The Valentines Visitor

Hi Shadowspirit,

Hope everything works out for the both of you.
If you decide that you no longer want to have
a relationship with her I'd be quite happy to
'adopt' her (I've 'fostered' other Succubi/
Incubi that other people decided they didn't
want where relationships are concerned). If
this is your choice please check my previous
posts to see how to contact me.
Succubusluver69

While skepticism can be a good thing, I would like to point out that some people who haven't experianced wet dreams can still experiance succubi/incubi activity

[at] JarMan: Exactly! I don't even think succubi/incubi are real beings. They were a creation of the middle ages to explain wet dreams for boys and made for a less embarrassing explanation for pre-marital pregnancies in teenage girls.

I really, really dislike these sorts of stories on the website. In over half of these stories, it's almost always pre-teen or teenagers who post these stories.

Considering most kids suffer from sexual frustration, I chalk it almost all up to teenage hormones, sexual frustration, whatever.

I mean have any of you heard of wet dreams -- seriously?

So it would be strange to keep her around. Why?

If you like what shes doing, and prehaps even like her company then there's no reason to not keep her around. Though she does have a say in it too. Have you asked how long she wants to stay?

Relationship could be a term, or friendship. Or even cohabitation. Victem is really more of a word for "oh god get it away get it away!" imo.

Whats she like as a person?

i don't feel like a victim, I just didn't have a better word to describe someone who is on the recieving end of this

Honestly, I would like to keep her around me, although since I moved the encounters have been decreasing, and it is quite nice having her pleasure me, and would be strange having her around

sorry for the long wait for a reply, I havnt been on the site as much as there hasn't been any experiences I havnt told you or worth writing out, as well as moving house

= no worries, we all have lives lol.

I don't know if personality varies in succubi and I don't know if they just take it or wait to see if their "victim" wants an invitiation

- do you Really feel like a victim? There Is the possibility she wolnt hurt you, you know. Though it does seem like you've resigned to the inevitable idea that she Will.

Honestly, I don't want to get too attatched to her, because if she knows I do, she'll screw around with my head for more attention, if you get what I'm saying

= well they Are like people. If you don't want her around you should ask her to leave. Otherwise you're basicly sending mixed signals. Mixed signals cause people to have problems imo.

Im waiting until something serious happens (such as minor injuries or forced sex) before taking action. So far none of this has happened yet, and I don't think it will, it's been almost a year since I've known her, so yeah.

= again this sort of comes back to you're treating her like shes going to explode and go berzerk. She has a personality, and its been my experiance that demons (if that's what she is) can have more patience then people especially if ground rules are established. Treating her like a timebomb is going to make her feel rejected, I know I've said that before but if she Is a demon she's far far older then you are and spirits in general do deserve to be treated like people:/

If all you do is wait for her to "slip up" and "violate you" that's really not a good atmosphere for either of you. If you don't want her around you should talk to her. If you want to be Just friends, you really need to talk to her and set that ground rule. Spirits are reasonable or at least as reasonable as people. If anything bad did happen, there really isn't much she really Can do to you. Especially if you remain unafraid and insist she leave. I might be misjudging you but prehaps abit more dialogue on this vein can clear matters up.

Do you know if you Do want her there, or what you want?

sorry for the long wait for a reply, I havnt been on the site as much as there hasn't been any experiences I havnt told you or worth writing out, as well as moving house

I don't know if personality varies in succubi and I don't know if they just take it or wait to see if their "victim" wants an invitiation

Honestly, I don't want to get too attatched to her, because if she knows I do, she'll screw around with my head for more attention, if you get what I'm saying

Im waiting until something serious happens (such as minor injuries or forced sex) before taking action. So far none of this has happened yet, and I don't think it will, it's been almost a year since I've known her, so yeah.

Prehaps shes waiting for you to respond to her invitation? If a human woman you knew for a while, and who liked to just play abit, suddenly slept with you... Wouldn't you talk to her about it or do something romantic for her to feel appreciated?

Prehaps shes been trying to accomidate you all along, and has gone out of her way to be good to you or interact with you meaningfully? She could easily feel you're on the cusp of rejecting her. In other posts I've seen you respond to others and suddenly refer to her as "it". To me that mentality isn't going to show her affection.

From everything you've posted I'm not sure you really treat her like a person, insomuch as you treat her as a curiousity or as an experiance to be endured once in a while. Maybe you should really think about if you want her in your life, or if you'd rather she leave? Because if you give mixed signals and respond occasionally you're leading her on. Don't think of her as some demon, think of her as a Person who chose to be with you. Trust your instincts, let yourself open and be sensitive to the emotional vibrations she gives off. Follow your heart!:)

Obviously she was holding you down, having her way with you, and making out with you while you were awake.

i think that if you set up candles around your room and roses or something, and call out to her, she might feel like you really care for her and you could make her feel alive, and maybe she will somehow turn real for a couple of minutes and that would make her happy. Make her feel like she deserves nice treats, I mean, shes been really good to you, so you should be good to her too. 😁 ❤

I don't think that it is a succubus... If it is a woman ghost then it would look human. I heard from someone that a Succubus and an Incubus are in White mist form, and the lady I think she died there in there or where ever you live... ~~Eclipse2000

lost track of days its been. Been 1 encounter since this recently though. Ill post a story later tonight about it

i know

Well its been about 9 days now, I'm sure if she was going to do it again she would of done, so I guess it was just a 1-off thing to make me feel better about the fact I was single on valentines day?

Perhaps. I've had two demons (if she a demon) state that they don't care for holidays because they are not from their world. But like I've always said everyone is different and they ALL have different beliefs and views. I really can't say for sure what she was thinking all I can say is what I think could have happened.

i don't really know about what their beliefs were, but I suppose that she had some knowledge of it, and took her chance while she could to try and get "better acquanted" with me? I suppose?

I think she knew you knew it was valentines day. You made a very big deal about it and also you expressed if you should do anything for her. I think she took the initiative to give you a present. Let me put it this way; if she was in her world with her species she wouldn't be celebrating Valentines Day. It has no meaning to her but it did for you. At least that is my opinion.

will be posting an update next time I have the chance, and when something happens to me that deserves posting