Comments for Sex With A Female Spirit: Page 1

Again, whitebuffalo, I can appreciate your expressions.
The social and religious taboos surrounding interaction with or acceptance of spirit contact is historical, and shows no sign of disappearing soon.
That sort of "collective consciousness" situation mandates that something is very wrong with anyone who'd allow such contact into their life and not fight it.

Past experience can be just as influential toward personal viewpoints as tradition can be.
There are many types and subtypes of spirits, each with its own personality.
The type you encountered were clearly not inclined toward eroticism--at least not then; as with us, there are various degrees of erotic interest among spirits.
You might've experienced an entirely different type of stimuli had your contacts been high in erotic interest and if you'd allowed access in that way.

Research and accounts show that many spirits are like "cold fish" when it comes to sex--they are not bent in that direction and prefer other pursuits.
These do NOT make good lovers.
Many specialize in frightening or even possessing humans; most, however, are still capable of carrying out sexual acts at random or upon a whim.
So a spirit does not have to be in a class-type--a succubus or an incubus--to engage in sexual acts.
That statement includes some "higher" level spirits that generally pursue interests that are more intellectual than physical.
Some spirits, then, have very little sexdrive, while others are truly obssessed with sex.
Question?

Good comments, Hoochler.

Wow, Thank you BOTH, Succubiluv and Hoochler.
I feel honored to have two such knowledgeable persons at hand to help me process through all of this.
You know, I think the biggest block in my brain, preventing me from absorbing all of this knowledge, is in the beings that I have been in contact with, and what I have "gathered" as knowledge thus far.
Well, I guess I have to explain that out a bit, because that really sounded like a "cop-out" to me. If I offend ANYONE that should happen to read this, I am truly sorry.
Growing up (this is one of those generation differences that everyone seems to get stuck on), we did not talk about what it is that a man and wife did behind closed doors (after all, NO ONE who was NOT married DID that!). To be perfectly honest with you, when I was pregnant with my FIRST child, my Mother would NOT speak of it, or what I was scared I was going to experience with the pregnancy. If I would ASK her, she would walk away, hanging her head, as if I shamed her with my uncertainty (or rather the VOICING of that uncertainty).
Back THEN we were taught NOTHING in school. Our "sex education" classes only covered such things as the female cycle, the males pseudo cycle (do they even USE that phrase anymore?) and "deeds to be discussed with the pastorate staff or our parents". NOTHING like it is today.
The environment that I (underlined) grew up in, painted a very "dirty" picture of the "exercise".
In ALL of my Spirituality seminars, and courses, I was never even HINTED TO that such beings even existed (well, technically, I guess they really WERE. In THOSE classes I was taught that ANYTHING that is "seen" Not of this World, wants SOMEthing from the human life source. Something that we should "not be prepared to part with". That COULD have encompassed these beings, only in how my upbringing had taught me, up to that point).
Well, that is it for the "what I have gathered so far" statement. What we are "taught" and what we "live" can sometimes be so vastly different. But there is a hesitance to ACCEPT these beings, as there is that thought in the back of my mind stating that "this is BAAAD", you know? <shrugging>
The beings I have so far encountered seem to be more like a person you would run into out on a walk through your town. Like the frenzied business man who is just trying to grab a quick bite to eat on his way to another meeting, or the child who is holding onto her Mothers hand while happily avoiding the cracks in the sidewalk. I have, as of yet, met a being that would rather I had a bed then a bundle of sage, or cedar (that I am aware of).
I HAVE hugged, and "walked through" a being before, and I tell you, I DID NOT like it. (The hug was OK, but very cold) There is just this sizzling, static like feel mixed with odd sounds that grated at every vertebrae in my spine, and set my teeth on edge (if I could have, I probably WOULD have taken my teeth OUT, it was so bad).
So to IMAGINE such "acts" is BLOCKED, as I did not like the "walk through". I can not even BEGIN to imagine such a feeling coursing through more intimate parts of the body (was that clear enough? I was trying for diplomacy there).
BUT, I think to be, who I am meant to be, my "inquisitive self" jumped up and shouted in my face "Judge not, Lest Ye be Judged!" I CAN NOT say that THESE types of beings are any MORE, or any LESS important to KNOW ABOUT then the ones that I (and my children) encounter. I CAN NOT say that they "are creepy" and therefore miss out on an opportunity to gain knowledge on them. In the absence of knowledge, lies many myths. And MANY fears.
I thank you both for the assistance. In order to "fight" one must know who the "enemies" are, who our "allies" are, and who are the forces to be reckoned with. Good, bad or indifferent.
Knowledge is power.
Thank you.

Whitebuffalo,

I have read that incubi and succubae can "ingest" other, non-human based forms of energy for subsistence. The author of that particular book suggested that it is possible that these entities are drawn to sex with mortals for the sheer pleasure of it, and also that sex energy in particular may be the easiest for them to transmute into other forms of energy. He also suggested that sex energy may play a part in these beings spiritual development. I found these ideas to be extremely interesting, thus I share them now since you seem curious about this subject.

Hoochler

Even "weak" spirits are stronger than any of us, whitebuffalo.
Let me clarify by pointing out that these spirits clearly possess their own energy; they don't require refueling by interacting with us.
They bring their own type and level of energy to the contact, including bioelectric radiation, which is why close contact with some of them can leave mild sunburnlike skin reactions.

It's helpful to remember that their main objective in dealing with us is to obtain erotic gratification.
We are a means to an end for them rather than a required energy source.
This is so even in cases where a draining of energy is reported by some who have been in contact with them.
The draining occurs because of HUMAN energy defeciency, not because of any shortage of spiritual energy on the part of the entity.
They're all powerful compared to us, with differing energy levels comparatively among themselves.
So none of these spirits are dependent upon our energy to sustain them.

My comment about their preference is unrelated to your flashup. I can't speak for whether or not any of them would seek sexual satisfaction with children; likely some of them have by now.
They seem generally to prefer adults, though.
Questions?

