Comments for My Husband... My Haunting: Page 1

I admit it was a bad idea. But this story has been changed around and there are things that are missing. It was my wifes idea to bring it home.

Nickalopalis92,
If you are the topic of this story then at some point you must have realized that playing around with a Ouija board wasn't such a bright idea. If you never got to that point where you feared you had brought something home that may be a danger to your wife and children, then there's nothing more anyone can tell you.

Sorry,
Jav

Ok, well that's not how it happened and I don't appreciate this verson of the story making me look like a complete nutcase.

I read this story yesterday but since I was at work, I couldn't comment on it right away. What I'm going to say is nothing new because everyone else has mentioned what I have thought. I totally agree with Jave and BJJ. I may not be married or be a mother but I work as a social worker and I have seen so many crazy sh*t. Among them, the worst is the manipulators. Your first priority should be your kids. Weather your husband likes it or not, do the cleansing method provided by Rook right away. You mentioned that the paranormal activity has gone down for now. This is the best time to do it as this is the time there would be less disturbance from outside forces (either from this world or the other world). Your husband has to see the doctors for his physical or mental health because that is the main cause for all the activity. I know your husband said that he didn't want to take medications because of what his mother is going but this is the only way to do it. BJJ is right in that there are treatments available that use little to no medication and also there are medications that are not invasive to other parts of the body.

Like other posters have said, you and your children should be the priority. Give him the ultimatum choice: either go for a medical checkup and get the treatment and help in getting rid of all negativity in the house or you and the children leave. Children are more sensitive to the paranormal stuff and they don't need to go though with this because their father isn't willing to get the proper help needed.

You may have a bit of a problem... Some things that can cut down on manifestation is to put out bowls of sea salt and white vinegar to evaporate in the areas where manifestation happens, also you and your husband and child should say protection prayers to the divine together. One example would be the ST. Michael Prayer...

Saint Michael the Archangel,
Defend us in battle.
Be our protection against the wickedness and snares of the devil.
May God rebuke him, we humbly pray;
And do Thou, O Prince of the Heavenly Host -
By the Divine Power of God -
Cast into hell, satan and all the evil spirits,
Who roam throughout the world seeking the ruin of souls.

Amen.

Also, psalm 91 and 71 said out loud are good too.

Getting some sage and burning it in the house letting the smoke fill the rooms every couple of days help as well.

I know this is a complicated issue and I am willing to assist in any way I can.

Feel free to pm me if you have more questions or want to talk.

Whether or not your situation involves the paranormal, it involves some disturbing medical, emotional and legal issues you and your husband should deal with immediately. First, he needs medical help, physically and psychologically. I hope he has access to both. He needs help dealing with his anxiety disorder, insomnia and bad dreams, as well as coming to terms with his childhood and his belief that he has a darkness within him, which is hogwash in my opinion. If you accept there are demons, rule #1 is they are terrible liars. Don't believe a word they say. Second, at this point, I would characterize the situation with his "assistant manager" (is this person his superior?) as workplace harassment at worst or as the assistant manager creating a toxic work environment at best. He needs to lodge a formal complaint with the employer and possibly report this to the police. I gather the assistant manager is missing and you are afraid of what might happen. He brought the board to work and for all you know he could be dangerous. Lastly, if you are convinced there is a paranormal element to all this, I would contact a reputable paranormal investigator in your area and seek help. Alternatively, seek help from your church if they are willing to give it. Although you husband is 20 (so a bit old for this phenomenon), I wonder if the incidents in the home you describe could be poltergeist activity, given the stress, emotional turmoil and exhaustion he is under.

Your husband reminds me of someone I grew up with. Very coddled, always got his way. It ruined his marriage, as he was not able to let go of his mother and sister- bringing them into areas of the marriage he shouldn't have. He never put his young children at risk, which is what your husband is doing messing with spirit boards... I do hope he finds peace within himself.

Wow! First off... I have read the other comments and I must agree with Javelina and some of the other posters. Sometimes when a person looks for answers on a ouija board, other things come through. This is one reason why I am so against using this. You might have another "spirit"...possibly a poltergeist in your home now. Of course your first priority is your young children. Try Rook's recipe for cleansing and try to keep all of this darkness out of your home and away from your children. You and your husband are quite young so I hope you take this advice and utilize it.

