Comments for A Dark Relationship: Page 1

I think what WB stated was correct. Some people just drain the life out of you. I think that you were just in an unhealthy, bad relationship. I really do not believe that the brown spiders had anything to do with it. This does not sound paranormal to me but that is just my opinion. I think it was just coincidental the spiders disappeared once the relationship was over. Thanks for sharing your story.

SHELBY

I detect nothing paranormal at all in this story. No offense at all, either, but I don't think this is anything more than a case of suggestive thoughts.

But spiders? Anyone have any thoughts about insects in league with the devil?

Hello,VickiFigueroa
I'm not a religious person but, that was just his opinion on the subject. You can believe in what you want to. I think,it's better to be with someone who's religious like you. It was just a bad relationship you were in and nothing evil. The brown spiders are nothing to worry about. They are around in the summer where I live, too and they are black.Thanks,for your story.😊

we had a saying "run to the roar" when it came to religion. The closer we got to God the more "bad" things seem to happen to scare us away from praying, church or other religious activities. So it caused many to quit what they were doing and the evil seemed to stop.

Run to the roar is from the jungle, you see the younger sharped toothed lions would hid in the bush and the older toothless lions would be out in the open and roar and scare it's prey into the bush to the young lions waiting to kill. But if the prey would run towards the roaring lion they would have gotten away. So if you are doing something that brings you closer to God, and something scares you, don't quit, just stand stronger and continue on the path to safety. Once evil sees it can't scare you and stop you from the path to God it usually stops (gives up?)

We are put on trial and error in our life time. You were put in one of these with this relationship with this man. He drained you nearly totally of your energy. And the weaker you became, the strong he became off your energy. I am glad you gave that relationship up.

Since your a religious person. I feel that the Lord knew you couldn't, see what this man was doing to you. So he broght to you the spiders which you could see. So you could see what this relationship was doing to you. The Lord intercepted in this, through the spiders.

Are you afraid of spiders?

I agree with what whitebuffalo has stated. I think that it was simply just a bad relationship that was draining you, nothing evil or paranormal.

Also, I don't think those spiders were "evil", they were just, well, spiders! I've always been told that spiders in your doorway were good luck. I may be going way out on a folklore limb here, but I think that they may have brought you good luck by allowing you to make the decision to break it off with him, which obviously was a good thing because you no longer had to deal with a stressful relationship. 😉

You know what that boy was, vickifigueroa?
He is/was one of the type of people that I have classified under "human vampires". I know, it does sound a bit sci fi, but think about it.
He sucked out of you all the feelings of comfort and love that you felt while practicing your religion. I believe very strongly that there are those out there whose only goal is to make you JUST LIKE THEM, and in that, they suck your "life source" out of you.
We ALL have these types of people around us. They are the receptionist at work that you really do not like to eat lunch with because she makes you feel depressed. He is the maintenance guy that when you see him walking down the hall, you search for a side hall to duck down as you really do not want to get into a conversation with him as you will walk away with a bit less of the spark of happiness that you are hanging onto.
Some people just DRAIN us of our "happy thoughts", and they are everywhere.
I am so glad that the relationship did not go any further than what it had. All of these forces in the Spiritual War rose up to point things out to you- from both sides. But you stayed strong in you faith and would not let it defeat you.
Thank you.

Hi VickiFigueroa. I liked your story. I to believe in God and the Bible. The bad thing is I realy believe in God but I don't practise my religion as much as I want to. I believe that this was a test. We are put to tests along our life and this was one of them. I think something was trying to change you. Change your faith. And it wasn't human. This happeneds to me. Everytime I said I would be going to church the next day I felt sick. This has happened a couple of times. And when I mean a couple of times I mean week after week. I once forced myself to go to church and when I was inside I felt like I was going to through up. The next week I said That even if I do through up I won't leave. I was at the mass and prayed. I really ment to pray. I prayed for strength. And after the mass there was no more problems with me going to church.

I believe there is something that tries to make us make the wrong desicion. It doesn't matter what other people believe in there is always good and evil in every religion. To be an Evil person is easy. You take the easy roades. To be a good person is hard. You have to make the good desicions. Not all of them are right but that doesn't mean we should stop trying. Thank you for your story. It helped me understand more of myself. I hope to hear from you soon and take care