Huh, imagine that. I LEARNED something! 😊
It REALLY makes sense (now) about the energy factor.
It TRULY follows that should an entity need energy to manifest, it would ALSO need energy to perform. It FURTHER follows that if the being needs to be rather strong, or "powerful" to MOVE things (i.e. Bottle caps, pennies), then it would HAVE to be much more powerful (or "energetic") to... Well, in mixed company, let's just say "exercise". 😉
So, even though you and Annabelle engage in such mundane things as communication,😊 the MAIN contact is that of a physical level. It is in the "carnal needs" of her essence (Well, with the added benefits to YOU, of course).
In that there is such a more concentrated energy level at times, is it incorrect to assume that should she be deprived, she would not survive? **raising eyebrows and shrugging while the question marks present themselves on my pupils** I mean, if she NEEDS this energy, does she NEED it to perform (in the manner in which you are accustomed), or in order to survive?
And what do you know about how discriminating their tastes can be? One of your paragraphs flashed a picture in my head that was a bit unnerving for me. It is in the paragraph about preferences. How safe are CHILDREN from these types of entities?

Personal note: The open mindedness MAY be contributed to too many holes in my head! HA!

Thank you.

No fun beatin' around a bush, whitebuffalo.

You have come to a conclusion I believe to be basically accurate; the comparisons between the two types of relationships are basically identical at the most fundamental levels.
Attraction, contact, communication, influence, pleasure,
Compatibility, trust/Un-attraction, avoidance, displeasure, incompatibility, distrust---these basic dynamics apply to both kinds of relationships in lesser or greater degrees.

I would add that one difference between the two is that succubi and incubi are noted overall for being more directly focused on sex than are many a human soul, being drawn to its energy, pleasure and fulfillments as only a pure energy being could be.
So I would say that a succubus, for example, can be more sexually aggressive than any 2 or 3 erotically inclined human females if only due to her superior energy level, which is free of fundamental psycho-physical limitations peculiar to women (or men), and to her ability to completely penetrate and saturate the nervous system of her partner.

These factors and acquired erotic skills (centuries of practice makes them perfect) are said to spoil some of the human lovers of these spirits into outright partiality toward them.

The half-conscious state you cite may be legendary but has not yet been the method of choice applied by my own spirit partner.
Communication of desire both ways takes place in a fully awake state, complete with full sentences expressed in concrete terms.
No need for shyness with a sex spirit.
Though each may have this or that sexual preference, it's to be remembered that they have seen, heard and imagined every type of sex activity possible, and possess amplified imagination and desire.
For this reason, I suppose, they are very good listeners in this area and will listen to ANY expressed desire without the slightest criticism--not even a blink.

The fine folks of the Peanut Gallery...yes.
While I enjoy peanuts and don't mind galleries, I do reserve the right to sit in a separate section of the theater.
And I never gave thought to being ridiculed.
Ridiculers possess at least two unalienable rights: the right to scorn, and the right to have their scorn rejected.

I accept your honesty and appreciate your open-minded attitude, whitebuffalo.

😊

Thank you, Succubiluv.
I appreciate the candid answer, without any "beating around the bush". 😉

So...
If I am understanding what it is that you are saying...
You know, I will just try to paraphrase it, and you can tell me if I hit the nail on the head or not, OK?
If I understand you right, there is no difference between a relationship with a Succubus, then there is (essentially) with a human. The only "real" difference is that in a relationship with a Succubus (or Incubus) ONE of them is bodily impaired.
Did I get that right?
And if THAT be the case, then it is all in the presentation of the Succubus (and "self") to the relationship. If she should let herself be known as one who would prefer, uh, let's say to be rough, then you would assume her to be "that kind of girl". And if she were to be a gentle creature, you would naturally assume her to want to cuddle.
MUCH LIKE when you meet someone in... WALMART!
You start off getting to know them, maybe have a few quiet meetings, and then you progress further. IF both parties find that to their liking.
Communication, in this type of relationship, is an essential key to the relationship? What I mean is, when you have your chat sessions (I am sorry, in my ignorance, all I can truly picture is the "after effect". The "right before you nod off to sleep" part in which both parties seem to speak through their relaxed state), is THAT when you know exactly what SHE wants?
I mean, you can not really SEE how she is affected by the "acts" so you would HAVE to talk about it, right?
And IF that be the case, then REALLY, the ONLY differences ARE communication (as MOST couples seem to be a bit, uh, shy about talking about what it is that they DO, and what they LIKE) and the lack of a physical form.
Interesting.
Thank you. IF I understood all of this correctly, I think I got it this time!

I am going to be brutally honest, only because I think you trusted us enough to share your experience, and your thoughts on it, and opened yourself up to the possibility a lot of ridicule.
You have handled the Peanut Gallery here very well. You have been as honest as possible, and in the event that you did not have a concrete answer, you let that be known as well. You never tried to misrepresent the issue (to the best of MY knowledge) and you have gone way out of the way to let people in on this "little secret".
I OWE you my honesty.
I had a HUGE problem with this story when it first came out. For one, I had read through a FEW of these tales and there was simply something about them that made me think "Yeah. 🤔 Right. And HOW much was that bridge in the Mohave Desert again?"
But your story had something different.
And I think that is you.
I mean, you did not HAVE to come back here and re-explain things to me. You COULD have done what so many others have when I reworded questions to them and just said "As I said in my comment to..."
Thank you for helping me to understand something that was just beyond what I THOUGHT I already knew.

The issue you mention here, whitebuffalo, is as old as whenever it first arose.
Likely too, it's had its share of press.
I don't doubt that changes in relationships with erotic spirits/sex demons do occur, advancing from a state of excitement and agreement to one of fear and harrassment.

An important factor that's often overlooked is that there are also on record many cases of people having relationships with these entities for years with no hint of fear or danger brought into their lives from it.
That part of the issue suggests that, as with human relationships, positive matches are available as well as bad ones.

Personally, I find no reason to worry about what if, because of what is.
From an inside perspective the spirit person visiting me has both acted and communicated with an openess that satisfies me. I have reason to seriously doubt that she will become the proverbial terror hag.
This particular spirit is not only calm but playful and patient.
Any spirit can become upset, angry, deceptive, and act on that.
But this doesn't insure that all spirits will dangerously do so according to some universal rule and without provocation.
Indications of the drastic changes you cite would call forth a required response appropriate to that development in any case.

