My amazing Grandmother got sick. Her kidneys stop working, so they started her on Dialysis. It wasn't going very well, so she wasn't able to leave the hospital. Family members were going to start taking shifts to spend a day with her at the hospital. I was so excited for my day. It was on a Monday and I got a call on Saturday that she passed. I never got my special day with her.
I have always wanted my Grandmother to show that she was with me after she had passed away. I would ask for a sign. I was very close to her.
One day the sign I asked for came! A few years after her death, I was putting up Christmas decorations. I was taking out all the Christmas music boxes that she had given me throughout the years and placed them on the kitchen table. My family and I went downstairs to decorate the tree.
After we were done, we were all hanging out downstairs. I decided to head up stairs and started putting lights up and I said "Grandma, if you are here with me now, please give me a sign" which I have asked tons of time before. One of the music boxes on the table in the other room started playing a song loud and clear. I felt this rush of emotions go through me. My daughter walks up the stairs... She asked, "Mom, why are you crying?" I said, "Grandma is with us today!" I do believe it was my Grandma that played that for me to let me know she is with me. That was the one and only time.
I am a very black and white person and I know in the spiritual world you need to see gray. Does anyone know how I can bring down these walls, so I can have more experiences like this?
My great grandpa on mom's side talks via dreams - my grandpa on dad's side pops in every once in a while (feelings/scents), and now thinking about it, grandma (dad's) mom seems to help me remember holidays, odd as that is.
I can't point to a corner and say 'there's grandma,' it's more like I remember them SO CLEARLY and can't get them out of my head type thing. I think if that happens to you, you can rest easy - they don't want to interfere, they just want to check in.