Good luck, zeta.

Most of what I thought about when reading your story everyone before me has already said. So I suppose I won't say the same things, but I do agree your husband should be treated for his anxiety/depression. One thing I have started to learn about is laws of attraction, where like attracts like. Your husband grew up in very negative situations. So it makes sense when you say or he said he has been followed his whole life. And now it sounds like there is a lot of tension in your lives as well as fear. Anything you can do to put some positiveness in your life like music you really like, I think the Bibles were a good idea, not showing fear -as hard as it maybe- would probably help. At least I hope so! I wish the best for you and your family.

Rea

Rook: I'm really surprised that you didn't get a karma point (not that you care for points), because that's very true statements about church and baptism. I would have voted you up, but it says 'vote for someone else', so i'll hit you with the invisble karma point (created by Redphx).

JS aka Brandon

Executionista,

First, some very good advice has been given to you... Everything natural/mental has to be considered and ruled out before the paranormal can even begin to be considered. But first things first...

Please tell me that your Husband does not believe... In any shape or form this statement you made concerning what the 'Board' said...

"symbollically the son of satan" This is either a cruel joke by the guy's he works with or... If something was 'contacted' a Malevolent Spirit trying to cause fear.

As far as a 'demonic' entity 'counting backwards' or pointing to the alphabet in 'reverse order' in an attempt to 'escape' the board...No...sorry doesn't happen... If it wanted to escape it would not give you a 1 in 26 chance (alphabet) or a 1 in 10 chance (the numbers 0-9) of 'closing the session, it would simply scare the 'HELL' out of you so that you do not close the 'session' properly, which 'creates' it's entry point.

With everything your Husband has been through in his life there is a good chance that something negative has attached itself to him... It likes the energy and atmosphere around him... This can change... And it doesn't take a 'Demonologist' to make it change. Therapy... Simple therapy CAN help.

As far as going to church goes...It's not about the building...it's about the TEACHINGS...It's about having FAITH. What makes your Husband 'squirm' in Church may have nothing to do with the 'Message' but HOW it's being taught. A way around 'going' to Church is to start reading Scriptures in the house... Pick a day, once a week, and start at the beginning... Read a few verses and then discuss what you have read. As this becomes easier move on to two nights a week...ect...ect...this is something you can do right before going to bed... You can involve the whole family or just have it be you and your husband and slowly work the kids in. A word of cation here concerning Baptism... Being Baptized is not an instant 'fix all' because without 'Faith', without accepting 'Christ' into your life it's just being 'dunked' in the water (I am not trying to scare you away from joining a Church, but please do it for the Right reasons not because you are scared).

The important thing is to START... START Therapy... START Scripture study... Just START.

Please feel free to ask any questions you may have... Oh and I offer this as well...

Recipe for a Home Cleansing/Shielding... (allow for two or 3 days to complete)

Day one: Open all curtains window and doors with screens installed, let fresh air and sunshine into the home. Have all closets, cabinets and other 'dark spaces' open so that as much natural light as possible can enter those spaces. After 2-3 hours take a broom and 'sweep' out each room (this is symbolic and you do not have to really sweep) focus your thoughts on sweeping (pushing) out all negative energies / entities /thoughts. Close home up after completing each room of your home... Please do not forget your garage if you have one. (Optional) Light incense (sandalwood or Dragons-blood works well for me) and let aroma fill the home, and/or play a tape that contains your favorite Church/Positive, Upbeat (songs that give you good thoughts) songs before you begin sweeping.

Day two (or three): Once again open all curtains, windows and doors. Take a White candle (Optional) to the center most point of the home, sit on the floor and place candle in front of you. Light the candle (visualize a white ball of light) and then focus on the flame... Visualize the flame (white light) filled with positive thoughts, energy. (Say a prayer at this time if you so desire... Ask for cleansing positive energy to fill the candles flame/white light). Hold this 'image' in your mind and then visualize the flame (light) slowly expanding outward, visualize it filling the room your in, every corner and 'dark space'. Continue to visualize it expanding...it's outer edges pushing away (burning away) any and all negative energies/entities out and away from each room in your home. Once you have visualized this flame (light) filling your entire home, picture it expanding to your property lines. Hold this image in your mind for a few moments then visualize 'anchoring' this flame (light) where you are sitting which is the center most point of your home. Once you have done this. Take a deep breath, relax a few moments and then blow out the candle. (If you didn't use a candle just let yourself relax a moment or two.) "

Now you can create a shield for yourself using the 'home shield' technique but instead of focusing on your home visualize the 'flame' simply surrounding you instead of your home... Best time to do this is after a nice shower using a rosemary scented soap (rosemary is good for purification and protection.)