Ending a relationship with an erotic spirit varies according to the type of spirit, the human involved, the circumstances under which the relationship started, the sincerity of the human seeking seperation and the determination of the spirit to continue the relationship, the manner in which the seperation is pursued.
No one can forever force somebody to stay in a relationship not desired.
If any relationship turns sour, free will should be applied to the purpose of abandoning it, no matter the cost.
For those wanting to break off from a bad connection there are plenty sources of advice on it.
They should pursue those sources with all their might, if that's what they personally want.
Still questions...?

Appreciate every word, whitebuffalo.
It's getting later than I expected, so I'll return here tomorrow to feed your need to read fresh seed, with new input from head to foot 😊

Now, you have got me thinking, and that is a good thing.
You MAY have answered this question before, and if you have, I am truly sorry for having missed it. I would be equally sorry to make you go over it again.

Back in the ages of mythological creatures, I had a BAD relationship. It started out great! Like most usually do (after all, WHY would someone start out in a "bad" relationship?). But eventually it turned to an abusive, degrading relationship. Oh, it took a while, and I had plenty of chances to leave, I just thought that I could change him. I thought that we would get over this rocky spot and things would iron themselves out.
Well, they never saw the steam that WOULD have ironed them out.
Anyway...
When I left, I ran across the country. Literally. I HAD to. No other way to avoid it.
In YOUR relationship, it appears that everything is "peaches and cream" (please forgive me, I am NOT trying to be rude. I am saying that the relationship would appear to be benefiting you BOTH). Do you know what MIGHT happen if she turned out to be the proverbial Old Hag? Not simply a mean, wrinkly, gray old lady 😉, but the screeching, abusive, EVIL thing that MOST would identify with the Old Hag.
I am SURE that the only reason that I am questioning this part, is that I know how SOME human lovers can be (Vindictive, conniving, "crazy").
Is it POSSIBLE that she could be the same, should YOU choose to end the relationship? You have me curious, and I have to feed the need for answers.
Input! I need input!
Thank you.

More accurately, I should say that, based on my background, there was a time when I was'nt sure that any of this was possible for ME.
By the time I tried it out, I was hoping it WAS possible.
And indeed it was...

Well, sbolduc, I didn't think it was possible either.
The biggest test of courage for me was lying still while my visitor crawled all around me from head to feet.
What do you think your response would have been?
You'll find other erotic spirit encounters on YGS.
If you read the comments on this story you will get more info on it.

Your board experience brought me to the same conclusion as you, though your experience was relatively mild.

i never knew any of this stuff you discribed in your story was possible. That is an insane story!
The first time I ever used the ouija board in my house was with my little brother. I must of been ten and he would be...7. We took out the board and thought it was a little simple game that was used just like a magic 8 ball. So we asked little dumb questions, like what's my favorite color. Then I read the directions and saw that we could talk to ghost! So, I ask if anyone else was in the room with us. Then I though that me and my brother moved it around the board and spelt out John Barrnet, I think. We didn't think anything about it and started asking childish questions again. Later that day my mom asked us if we were playing with the board. I said yes and told her we got the name John Barrnet. She grew up on the street and told that the man that build and lived in our house was named that! So that scared me! And after hearing so many bad things related to ouija boards, I never touch them anymore.

A REPLY TO MISSYDEE's PAGE 3 COMMENT:

After a couple months of reading through various YGS story catagories, I have to say that though my story may to some be possibly the weirdest, it has very stiff competition from a number of others here.
And although my story may cause some to be skeptical or confused, the surprise you mention is good for the YGS format and was even better for me. 😊

Just saw a preview of THE ENTITY movie.
If every experience with erotic spirits was like THAT, it would be no wonder at all that people undergoing them would be terrified of even the thought thereof.
As I had figured, the movie is about outright supernatural attack. It is a typical terror/horror/terror film.

By stark contrast, the kind of contact with erotic spirits that interests me has nothing to do with violent supernatural takeovers that include fear and rape.

Exterior human judgments aside, mutually pleasing erotic relationships with supernatural beings presents a radically different sensory experience for those who accept them.

CJ1031, YOU CAN FIND ALL COMMENTS on this story on pages 1 through 3 attached to it rather than on page 27.

Thanks again, Hoochler: Your input is always valuable.

Will consider all possible options...

succubiluv

Annabelle would not at all be confined to the vessel. It is more like a gateway, a beacon through which she can find her way to you much more easily and quickly in the maze of the astral plane. It would serve to directly strengthen the bond you already share with one another, not act as a mechanism to subjugate or confine her.

The vessel is not a prison, it is the exact opposite of that, it much more like a gateway.

Of course you are free to proceed as you desire, I just wanted to make sure you understood what it is that I propose.

GENERAL NOTE:

This question is often asked: How do I get a sex spirit to exit the relationship if I've summoned it?

The answer lies in setting a definite time frame for the relationship and specifying that time frame during the summoning. That should open the way for later closing out the relationship according to a recognized agreement.

Hoochler,

A basic matter for consideration in deciding on the option you mentioned in your post on creating a vessel for a spirit is how Annabelle herself views that idea.
This is a matter upon which both parties, if only for the sake of the dynamic you referred to, must agree on.
I have put the question to her.
At this point, confining her to a vessel is not the optimum course of action.
However, further attention to the issue of her manifestation will be pursued with a view to a mutually agreeable solution in time.
Thanks again for the suggestions you offered on the subject.
😊

Sorry CJ1031--WRONG INFO.
The info you asked about is found on page 27 of the comments section.
You'll find it under my username.

cj1031--the post I referred to that was on page 2 is gone; recent comments pushed it out of place, since only so many comments are allowed per page.

If you want, I email the info to you or you can find my related comments on pages 8, 9 or 10 of the comments page.

I apoligse for not writing more in my reply to you, I am glad to answer questions you may have as well

Hi again, lady_werecat--Got your post in reply.

Did I talk too much in my post to you?
Any more questions?

Hi, CJ1031,

Welcome to YGS 😊
Have you read the story and the comments?
My comments on page 2 cite a source for the info you want. It mentions High Priestess Maxine Dietrich. I can email you the address to the site if you can email me.

thank you for replying. I chose the name werecat cuase I have memorys of being a black panther in a past life and my guide is also one. Not to mention a other few other things, theses memorys were only brought to the surface when I atended a gypsy fair and got a reading from lady who said she knew me in a past life, to answer the question "how did I know I didn't get riped off?" I'm not VERY sensitive but I'm enuff so that get a vibe as to wether not the gifted person is quack or not.

