Flickering Entity And A Strange Scent

My first ever ghost experience happened in Coquitlam BC, CA. I was 15 years old. I was hanging around the house with my boyfriend Max when we decided to watch a movie. We popped it in the VCR and started it. Just then, the TV shut off, and the power went out. It startled me, but I checked my patio to see if there was a storm, but the sky was only overcast, only on the verge of starting to mist.

I went and lit some candles and just decided to read for a bit, and told Max he could go home. So he did. Just then, I smelled something that smelled like propane, and it was coming from the hall. I carefully got up, and walked down the hall to the cellar, where the sickening scent seemed to be emanating from. I opened the door and walked downstairs, and stopped myself short on the last step. There was a 6 foot male standing across the cellar, a few meters away from me. He was pitch black, like a shadow, and he was flickering. There were no lights or any candles. At first I thought it was my shadow, but when I walked over towards it, it disappeared.

I still, to this day, cannot figure out what it was. I know it was probably just my imagination playing tricks on me, or my own body casting a shadow against the wall. But I was still pretty spooked and decided to spend the night at Max's place. Another weird thing happened to me a couple days later.

I had just gotten home from school and my mum was in the shower, as I could hear her singing. I just walked into my room and started to do my homework when I smelled that smell again. But this time, it was coming from the bathroom. I thought maybe the smell of shampoo and soap were too weak to prevent my mother from smelling that disturbing scent, so I knocked on the door, and then the shower shut off. I thought she was finished, so I walked inside. The curtains were still closed, but there was a weird, silent moaning sound coming from over there, so I threw open the covers and stared into the empty bathtub. Nobody was there, except for a faint, black shape of a woman's torso lying in there, as if she were having a bath. She was singing to herself, and then vanished before my eyes. The smell went away. Occasionally I still see her figure for a couple seconds, but it always disappears before I can get a good look at it. I never saw the male shadow again after that.

Then, the physical stuff started happening. Just last night, I was lying in bed watching TV when I felt something like a hand lightly brush my thigh and go up until it was at my waist, then stopped and went away. Suddenly, the room got really hot, so I took off my pajamas because I knew I was alone. I closed my eyes and went to sleep, but just then, I felt a male's hand grip my inner thighs and push them apart. My eyes snapped open, and I tried to move, but couldn't. Even breathing was a little challenging. It started rubbing my legs, and then I felt its weight on my body, and it kissed me on the lips, and it felt like it was tracing my jaw line with its mouth. I shivered, and prayed to God to make it stop, though I wasn't a Christian, and then it was gone. I don't know if it'll happen again tonight, but if it does, I'll be sure to write it down again as soon as possible. However, my schedule is really busy and it's rare for me to actually find a time where I'm on Your Ghost Stories and it won't say 'Juvenile stories' and stuff like that.

If anybody can help me with these entities and what I believe to be called an Incubus, could you please comment and help me?

Thanks that would great.