Recently my Mum has spoken, in our living room, about scattering my Grandma's ashes into a river that she requested in her Will. We have had the ashes in our living room since she died 6 years ago.
My mum spoke about this in front of me, 2 of my sisters, my aunty and uncle (her brother and sister) to which we all agreed on.
The 3 of them plus my dad and my aunty and uncles partners will be going down to this particular river in a few weeks to scatter them.
Since my mum has spoken about this a lot of strange things have been going on, particularly this week.
On the weekend my mum went into the kitchen to find the toaster had been turned on, without anything in it. As she noticed this she heard a knocking/scratching at our back door. We have a cat so she opened it to let him in... He was upstairs and no one was there.
The next day I was stood in the living room staring out of the window and saw a woman's reflection - as though behind me - enter the living room from the kitchen and walk over to where my grandma's ashes are. I turned, thinking it was my mum but there was no one there.
The SAME day I was driving back to mine from a friends and was reversing my car up the drive... A woman with a long dress on was standing in front of my dad's car as though waiting for me, when I looked again she had gone. I checked with my mum and dad that it wasn't them and when I explained why I'd asked, my dad told us both that he had seen something to the day before. He said he had been sitting in the living room watching the TV and saw a reflection in the window - as though behind him - walk from the kitchen and into the living room, he too turned to see but no one was there.
My dad doesn't believe in this kind of stuff but I and my mum are big believers. She seems to think, from what I described the woman on the drive looked like, is that it's her great grandma.
And the news of scattering my grandma's ashes have excited/woken/roused her a bit, or is she protesting against it?
My mum has seen/heard stuff before now and it all seems to relate to my grandma - we sometimes even smell Lavender (which is what she always smelt of)
Ill keep you updated if anything else happens.
I'd like to read your comments though and see if you can make any sense of it all?
A few things have happened since they scattered her ashes - my mum said as they did it the sun came out and shone right down on the river which was nice and also ~ the empty bag they were in, my mum decided to put in the bin in a carpark after they had scattered them (don't ask why I went mad when I found out haha) but as soon as she did this she heard the Meowing of a cat (my Grandma LOVED cats!) she went back to the car and my dad was waiting for her - he could also hear the meowing... My Dad went back to get the bag and put it in the car, the meowing stopped.
Then on Monday night, my Aunty was in bed and said she heard a huge bang come from the living room... A huge cat ornament that belonged to my grandma had fell sideways on the floor... She said in the whole 6 years she has had it, it has never fallen...
I think these are all good signs of letting us know she is still with us and in a happy place.
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Abby was a really spooky experience for me, I still have the posters and DVD cover that I may scan in and upload so you can see how it looked. Also Graphic Design is a good path to go down, I hope you suceed in that area when you have left school
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Hannah x