How did you go about summoning her to begin with? If one were interested in that type of relationship, how would they proceed?

Hoochler, your remarks and suggestions will be considered.
Thanks for the input...

succubiluv
My friend, are you sure you want to take the dynamic that is working so well for you with Annabelle and put that in danger simply for the gratification of seeing her with your eyes?

If you want to give her more power to manifest herself on this plane I suggest instead that you make a vessel for her to inhabit. This is an easy thing to do, and would cost little to no money (depending on the vessel you choose). It is a step less than outright summoning and let's you maintain much more control of the entity in the vessel (in your case, would prevent a sudden change in Annabelle's demeanor commensurate with her new found independence to easier manifestion on this plane of existence, not that I am saying that would happen but you never know for sure until after its too late). This would also prevent something from going wrong with the summoning spell itself that might have un-intended consequences all by itself.

If you are interested in learning more about creating a vessel, shoot me an e-mail and I will explain it. I have never done it myself, but the method I read is from a reliable source and is very straight forward and easy to do.

Pondering
Please, please, please share your experiences with us! I would LOVE to read what you have to say. If it happened to you, I doubt very much you will come across as pompous or boastful.

Hi lady_werecat;

Your gut feelings are correct.
Some people, however, have come to other conclusions on the subject.
Some have no experience with erotic spirits, but some who do assess ALL such experiences by their own, especially if their own is negative.
They come to the conclusion that anyone accepting and integrating the experience is mentally or socially deficient, or somehow morally inferior to those who don't accept it.

Some bring up the issue of personal spirituality in relation to the acceptance of erotic spirits.
This includes pie-in-the-sky lectures about preparing now for life in some mystical future plane they know nothing of besides what they read in books about it.
These views may work for those subscribing to them, but they may not be the answer at all for others.
This is because what people think about it may or may not be relevant to the subject, but is definitely less critical than is each individual's experience.

There is also the matter of fear.
Everybody has a limit; many will never want anything even near a sexual experience with some invisible being.
That's understandable.
Others are not as fearful and are more open to erotic experiences in general.
Some erotic spirits have used force rather than persuasion.
Those who feel harrassed have the right to be upset and to want to do something about it. And they should.

As to attracting erotic spirits, lady_werecat, very often it appears that they are the ones who do the choosing, not us.
Accepting or rejecting these experiences is ultimately up to each individual.
Those who want to experience them can pay to have them conjured or show sincere interest in them over a period of time, speak of a desire to encounter them, and surround themselves with related materials such as literature, pictures, etc., to draw their attention.
Personal research on the matter is a must.

Finally, personal sexuality and personal attitude toward erotic spirits are seperate items.
Your attitude sounds positive, and you seem to be right on the verge of an encounter.

By the way, how did you come upon the name werecat?

pondering--you may email me as many questions as you like, whenever you like.
😊

Howdy!
Thanks for the pep talk 😊. I just might do that. They aren't actually scary but just might give it a try.
As for the summoning ritual, I definitly want updates on how that goes and what you got 😜. My other question I thought up was; when you decided to undertake this endeavor, how did you keep from attracting
"unwanted" attention? Or, did you leave yourself completely open for whatever happened? What precautions did you take? I am very interested to hear how you actually went about accomplishing your goal. I never really thought ALL spirits were inherently "evil" but your experience leaves me with a few questions in my own, I suppose. I would like to e-mail you a few questions privately with your permission.

Thanks,
Pondering

HI, LADY_WERECAT;

I appreciate your openminded response.
I'm preparing a reply for you that should appear before nightfall... 😊

Hi there, pondering:

Yeah, the posts did get kind of long.
In a recent discussion of the subject with her, I brought up the idea of her appearing to me visually by a summoning ritual. Her answer was affirmative.

I finally came to that solution after researching info on summoning spirits.
She always shyed away from the idea of appearing to me on her own, but never offered the solution of summoning to me.
I guess I should've thought of it sooner, since I had read about it before.
I just didn't apply ritual summoning to my own case because she had initially arrived by a rather informal method involving no traditional ritual effort.
Besides that, I'm no conjuror.
But there is a certain summoning ritual she has agreed to appear by.
Very careful consideration is necessary, nonetheless.

Your other experiences are valuable to somebody out there---why not share them?
Don't worry yourself about sounding crazy or boastful if you decide to post them on this site; your experiences can't sound any crazier than some others posted here.
It's all about that which is PARAnormal.
In order to fit the format, something here has GOT to be "weird".

Personally, I don't let the idea of what people might think determine my material;
If what I experienced is true and somebody can't take it, they can always avail themselves of the option to stop reading and go elsewhwere, the same as I have done when coming upon undesireable posts.

I'd be happy to read your experiences, online or by email.

😊

Thanks for responding. I did find the answers on this LONG list of responses 😜. Except for: has she shown you her form yet?
As for the question you posted on my story, yes I have had other instances. No not traumatic as the account on here, but I am afraid to post due to...well...the risk of sounding boastful or crazy. I wouldn't mind discussing them with you if you are really interested.

Looking forward to your response!

thank you so much for this, it affirms my gutt feeling that not all sexual seeking spirits are bad, I have had simalr experiance (being suddenly feel like the room is hot and getting extremly randy) but never experianced the "touching" that is common with these storys😜 😭 But oh well what ever right?, maybe its just cuase I'm not a outwardly sexual person, does that even have anything to do with atracting these spirits?

thank you for your shared knowlage
Blessed be

Love the descriptive details of this encounter! Must admit... It leaves one wondering what they are missing out on😆.
But seriously, weren't you in the least bit worried or scared of what you were inviting? Did you consider the consequences or even wondered if there would be any if you decided to end the relationship? Do you feel there will be any consequences? Has she shown you her form yet?
Sorry, lots a questions, but am very curious about your situation.

Though I have had my doubts about paranormal photography, I admit that there are some photos that look authentic.
So many photos of this kind can be faked, as with UFO photos.
But each paranormal photo should be considered on a case by case basis I think.
This post is a recap in hindsight on a post in response here to Sorcha.

I wonder how did it all start--voluntary, or not?
There are different answers for different cases.
Are any occult attachments involved?
Knowledge of these points may be useful in understanding what's happening and why.

