had another sister Emily who was born in 1978, she only lived for a few months & died of SIDS in 1978. I also had a younger brother Paul. We lived in an area called Eltham in London.
This began back when I was 9yrs old (1986). It was a normal Friday night when I went to bed but I woke in the night & felt the need to get up and go pee, our WC was along the landing at top of the stairs.
As I neared the top of the stairs I believe I could see a mist on the stairs. I looked down and I could see (what I just knew to be) my dead sister Emily at the bottom but she was of the age she should of been (7yrs) shaking her head at me. I didn't understand so I took a step towards her & I felt as if something pushed me toward the stairs. As I felt I was going to fall (but didn't) I saw Emily throw up her hands and shout NO! I closed my eyes and when I opened them again there was nothing there.
I hear you now saying that this was dream, but please bear with me. This occurrence continued to happen EVERY SINGLE FRIDAY NIGHT for 3yrs, sometimes I felt pushed but sometimes I just stood and looked down the stairs so I could see her but she never said anything else other than to shout NO, I tried so hard most (Friday) nights to go pee before I went to bed trying hard not to get up in the night but by the age of 12 I was too scared to stay at home Fridays & stayed at friends every weekend until we moved out of the house in 1991 (nothing ever hurt me & everything I saw/felt always disappeared in a blink on an eye. I always felt she was trying to protect me from something but not sure what).
The 2nd part happened in 1987, (I was then 10) my sister Anne (she was then 7) & I were watching TV too late one school night & our mum came in and unplugged our TV. We carried on whispering 2 ourselves who was going get up & turn it back on when a mist seemed to appear in our room and the TV came back on (UNPLUGGED) at a low volume (for approximately 10 mins). Spooked, we both dove under our separate duvets and stayed there until morning. In the morning we discussed the night before and my sister Anne said she saw Emily next to the TV. (She didn't know about my experiences yet and again she just seemed to KNOW it was her without even ever meeting her). She then told me that she had seen Emily before when she had gone to the WC in the night. I told Anne of my experiences and she said she didn't see her as often as I did - only now and then, and Emily never spoke to her but just smiled.
I continued to see my "visions" for another 2 years before I stopped staying home on Fridays and as mentioned we moved out of that house in 1991 and neither of us saw her again.
We recently had a conversation about this (I am now 38 and Anne is almost 36) with our younger brother Paul (35) and our Mum and they were not surprised. Although they say they never saw Emily they both believe they saw my Mum's brother Dave (aged 16 - who died 3 months after Emily) in my brother's bedroom in that house. My brother says he was too young to know he wasn't real and thought he was really there to play, and my mum says she could she him sitting on Paul's bed in the night.
The house belonged to our grandparents before they swapped with our parents so my brother's room used to be Dave's room, but although Emily visited the house as a baby she didn't actually ever live in it alive.
Do you really think that these experiences were our lost loved ones keeping an eye on us or something trying to make us think so? I don't know why Emily would shout NO to me but only smile at Anne. Me and my sister are absolutely sure of what we saw and so is my Mum. Our brother can only say what he thinks he saw.
Sorry if its a bit long winded I've never written this down before now. Please let me know what you think of our experiences.
Thanks for reading.