I'm a 23-year-old guy from Finland, Lapland. I'm skinny and quite small, having long blond hair and a lot of piercings. Trust me, this will be important.
Where I live, it's in the middle of a forest, the closest neighbor is miles away. I had some weird things happen in my house, like, random cups of tea would appear in the weirdest places, and I don't even drink tea.
In 2017, I was super anti-social and had super bad anxiety, but one day, I woke up happy and feeling social. But as soon as my Mom came to visit me, I felt mad at her, which never happened! After she left, I felt hands gently holding my waist, like a hug, that freaked me out, since I hate being touched. My family is Wiccan, so, I thought it was Hercules getting mad. But, anything I did, I would still feel like I was getting touched. After I came out as gay, the touches only got worse. I started to hear some voice behind me, talking in Russian.
This whole thing stopped for one year since 2019, everything got back. But, I started seeing glances of some tall, 7'1 guy with a uniform, walking around my house or in my mirror. I was freaked out but as days went on, I started seeing the figure more clearly. Now, this was a guy, nice and clean, blond hair, blue eyes. I asked it questions via Ouija board, and it only answered two out of like, a million. He told his name and age, his name was Vladim, and he died when he was only 22. As the months went by, I got used to him, I understood his voice, yet it's still really quiet and echoey. He would compliment me, warn me about stuff, calm me down, and eventually, aka, today, told me what happened to him.
This all sounds crazy, I've gone to therapists and doctor, yet I'm still not diagnosed with any kind of disorders. I've told my dad, whose family has dealt with all kinds of ghosts and spirits, and he told me to just accept it, not to anger it.
He has told me that I look like his best friend from when he was in the war, which is why he likes to hang around me, it is weird, as I look really edgy and stuff.
I guess I'll be updating this, while I'm writing this, Vladim is sitting across me, watching me with a bit of disappointment.
Is your house near any area where there was a big battle or something else significant? How do you communicate with Vladim, do you know russian? Have you identified the rank of the uniform? Did he talk about when or how he died, was it against Finns or against Germans?
You should be careful about him. He seems like he's being possessive about you. Staring and stalking doesn't sound very friendly, and the possibility that he was the one trying to drive a wedge between you and your mother. There's also the fact that he's a soviet (and over seven feet is a very unnatural height).
Somebody here suggested that he might be tricking you and/or trying to possess you. Does he have other physical resemblance to you beside hair color? In what way is he touching you? Does he spend all day staring at you?
If I was being stalked and touched by a russkie ghost, i'd get somebody to get rid of him.