Oh, and I neglected to say, I have gone through the stories that appear to be serious experiences, and not fabrications, and we have tried a few of the suggestions there, but to no avail.
We are at a stand still at the present time.

Sorry, succubiluv, the adjusted e-mail address is on my profile. I had a minor meltdown and had to start over. I am so sorry.
Autumn.

whitebuffalo---I have not had the experiences you relate in your query. There are a number of suggestions here at YGS which might be helpful.

There are a list of questions in addition to yours which need be answered in order to begin to fully understand the situation you refer to.

Hope the best for all concerned.

TO whitebuffalo:

I sent you an email today and got a failure notice.
No way to contact you other than that.

QUESTION: How can a human have a relationship with a spirit, demon, or "ghost"?

ANSWER: By means of an interchange of thought, action and feelings--the basis of any relationship anywhere in the universe.

There are people who swear up, down and around that they have a one-to-one relationship going with their favorite patron saint, a personal Jesus, Mary, or some version of God.
They are believed and even supported in their belief.

In the case of spirit contact, the added dimension of close physical interaction, including sexual activity, does not change the fact that a relationship is occurring; it is a different kind of relationship but a relationship nonetheless.

Agreement or disagreement with that type of relationship is a matter of personal valuation, so much so that some even mathmatize the matter, insisting that blank equals GOOD and blank-blank equals BAD.

Whether good or bad, though, spirit/human relationships exist, and will continue to exist as long as spirits and humans do.

Hi whitebuffalo;

I've listed your questions and will attempt to answer them in the next day or 2.
No problem to read your post; your comments are welcomed, and you may email me.
Thanks for the respect, but it's no problem.

Keep in mind that I am no expert on this subject and cannot attempt to be.
I can immediately answer 1 of your questions: the answer is 'YES', according to much info on the subject an incubus or succubus that has the power and inclination can appear in different forms, as other spirits reportedly can.
It's called "shapeshifting".
You may have heard the term before.
Such spirits are called shapeshifters.
Many incubi and succubi are said to be less inclined to materialize; it simply is not their preference, as when we may or may not eat a certain dish and in most cases will certainly not. Even if asked to try it.

Let me get back to you shortly.
I appreciate your posts. Some of them show a seasoned, down-to-earth wisdom.

I forgot to mention something, succubiluv. You are free to e-mail the answers to me (the address is on my profile page) if you wish. I am sincere in needing some answers, and in a private e-mail, I would probably be able to give you a bit more information. I am not even sure if this being is a Succubus or an Incubus (sorry, I have to be vague), but I DO know that it is causing some issues.
Thank you again.

Say, uh, succubiluv?
I have a few questions for you, if you do not mind. I had no idea on how to get a hold of you, other than here. There is no open invitation to use e-mail, so I would not disrespect you by sending this through to you, only in that I was not invited to.

If you have a Succubus, or an Incubus, for that matter, that you yourself did not invite into your life (I am using "you" generically, and to encompass people in general) that you wish to end the relationship with, how would you go about doing that?
If your Incubus or Succubus flipped to the more (forgive me, the word eludes me) aggressive side, almost possessive, how would you deal with that?
If your Succubus becomes violent, is there a way to "calm the savage beast", or do you kind of just deal with it as if it were a malicious ghost?
If your Incubus visits OTHERS, (like the friends you have over to the house, or someone that you know from school or work- you know, just someone else you KNOW) is there a way to "call them back", to get them to leave this other person alone?
Is it possible for an Incubus or Succubus to appear to you as one being (no matter WHAT they show them self as) and to another person that it visits in a totally different way?

I have been approached for answers, and I have none. I have explained to this person that I will TRY to get some for them, but to tell you the truth, that which I found on the Internet I found totally lacking. NONE of the questions from this personal experienced have been addressed, and I see that you candidly speak of this with no holds barred.
I appreciate that in a person. I am too old to play the games, and would just like straight answers. 😊 If you do not wish to answer them, or think I am messing with you, I would understand.
Oh, an important fact (I am sorry, I can not give you much, it was told to me in confidentiality, and this is TOTALLY public) this person that needs assistance is a young teen.
I appreciate your reading through this, and humbly ask that you give me your honest thoughts on this.
Thank you.

Hi jp---I'll send the info to you.
The response I got was from 1 spirit and came after written and verbal interest was expressed a number of times.
My desire steadily increased day by day and was completely sincere.
The above account tells how it happened. If you haven't read them, you can get more info from the comments posted in reply to the story.
A followup story is forthcoming.
Thanks for your comments.

Hi succubiluv. Your story is very interesting. Did they just appear after you have taken interest in it? How did it happened? Also, my I know where you searched for articles and materials about them? You can email me those references. Thanks.

READERS:

OOPS--The previous 2 comments here are in reply to Nostra and the story: SEX WITH A GHOST S.O.S. The comments belong under THAT story instead of this one.

NOSTRA--Strike the question about your brother's feelings; you say he's scared of the experience.

But please answer the other 2 questions.
Thanks.

HI NOSTRA,

Your account is interesting, but some information is missing.

FIRST: How did the relationship get started?

SECOND: What are your brother's feelings about it?

THIRD: Has the spirit done anything bad to you, the cat, or anyone else?
Please reply.

Hi Everyone.

My brother had 4 days that he made sex with a ghost. I"m so scared for him, he too.

I read the story, and they are almost the same signs.

Anyone of you can Help us!
How can broke my brother this "relationship"?

It's any way how the body of the ghost can go out from my brother.

He feel her breath like ice, and she touch time after time his penis, she control the penis of him.

We have a cat at home and when my brother fell the body ghost inside of him, the cat and run away scared.

How can I save my brother from this ghost?
Pls help us, sincerly Nostra: (

TO ALL READERS:

Note that, at the outset, jealousy issues are avoided by someone seeking a spirit partner when they make it clear that an " open" relationship is desired.
This is fair to both the spirit partner and any other partner the person seeking spirit partnership may be--or later become--involved with.
Yes, spirits are the same as humans about that.