Please keep us updated.

Respectfully,

Rook

Executionista,
I understand, you know him, I don't. There are a couple of things you should keep in mind, and this is just from experience and raising my own kids. Mothers dote on sons. I am being serious here. Mother in laws can either be your friend or your worst enemy. Because no matter how good you are to him, you'll never be good enough. And having already experienced this, and I am sure you have, it's hard to get to a place where the two of you can make peace. It's a tough one, but if I can do it, anyone can.
Now, as I mentioned before, you are another mother figure in his life, it was inevitable, and we all are that way for our husbands. It's just the way it works out. There are wives reading this right now just nodding their heads and rolling their eyes in agreement, trust me. What needs to be determined by you, because you are the only one who can, is how good an actor could he be if he wanted something bad enough? Be honest with yourself. Because I know people that will go to ridiculous lengths to get their way or to not have to admit something was a bad idea that went too far. Since mom would eventually give in, they aren't used to having to step up and say they screwed up. You must know the type, never wrong, always someone else's fault, wouldn't admit they were mistaken no matter if the house was falling down on top of them. That's a conditioned response from never having to answer for their misdeeds. We are seeing far too much of this behavior these days, in my opinion. And I'm still blaming that crap on the Hippies who wouldn't discipline their children and called them 'artistic' and 'free thinkers' as their child is being marched off the school grounds with a police escort.
But I digress...
Sorry about that, I am known for my rants.
If none of this applies, great. I hope I am wrong. Either way, this guy needs professional help hun. It doesn't mean he's crazy or damaged, it just means he needs to be checked out physically and emotionally first. Because from all indications, he has brought this on himself. And along with that, he has brought it home to you and the kids too. Knowingly. He didn't stop when you asked him to. He said he would, but he didn't. Right there you have trouble. He is determined to go through this no matter what it does to the rest of the family. If you can live with that, more power to you. Me? I would have kicked his a$$ long ago. That's what I said. Not kick his butt out, I would have kicked his butt. But not in front of the kids of course.

Jav

[at] Javelina: I have no intentions to yell at you, I am a very open minded person. It does make sense, because he has always been drawn to the darker things. Not going as far as casting circles or worshiping satan. More like he used to have black out anger fits when we were dating. He would turn into another person. Mind you I did not marry him until that had subsided. I have not seen him have an 'episode' in quite some time. But I admittedly have not seen anything actually happen, other than my daughter end up outside about to fall down some stairs, but I was in another room folding laundry and walked in on that. If I tell him to go stay somewhere else to calm down, he simply says "I don't want to leave." And get's offended.

He is very easily irritable, and lately I've noticed he supposedly sleep walks. I have not seen it, but there has been a situation a couple of nights ago where I woke up and his head was completely shaved. He woke up and I commented on it, he gives me a look and goes to the bathroom and comes back quickly looking freaked out saying he had no memory of doing that. But there was no real mess left behind. All his hair was in the trash and some in the toilet with lots of tissue. He said he faintly remembers what seemed like a dream of him doing it, but he did NOT remember actually acting it out. Sleep walking scares me.

My kids are definitely my first priority, I'd definitely drive him away if I saw real danger come to call but I don't feel anything is directed toward them specifically. He's really good with them. Other than the typical kid screaming, you shout 'stop' here and there. My oldest is very loud and rambunctious.

I've talked to his boss and he tells me the same things my husband tells me about the ouija. And his mom, I've witnessed first hand her actions/attitude/manipulation. We lived with her for a few months before we got our apartment because we were low on funds. She treats him like he's 2 years old, and like she should have the say over what he does, and his money. She borrows large amounts of money from him for pills, or used to I should say. I told him if he loaned her anything else and it took away from our kids or our bills he would have to leave. Harsh maybe, but as long as she keeps him on a keychain he's never going to get better that way either.

