I am a young lady from South Africa. All my life I have been sensitive to things that aren't there. It puts me on edge. I am sure that there is a ghost that goes where I go because things seem to occur regardless of where I am. At first I thought the ghost just hung around my family but it continued after I moved out.
When I was much younger my mom and older sister heard something whisper "hello" to them one night from a doorway where no one was standing. After my older sister moved out and we moved cities, my mom and her new husband heard coughing from inside their cupboard, which upon inspection revealed nothing. I would suddenly get completely cold and covered in goose bumps in the middle of a 45-degree day. Activity was always low and strange things occurred one long after the other. Then when I moved out I became even more aware, at first my husband and I shared a place with friends and I would not have noticed any activity there because the house was always full of strangers at strange times of the day or night. When my husband and I moved into our own place activity happened more often and has started being even more often within the past 8 months. I hear sighs in the flat, object move while we are not home. Heavy objects! I hear sounds of teaspoons in the kitchen, I wake up feeling watched more and more often during the night. Once I was in the bathroom with doors and windows closed when a pencil rolled right across the floor. I hear cupboard doors creaking, I wake up from sounds of movement in the flat. Let me say that we have a tiny one bedroom apartment (used to be a garage) with no pets. The most recent thing is that I woke up from the sound of my house keys being picked up and placed on the counter...twice. These types of occurrences happen whether I am at home or at work and have been more frequent lately.
Is it possible that this is all just from paranoia or could it be that I have a ghost "friend" that goes where I go? And why would there suddenly be more activity? Asking for any information here or any explanations.
Has anyone in your family that you were close to passed recently?
Try keeping a journal in order to determine or discern any patterns. You say that sometimes you feel that it is upset because the activity increases. By keeping a journal, maybe you can ascertain what is upsetting it, be it something you or your husband has done or is doing that it deems wrong. Or maybe it is an outside influence such as, and I'm just spit-balling here, the cycle of the moon, time of month, weather patterns etc. That is affecting it.
I hope this helps
Neph