One other note: based on some of the comments posted on this site, it seems hard for some to imagine or accept the idea of sexual things occurring between a human and a spirit. Maybe the traditional concept is what gets in the way; a "ghost" is thought of as some hollow, ethereal energy that's half real/half illusion, etc.
The facts as they stand, however, prove that any energy form able to access the human organism can interact with it, ie an electric "spike" as experienced by many a tinkler.
If that energy is connected to an intelligent being, all that matters is function.
Form ceases to be important as to the result--access to the human nervous system through various fields of manipulated, applied energy.

Spirits can do things we do and do most of them better, including sex.
Realizing this would help to broaden and redirect a doubtful person's mind on the matter of spirit/human relations and interaction.

Correction: This topic is THE lowest on the entire list as to account totals.

A GENERAL COMMENT ON THIS TOPIC:

All constructive responses have been appreciated and are welcomed. There are at least 2 or 3 more personal accounts I might later share here, including a continuation Sex With A Female Spirit II, containing information and details left out of the first account.
I was slightly surprised to find that this topic contains only 20 accounts! That makes it one of the very lowest topics for input. There is much, much more of this activity taking place worldwide. It may be difficult to express or publicize. But sharing these experiences helps people's awareness, adds to public knowledge, and may lead to resolution of undesireable paranormal experiences.

Hopefully, this site will serve to generate more input from the public on this apparently hush-hush subject.
In the coming months, more people will hopefully come forth and share.

TO gary11872;

It is true that moral speculations and religious views abound on this subject. Ultimately, the one best able to determine the personal value or final meaning of these experiences is the one who actually HAS them, whether by accident or by deliberation.
Your comments, though, are much appreciated.

to MFD;

Thanks for your input.

The answer to both your questions is 'NO'.

succubiluv,

You mentioned that you were also intimately involved in another relationship with an older woman who is also unaware of Annabelle. Wouldn't you say you're being unfair and a bit selfish by continuing to have this relationship with the spirit? What happens if the spirit starts getting "jealous", could it be potentially dangerous for your human companion?

Thanks again for your comments. Your replies are very interesting too! Good luck and I wish you all the best 😁

Hi and thank uou for sharring this story with us. I have to say that I have read some stories about sex with spirits but this one is the one I most believe. The way you told your story shows me that there isn't imagination added to it. It is all real. But still I'm one of those who don't like reading these kind of stories. It is a great story but I just don't know much about it. But I to believe that this could be dangerous. This spirit might give you pleasure but at what costs? I realy do think there might be something that this spirit is feeding off of you. But what? I have no idea! All I can say is be carefull. Again thanks for being fair and posting a real story and for being strong. This might be a delicate topic to talk about but it shows your personality. Your a good man. I hope to hear from you soon and take care

hoochler---hello

Thanks for your response. I tried to send you an email less than an hour ago containing the site you asked about but only got a failure notice.

Hello succubiluv,

Wow, your answer to the questions was even more interesting than your original, well written post. Thank you for taking the time and displaying the courage it obviously took to craft such a thoughtful and personal response.

It sure sounds like you have done your homework, and tested to see if the theories you were taught panned out in practice. It seems as if you approach this whole thing with your eyes wide open and that you know full well what it is that you are signed up for.

I am heartened to hear that you have an exit strategy if you ever decide you want to end your arrangement with Annabelle, it is always good to have options.

I am also sincerely glad that you are happy, I hope that you stay that way throughout the entirety of your admittedly unorthodox arrangement with Annabelle.

Good luck with your arrangement and take care.

Hoochler

hi intrepidbelief;

I acknowledge your input. I find it is a good basic rule to avoid comparing paranormal experiences in a holistic way.
Every one is percieved through the senses of different persons; what may look like an obstacle or drawback to someone outside of a PE (paranormal experience) may in fact not be that at all. Your experience sounds like a one-time or very brief event; mine involves active communication over a period of time with the entity, familiarity with her patterns of expression and temperament, the style of her activity, comparative research on incubi and succubi, etc.
Even if your experience was more longterm, it should be mentioned again that spirits are individuals; one person's experience with them may be remote from that of another in ways that can not be discerned from outside the paranormal relationship.

To Bellissama, Hoochler & Feiaby:

I do not consider myself to be an official expert on this subject; but I have done research and have my own paranormal experiences as a personally convincing reference. Let me start with Hoochler's queries.
First, an individual sincerely interested in experiencing contact with the spirit world--satanic or otherwise--has the choice of approaching with an open & unbiased mind or a closed and fearful one. I choose the former frame of mind; I focus on the present consequences, the new life experiences & the new knowledge gained.
These are positive benefits.

The only downside is connection with incompatible entities. Also, as in human relationships, there are means to not only begin but to end spirit/human relationships. There are so many kinds of satanic spirits, each with individuality; some travel frequently here on earth, others inhabit atmospheric realms in earth's vicinity, still others inhabit other dimensions on the astral plane. Some "demons" have been known to almost never tell the truth, others tell some of the truth some of the time, others are usually truthful but must be skillfully prodded for accurate details to get the truth.

There are spirits who enjoy and seek out human companionship; then there are those who really don't care much about us and would rather not be bothered, even though they may still be summoned by those skilled in the art; many are only harmful; some spirits specialize in controlling political activities, others in haunting houses. There is positive and negative in spirit personalities, personally compatible and incompatible entities. Which one an individual meets determines the type of relationship that will follow.

In my experience with Annabelle, semen is NEVER produced. The orgasms are dry, but more prolonged compared with human/human sex, and can be multiple,
Ocurring in as little as 4 minutes apart. I challenged her one morning and timed the outcome. She brought the results right on time.

The lore about semen abuse is just that--lore--and is incompatible with the purpose of succubi visitations, which is an exchange of sexual energy and pleasure.
Simply put, spirit is spirit and flesh is flesh; no proof of any kind has ever been presented that shows hybrid creatures produced by so ridiculous a method.