His father has Parkinsons disease, so he's worsening everyday, his mother treats his father terribly, she is a hypochondriac I swear.

I know he used to take advantage of me before we got married, but we separated for 3 months and after that he seems different, just this problem arose maybe a month ago with the ouija thing. But he's had anger/depression the better part of his life. And he tends to have anxiety attacks the most if we argue, if I finally snap at him he goes into shock almost. There was one incident where I thought he had a heart attack and it turned out to be a severe anxiety attack.

BJJ and Jav gave some great advice. I would really soak in those words if I were you. I hope everything works out though. Your family are in my prayers.

JS aka Brandon

I want to add that I agree with Jav concerning the kids. Their safety is your top priority. If your hubby is unwilling to do whatever it takes to resolve this, and chooses instead to carry on this way, you may have to make some unpleasant decisions.

A good therapist can help him deal with his issues without medication, or at least very little. The anxiety does need to be addressed though, as anxiety can make him more susceptible to negative influence and keep this situation going on. To be honest, a lot of what you're describing sounds like poltergeist activity. A common theory concerning poltergeists is that they are the result of stress. I'm trying to figure out the easiest way to describe poltergeists, and having trouble finding my words today.
A person going through a stressful period can "contaminate" their environment if they aren't dealing with their stress properly. The stress and emotional turmoil that they are experiencing can sometimes begin to act out on its own as a form of unintentional telekenesis. Poltergeist activity can do different things, from opening and closing doors to making things appear from thin air. The poltergeist is usually spawned by a teenager, but anyone of any age can be the source for the activity if their stress level is high enough.
The best way to get rid of poltergeist activity is to resolve the cause of the stress. Until the issue is resolved, trying to relax is a good way to keep poltergeist activity under control. Meditation, taking a walk, healthy outlets for tension should bleed off enough stress to calm the activity. I really think in your husband's case therapy and relaxation will go a long way to finding peace.
If you find your peace in religion, go with it. Some people find a great deal of comfort in church and if it works for you, do it. But, don't be too upset if your hubby doesn't find the same peace in religion that you do. The "scare'em saved" attitude that you said he grew up with can make church uncomfortable for some people.
My opinion, for what it's worth, is that with everything he's dealing with, the Ouija entity just perceived him as an easy target and decided to lie to play with him. I really do hope yall can get this under control. My prayers are with your family.

Executionista,
BadJuuJuu was absolutely right. Your husband wants this, he sounds as if he is enjoying it far too much.
Also, you say his mother coddled him? Since he's been with you he's been working, correct? With this being his second job? I may be presuming some things I shouldn't but I just see this whole scenario as all of his making. Because of his telling you most of what happened when he was away from you and at work. Do you know for a fact that the asst manager gave him the board to bring home? Have you spoken to anyone else involved, or have they also, conveniently gone in other directions? I am merely concerned for the safety of you and your children here, but this whole situation looks to be completely guided by what he says has occurred. The Ouija board experience you had with him at home was also guided by him.
I realize he may have had a hard childhood but trust me, lots of us did. And it does not automatically make you a psychotic individual. I'm probably going to get my butt dragged through the mud for this, but I have to say what's in my heart. I think he's taking advantage of your willingness to believe he has a background full of abuse. Some things do get exaggerated over the course of telling them, especially if the response is sympathetic. You are another mother figure to him. He was able to manipulate her as well and still somehow make it all her fault. What she has been through, the loss of a child, is an horrific thing to have to deal with. And yes, he too has issues with the death of his brother. But these things do not a demon make. You may go ahead and scream at me all you want, that's fine. I expect that much. But if you are worried about anything, it should be your children's safety first. Get them and yourself out of the line of fire first. And know this, of all things you must remember, you cannot fix him. He wants this, that's a bad signal hun. Because whether it's real or fake, either way, you need to exit the situation with your children until he decides he wants to do something positive with his life. You cannot fix him, I cannot stress this any stronger than that. He needs to be a man, and he needs to decide for once on his own, without anyone else telling him. Because I promise you this, if you MAKE him do anything, you will be just another story like the one about his mom, and it will all be your fault in his eyes.

Sorry, but I can't hold this crap back.

