I have always been interested in ghosts supernatural type things, but I have always had a love/fear type relationship with them! People always tell me about their cool experiences with ghosts but I have never had one until last night.
I was in the middle of an argument with my Fiance and I was sitting on the edge of my bed with my hands on my face and my elbows on my knees. Directly infront of me was a mirror and to the left was a tv. I look up and sit there for a short period of time. While staring at the mirror I see something directly next to my hair (which was up in a messy bun). It wasn't a figure or a face it was just a black shadow and it came out from the side of my head and then went back behind it!
It automatically freaked me out and I jumped back to the left corner of my bed, which my fiance was on the right, and demanded he turn the mirror around and still at this very moment that mirror is turned around. So the next day I tell my mother about what happened she let me know that a couple nights ago she had just fell asleep and my mom sleeps with no one in her room, but right after she fell asleep she woke up to the sound of breathing by her ear she sat up and said "STOP IM TRYING TO SLEEP" rolled over and tried to go back to sleep. Within a matter of 15 minutes she heard the breathing again and this time she felt as if she felt someone paw her bed as if a cat would!
I then called a friend who lived with me at one point in time seeing as we have lived here for 6-7 years and I asked her had she ever felt anything "weird" in the house she said as in what? I described to her what was going on and she told me "The only time I ever felt anything was when you would be in the bathroom getting ready or something and I would be in your bedroom by myself and I would just feel as if you were in there with me." I said "That I was in there with you?" she then said "As if someone was in there like that someone was looking at her she didn't feel alone." To me I felt as if she was just trying to add fuel to the fire by making up some ridiculous story!
Then right after that my other friend who has been over plenty of times through out the years called me out of no where, I asked her the exact same question as my first friend and she told me "I always felt as if when you went to the bathroom that someone was in the room with me I always had to look over my shoulder I would never feel comfortable until I checked no one was there." Then it hit me. Two girls who never communicate with each other said the exact same thing word for word!
I don't know what to think or what to do! I didn't start feeling or experiencing anything until my Fiance moved in with us. Please someone give me a little advice. Hell, I don't know, anything. I'm not wanting to get rid of it! I just want to understand what's going on so I won't be as afraid to be in my own home! Because its never done anything mean or to hurt us.