I am new to this website and found it because I was looking up hauntings and I would like some advice on whether I have a ghost in my home or not...
My boyfriend and I live in an old house in the historical centre of an old town in Sardinia. Everything was fine when we first moved in (I should point out that we rent our house), but over the last few months strange things have started happening. The strange things normally happen when I'm home alone.
First it started with the lights in our house flickering, again I would be in the house by myself. (My boyfriend and I work in aviation so we work shifts which is why I'm home alone a bit.) I put down to old wiring as our house is over 100-years-old. Then after a few months of this, I would be getting up earlier (0400) and I would find all the taps downstairs on, there is no reason for this.
This has been going on randomly for a while, normally when I'm home alone. One morning I woke up and I had two scratches on the upper part of my right leg. I have no idea to this day how I got them. I ignored this, although I will admit I was freaked out. (I have a picture of the scratches but don't know how to upload) so I carried on as per normal.
But tonight (I'm home alone again) I went to the upstairs to go to bed and I could hear what I can only describe as groaning coming from the bathroom, which scared me as I had no rational explanation for it and I was too scared to go in and see what it might be.
I have spoken to my boyfriend about what is happening, but he is very much a seeing or experiencing is believing sort of person and nothing seems to happen when he is around, but he cannot be around all the time.
I know my story isn't thrilling, but I would like some information as to what could be happening and how to deal with it. Is my house haunted?
Sorry for not posting back for such a while, I haven't been on the website for a while due to life being a bit hectic!
Thank you so much for your comments and help, I now no longer live in the house in question due to my boyfriend and I breaking up but I thought I would update you with developments that happened before I left.
After posting my experience I had a friend stay at my house whilst my boyfriend and I were away (she had to move out of her apartment) the thing with the taps happened to her too and I had never mentioned to her my experience as I didn't want to frighten her.
I also woke up one morning with a bruise that looked like a bite mark on my leg (my boyfriend was away and no, I hadn't been naughty) that was quiet scary.
Lastly I woke up in the middle of the night and couldn't move, I was conscious but couldn't move any part if my body. I don't remember why but my boyfriend woke up and then I was able to move again.
It wasn't long after that that my relationship ended and I moved into a new home and have had no signs of anything 'going bump in the night' and my new home is in the new section of town. I did try to ask the landlady for a history of the house but all she said was that she inherited it from her grandfather and that he had died...
Thank you all for posting back, using rational explanations did help me feel more relaxed whilst I was there alone even though the things I mentioned happened on a regular basis. Thank you all again.