Jav

BadJuuJuu:

No he hasn't and has never gotten treated for his anxiety disorder.
When his brother passed away at 16 [my husband was 10 at the time], he was the last remaining son of his parents. His mother pulled him out of school and bought him everything, pretty much howned in on him and sheltered him. He grew up to resent her deeply because of his low social skills and lack of general life skills I.E. He's had 2 jobs his whole life, because of ME. And is just now getting his drivers license at 20.
It's funny you mention the clarity thing, because a few days after that he asked me if it was weird that he kind of didn't want it gone.
I keep telling him what everyone's saying followed by "How many strangers, and family have to tell you basically the same things before you get it?"
He just stares at me with this lost look.
He says he's tried to accept jesus several times but just can't because it won't work for him. And no matter how many times he goes to church, if he doesn't on his own will accept him it will never change.

Lately nothing has happened, but I've heard there can be days, weeks, months without any activity just to taunt the living beings in the situation.

I'm going very soon to get my children baptized and myself. I really am at a loss on what to do with my husband. Church makes him squirm, he's really scared to do treatment because that's how his mom's addiction to medications came along, and he feels like ignoring it won't do anything.

First and foremost, is your husband being treated for his anxiety disorder? In my opinion, getting that sorted out will be beneficial in dealing with the paranormal aspect of the situation. It will be very difficult to fight off outside negativity if he isn't effectively dealing with his own inner negativity. If he isn't being treated for his anxiety, do whatever it takes to get him to accept treatment.
He also has to want the activity to stop. Your statement that he feels "clarity" makes me wonder if he isn't on some level enjoying this. It won't stop, regardless of how many bibles you throw at it, until he wants it gone. Period. I realize how harsh I sound, but it's a harsh situation. Any enjoyment he takes in the activity is an invitation for the activity to continue.
Spirits lie. Something in a Ouija board saying your husband is the son of satan don't make it so. Taking statements made on a Ouija board as truth is unwise. Never believe something just because it came from"the other side." The "other side" is just as full of crap as this side. Your husband is not, symbolically or otherwise, the son of satan.
Finally, this idiot manager who brought the board to work... Go over his head and report him for unprofessional conduct. Ouija sessions at work? Honestly? This guy has no business being a manager.

i totally agree with Nerd_Girl have your house blessed.
Im no expert and don't claim to be but things like whatever it is that is following your husband feed off negative energy and fear so like GabrielladeLioncourt said try to ignore it and don't act scared even though you understandably are.

Good luck ❤

My husband and I went to church last week and he was shaky and redfaced the whole time. After we got out he said he felt like his whole body was going to explode the entire time we were in there.

He also doesn't believe that ignoring it is going to keep it from terrorizing us.

I don't know of any mediums or demonologists around here, I could contact GA Paranormal, they do investigations free of charge, but they do NOT do blessings or exorsisms of any kind.

Your husband needs to seek counseling to deal with the past period. What goes in, must come out, and it will in various ways. IE: depression, anxiety, acting out, bad energy which attracts negative energy etc... It is my belief that trauma leaves energy out there also, leaving an imprint.
Ever heard the saying, "birds of a feather flock together?" Well, wouldn't it make sense that someone on the other side who is miserable, depressed etc... Would be drawn to your husband?
Some spirits act the same in death as they did in life and will pick on humans making them think they are demons and such. Your husband and co-workers opened up a door that needs to be closed. There are people on here that know how to do this properly and would be happy to assist you with that knowledge.
I wish your family the best in resolution in the matter.

Blessed BE

I think his depression and anxiety is due to all the "cr*p" he went through his life.

But I'm not saying there is no demon. I think you should get a demonologist and fast to your house and for your husband to consult him too. If you can't get a demonologist, maybe a medium will do. And if you do come in contact with one of the 2 professionals maybe you should have your kids stay at a friends house or someone of trust?

I know how scared you are, I have been through a lot that is very similar and believe it or not you could get out of it. But you have to ignore this presence (if possible), act like you arent afraid, they feed on your fear, that's letting them have a certain control over you.

Please get help, we never know if this entity could get more agressive.

I wish you and your familly all the best ❤

PS:If you want to contact me about my experiences that are very similar to yours, tell me and I will give you my email.

Bless your house for starters, and consult someone about your husband.