As to the effect on my energy levels, I have never felt drained in any way. My energy is fine before and after the union. The only inconvienence might be the act of staying in one position--on your back or stomach--for long periods of time. Also, there are differing levels of power & different lovemaking styles among succubi.
If someone had the experience of repeated sexual connection with multiple succubi that person would be likely to feel the effects on their energy level sooner or later. The event can become very intensive, with the succubus reflecting her partner's secret fantasies back to him in the form of extremely arousing mental images of sexual motion. She can also transmit to her partner vivid images of him being ridden by naked women, including allusions to her own image which match the movements she applies to him. This can be blended by her with very erotic talk that is intensely one-on-one in tone and can direct his thoughts into a state of erotic abandon. Certain sweet 'dirty' words may be stressed in sync with her sensuous movements upon her partner's crotch. From time to time, she can fill his nostrils with strong whiffs of her scent as well. The results can be ecstatic. All this can be a bit tiring, but her partner will not likely complain. Fables about the draining of souls by these erotic spirits seem as unintelligent as they are old.

No visible marks or scents have appeared in my own experience. My work life is fine. The relationship is tightly enclosed so that, even if my spirit partner pleasures me with a woman 2 inches away in the same bed, her presence is neither felt or known to the human
Partner. This shows that spirits can somehow cut off or restrict their bioelectric radiation. No mental changes have occurred. My pubic hair on the left side seemed sunburnt to brown for a short while a few weeks after her visits began, but that has reversed. Our bodies may sometimes need to adjust to the bioelectric energy of a succubi in temporary, minor ways.

No denounciations of a religious sort took place with me; the ritual activity was very simple and physical.
It is good, however, to develop visualization, since sex demons absorb the fantasies of their partners and use them to fuel their orgasms.
On many occasions, my spirit partner would significantly increase her erotic actions in proportion to my focused fantasy imagery. The result can be a new orgasm for both. Sometimes one repeated image works, sometimes a series of personal fantasy images and sounds works. Sometimes no activity is taking place when suddenly I find myself being aroused by her immediately after letting my mind drift into erotic fantasy. The more explicit details will not be allowed on this site, but I can email them to those who are interested in reading them.

Fondling is only one manifestation of her desire; she is able to sit directly atop my privates for hours, intermittently producing sudden strong surges of pleasure that end in deep orgasms for both of us.
She is also orally skilled.
The straddling posture, or any other action, goes right through clothing, body parts, etc.
In physics, it is explained that very tiny electrically charged particles are constantly emitted from our hands, for example, to prevent our hands from passing one through the other when we clasp them. Same if we sit upon a chair--we are actually not completely in touch with that chair. An angstrom (one 10 millionth of a milimeter) of space seperates our body from the chair.
A spirit body is of a substance that bypasses this law of physics so that, with them, form is not the issue ---function is.

In other words, if you lay flat on a mattress, it is nothing for a spirit to slide up under you. That's why moving through walls, clothing, mattresses, you name it, is to spirits like walking or breathing are to us.
The substance of their bodies is not space-dependent either; making love to someone through a very small portion of a mattress is easy, because the form is second to the function, in this case the channeling of energy into a specific physical location, which is not a form or space-dependent action for an astral entity.

A look at the writings of high priestess Maxine Dietrich online
(real name is ANDREA HERRINGTON) will inform you, HOOCHLER, on some of your queries.
She is extremely knowledgeable in the occult. It was through her writings that I first learned there are personally compatible sex demons who specialize in men. And she is 100% right.

All told, succubi have been misrepresented for ages.
Quite a few incubus reports show a certain roughness or tendency to harrass in their style. Yet, there are compatible spirit personalities for interested humans among them also. A succubus interested in maintaining a relationship with her partner is not going to appear to him as a hideous hag--what would be the point, when she knows that the relationship can be dissolved by occult or other methods?

Bellissima, I haven't saw the movie you mention though I know of it. The difference between it and what I am experiencing is rape and force versus consent and mutual pleasure without fear.

Finally, KISHO; Each spirit is an individual. Mine has already shown me how she deals with not obtaining access to me when she wants it. Her reaction combines persistence with patience. There is no hint of an angry reaction on her part. Spirits are as various as we are. Annabelle is sensible, level-minded and easy to get along with.

Somewhat the same has happened to me... 9 years later I wonder, though... Was it male or female? Did it lie? Be careful.

Well, simply put if it's a succubus, as I'm certain it is, it's taking your energy during these meetings, but since you're giving it willingly, seems that the two of you have a win win situation going where she'd be unwise to try and push things beyond your level of comfort. Would be inclined to worry that if you ever start denying her (due to new relationship or any other reason) things may take an unpleasant turn, but it sounds like you've done enough research into the matter to know what you've gotten into.

Enjoy.

TO BELlISSIMA/FEIABY/HOOCHLER:

Thanks for your responses.
I will respond later today. Stand by...

succubiluv, hi. This is the most interesting and believable story I have read on this topic.Admittedly, the whole topic makes me uncomfortable. You are so precise and come across so factually and honestly that I find it really hard to doubt your claims. I read your whole story with fascination. I find your views very interesting and I totally agree with your view that spirits are almost always portrayed as frightening with the intent to harm. Sensationalism dictates people are more interested in the dramatic, heart pounding incidents that we see in movies and such. As Surya said, the movie 'The Entity' sprung to my mind as well. It was supposed to be a true story with scientific testing showing results to support the woman's claims.You're brave for putting yourself out there like this. If you have more to tell on the topic, I would really be interested in hearing about it.

Upon reading your posts, it seems like you have a broad knowledge about this kind of relatonship and really know what you're doing. I'm already searching same stories as yours just to feed my curiosity. And I'm quiet interested on the questions asked by hoochler. Hope you can share, if not all, some of the answers to us. 😊

Be careful and God bless!

succubiluv,

Your post was a very interesting read, thank you for having the courage to post it.

You mention that the instructions you read on line were to attract a demon sex partner into your life. You even mention that she smells vaguely of sulphur (I assume burning sulphur), known in ancient times as brimstone. All that combined with your screen name suggest that a succubus has answered your invitation and is now a part of your life.

Your story has made me horribly curious, please do not take offense to my questions because I really would like to know the answers and intend no insult by asking them.

I am curious, what do you think the long term consequences will be, if any, for willingly consorting with a demon from Hell everyday for months (or years)? Perhaps there are positive consequences not discussed in the original post? Have you thought about possible downsides?

From what I understand of succubus lore, it is common practice for the succubus to keep some or all of the semen that is generated during a "session" from her victims / partners for use later by an incubus. I am curious, is this happening in your case? If so, have you asked what is being done with the fluid? Would it bother you if your seed were being used to father children by a demon from Hell without your knowledge (but by your consent)?

