I have been told that I am highly magnetic to spirits and this would explain a lot. They seem to follow me around and no matter what house I am in, I hear things.
One instance was when I lived in my previous house, I would go upstairs to take a nap in the daytime, which by the way is a common time for them to play with me, and as soon as I laid down, knocking from one end of the room to the head of my bed. I have been awoken by knocking on my bedroom door, and thinking it was my kids, I opened it and no one was there. My mother-in-law also heard knocking at the bathroom door, and she opened it, no one. I have had my head on the pillow and heard a tapping on the pillow right in front of my face. A man said "Come lay with me."
Fast forward, I am in a new house. I separated from my husband and at the house from before, the spirit appeared upset and tossed his laptop of a coffee table 2 times, right in front of his eyes. And his mother had someone hit a bracelet right off her wrist. In the new house, my son came around the corner, and I heard "momma" really loud. And he says "That was weird" and I said "What? Did you hear a little girl say momma?" And he said "Yes". I told him I was so used to things like that, I usually just ignore it but at least it is proof to me that I am not going crazy.
The knocking only happened once in the new house. My husband and I were working things out and he stayed over and thee was knocking on the wall above our heads. I said "So you hear the knocking?" Mind you, I was half asleep at the time, and he said "Yeah, I hear it". He never wanted to believe these things were happening because they usually only happen when I am alone. But he believes now!
Thank you for sharing! I'm a wee bit uncertain of what your expectations are though, whether you are content to carry on along with the spirits or if you are looking to curtail the activity. If the latter is the case, then I believe a simple cleansing would be in order, please see Rookdygin's page for a simple yet extremely effective cleansing: http://www.yourghoststories.com/user-profile.php?user=8155
Hope this post helps, and best of luck patching things up with hubby!
Cheers~~Antu