My Nan's house is haunted by an old woman (I did some research) she would of been 127 years old as of 6th of December 2011. Not only did I do research but the old woman used to appear to me at night and talk to me about what she used to do and how she had died. She died at the age of 76 from a heart attack. She said that she was angry but not with me she had died of a heart attack because she was so shocked that her husband had cheated on her.
I asked her this question: "How did you die?" She answered:
"I caught my husband, Hugh, cheating on me I came home with some meat and some fruit and he was there with another woman kissing her and as I walked into the house they were walking upstairs. I was so shocked I had a heart attack."
She had died in my Nan's house, my Nan moved in the house in 1996. It's quite sad to talk to her because she's telling me about her life, but actually really interesting learning about 1899 and all of the 1990's I told her about the new technology we have now. I have been talking to her since I was 5.
I had asked her if she could communicate with Hugh this is was she had said:
"Yes I can communicate with Hugh. He tells me he wishes he never had cheated on me, that I was the woman he wanted and no one else. Unlucky I cannot escape from this house, I wish not to though as I have your Grandmother to keep me company and I have you to keep me informed about the new technology and new new about the world."
Her story had touched me so much that I got my medium friend Matt to pass her on over to the other side, because I knew that's what she really wanted.
I don't understand why you're so insistant that YOUR experiences should be the standard for everyone else. Maybe the reason it takes you so long to glean information from spirits is because THEY DONT LIKE ALL YOUR NEGATIVE ENERGY?