It is also part of succubus lore that victim/partners feel drained and weak after an encounter, is that your experience as well?

Does the succubus leave any sort of marks or scent on you after it is done? Besides having an increased sex drive, have you noticed any other changes (physical or mental)? If this creature is interacting with you at work, has this had an impact on your work life or your relationship with others at your work?

Who authored the original document that you read to invite this creature into your life? Does this person or group discuss any possible downsides to what they taught you to do?

Is part of the ritual you did to denounce God or did it involve purely physical things?

Pardon so many questions. If you want to answer privately, my e-mail address is in my profile.

Thank you again for your post.

Hoochler

Mr._Burnz

Ouija boards are something I just don't do. The rep on them is tremendous. And largely negative. But I personally wouldn't try to convince anyone not to use them; people do as they please, and no amount of counter intelligence, so to speak, is going to really change that.
The biggest factor determining my own view of the board is that it is too easy to connect with incompatible entities.
A Ouija board call is similar to a phone call sent to a general office or public phone wherein anybody can feel free to answer just because they happened to be on the spot. You don't know who you are getting in touch with, not even the type of person who may answer.
For this reason, I think Oiuja boards are definitely NOT for dabblers who think they're just out having a good time. Some may have had positive experiences with the board. Anyway, there's a lot to enjoy on here if you like "ghost " stories.
My interest centers around the sexual connection with female spirits, experienced by real people.

Sounds good man 😉 I was actually reading up on some more of those types of stories just now. Along with my other favorites about the Ouija Boards.

Hi Again---no offense taken, BURNZY.
If you read more stories you'll be bound to find some really intriguing ones better than mine. 😊

Succubiluv,

Sorry if I offended you in any way with the "any action" comment. I was just throwing in a little punchline. Just my personality. I have no doubts about your expierence though or anything though.

The few stories that I have read on here have only been of one or two occurances from the spirits/entities, but this one cause my eye because it's been going on for way longer. Again, thanks for the story, be careful, and keep us posted 😉. Takte care and God Bless.

Burnzy

To Sorcha;
You know, I never gave much credit to pics of supposed apparitions, although I do not discount the possibility of such being factual. My problem is that those kind of pics are easier to fake than UFO pics. You are right about the tendency to mislead; caution is important.
This is not the first experience I've had with spirit entities.
I think, however, that there are so many real-life negative stories about spirits and so many gory box office attempts at fame and fortune through the subject that it has come to appear that ALL such spirits are out to do physical or mental harm for the sake of it.
Applying a strictly religious viewpoint, one could easily preach for days against such contact. I've heard all the arguments. But there are other viewpoints as well.
Each will choose their own no matter what the religious view is that is raised against it. I don't think I'll be trying any snapshots of Annabelle.
What would that prove, anyway? But I see what you're talking about... Would be nice to have a physical manifestation available for show.
For me, though, someone who offered me a pic of a "spirit" would have the hardest time convincing me of its authenticity. I' d rather just hear it from the horse's mouth.

This is possibly the weirdest post I've read on this site and I have read quite a few! 🤔 😕 😲

Mr. Burnz;
Appreciate your input. I'd like to add, however, that I am by no means desperate or in need of "any action" due to my age. Quite the contrary. As to the actual appearance of Annabelle, I suppose it would indeed be a shock if she appeared as you state. Guess there's a price sometimes for doing blind dates! I will gladly report to this site whatever occurs, whatever the case.
😁

Hello again!
Daemons by their nature are misleading creatures. I have never come across such an experience with a succubus or incubus. Very curious indeed. I wonder if you could eventually get some photographic evidence of her presence? (Hahaha - I mean like orbs or what not... No naughty photos... Jeepers😆)

Well, I'm completely speechless. I've read very few stories in this category, nontheless, it's still rather interesting. I agree wit hthe last person that commented. "What if when this spirit/entity showed itself, it was hidious?" Then what would you do? HaHa...Anyways, On the other hand, IF its a good spirit and what not then I suppose at 51 any action is good action, yeah? Be careful and God Bless.

Burnzy

for feiaby & sorcha:
Hello, I appreciate your responses to my account.
To answer Sorcha; I am presently involved in an intimate relationship with a very loving older women who is unaware of Annabelle.

To answer Feiaby; The account is completely true in every detail with no exaggerations. Real contact with these type of spirits has to happen to a person or be witnessed firsthand. Otherwise, a sort of shroud of disbelief remains for them. Especially is this so due to the nature of this kind of contact with a creature not visible, not human, and not mainstream or popular as a source of erotic intimacy. Also, there is a general bad rep applied to the occult as forbidden, and contact with spirits on a sexual level may not be easily grasped due to our ingrained perception of human sexuality. Nevertheless, figments of the imagination occur
only in the mind, while sensations of the type I described have distinctive physical results created by an exterior intelligent source and are far more dramatic, for example, than the muscle tension that often accompanies intense fantasy thoughts. It may be true that some people have made up tales or bogus accounts about spirit contact, but I consider the many, many experiences found worldwide over the centuries along with my own paranormal experiences from childhood until now. SOMEBODY IS TELLING THE TRUTH ABOUT THESE THINGS. Without sounding dogmatic, I admit that I am one of these. Any further comments or questions are welcome. Thank you.

demons=evil
Angels=good

That's the simple truth of it. You are getting what you want now, but the price you pay for this pleasure, in retrospect, will not be worth it at all.

😐

Gary

If this is real, I really don't know what to say or think, the film Entity comes to mind.
😕

Hi there...
Hmm very interesting. Have you tried to maintain a relationship with a real human while being under the influence of this "spirit mate"? Just curious. Thank you for posting your story!

there is something wrong with you. Even IF this is true, how on earth can you be "in a relationship" with a demon or a ghost...?

AND FOR 5 YEARS!

Some things don't make sense here, but I'm rather not going to go into it, maybe somebody with knowledge on this matter can shed light...
😲

Is this really true? It's kind of hard to believe because it can be just an imagination that someone's there having sex with you... Just an opinion. 😊

I believe it 100% because I am involved in a relationship with a female spirit that is very similar to the one in which you are involved.

She's been with me for 5 years now, and the contact keeps getting more and more intense.

this is just messed up... I don't know what else to say about it or whether to even believe it... 😕