Comments for My Incubus Story: Page 1

With the mirrors, Mirrors should not be positioned so the body can reflect in the mirror while you sleep. It is believed that a mirror positioned in this way, let's negative energies flow as well as leading a double life. The reason you were told to cover the mirror at night was to stop the flow of these negative energies.

Crystals absorb, repel or transmute unbalanced energies and set the energy note or tones of a room.

That is why I asked if you got rid of your stones. If you have how do you feel without them.

Sorry for all the questions.

[at] hauntedbytheliving

Yes exactly, that's right!
And you know why? Because my physical body was laying in my bed.
These interactions take place in the astral plain, not in the physical one.

[at] Surya
To be honest, I don't know why I had it there. I was a collector of stones and they were all over the place.
I know that according to Feng Shui mirrors in bedrooms are total no-goes. But back then I did not know it.

[at] Succubussed
You asked: "If you wouldn't have felt that you might be in danger from some "evil", would you have kept on having sex with this being?"

Yes.

You asked: "Do you mean that you DO still have sexual encounters with this being?"

No.

You defied gravity whilst having an orgasm, given to you by an invisible being, in the garden and you husband or neighbours didn't notice?

Hi Cordare,
I would like to know why you had a Black Onyx on your bedside table? Black onyx is a crystal for releasing the past, especially old relationships, I don't know if you are aware of this. Have you removed anymore stones? As for the Mirror, according to Feng Shui You shouldn't have a mirror facing the bed directly anyway.

Thanks for sharing your experience here, Cordare.

I don't think that your incubus was after your soul. I have a succubus and the only thing she has been after for over five years now is sex with me and the pleasure that it brings us both.

You say you "got really addicted" to the sensations. I know exactly what you mean; I am addicted to the same thing.

I do have a question... If you wouldn't have felt that you might be in danger from some "evil", would you have kept on having sex with this being?

Also, you say that you've had a return of sorts, only "not so many erotic visits". Do you mean that you DO still have sexual encounters with this being?

Hi Cordare,

You mean to say that you only have OBE's but no more incubus visits isn't it?

I believe that the stones that are on display in your house has certain energies emitted. I don't know if you know about it or just fascinated by its beauty but it can be useful for certain purposes (healing, spirituality). Try to research about that.

I have browsed a little bit feng shui and many authors say that it's a no-no having mirrors in the bedroom.

Well thank you for your statements, succubiluv and hoochler. I feel glad to be taken for serious at least. Of course I know the common reactions and that makes it so difficult to actually discuss this matter in a serious and understanding manner.
Okay, I will try and answer your questions.
First of all I realize that my story was not well enough written. I don't blame anyone getting the thought of me just having dreams. Gosh, it is hard to explain.

1. My husband did not sense the entity when it was near me but strangely it never came to me when my husband was with me. For example he would be still watching TV and I would be in bed. I remember one time, I got out of bed after having had a visit and going to my husband and telling him about it. Of course he would just smile and think of me going loony.
Only once my husband sensed something on the stairs. He walked up and was all pale. He said to me, that he had seen a grey shadow walk behind him. He normally not believed in any kind of spooky stuff but this once he was really different. He swore he had seen a shadow.

After some time my then husband would i.e. Have a car accident, then an accident playing sports, which almost broke his back, several illnesses of which one needed an operation in hospital and so on.
He started to change completely. Always out and about and me mostly to myself. Things developed to the point, that he left me one day - just like that. I could not believe it. My world broke down.
After this happened my Incubus visited me frequently and in a way compensating and comforting me. I had many OBE's involving these visits. A very exiting but very much irritating time in my life.

I really canßt say if the visits had anything to do with my marriage breaking up. Fact is, these things happened simultanously.

2. How I get rid of it?
Well, I am very much religiously socialized. That means I have these deep believes or rather fears about good and evil, God and devil and so on. At the time it just came to my mind. I thought about getting posessed. My big problem at the time was, that I could not accept this strange sensation in my life. I don't know. It sounds silly but I thought I must get rid of it because it's not natural.
So I started to try and get information about clearing these phenomenas away.

A very interesting discovery I made!
I have very many stones in my house, like quarz crystal, amethyst, rosequarz and so on, but right next to my bed on my bedside table I used to have a black onyx.
A Woman in the natural shop said to me I should remove the Onyx. So I did.
She also gave me some herbs and inscence to burn and explained to me a ritual, how to clean my room.
I went back home and closed my windows. Iburned the inscence and took special care of all corners, deep areas under chair, under bed, in my warderobe and after doing this I walked in a left turning circle seven times with the inscence bundling the energys and then opened my window wide for all the smoke to go outside.
I tided up good and cleaned, removed all the stones and ever since then I was left alone.
And another thing: I used to have a big mirror vis á vis to my bed. From that day on I used to hang a large tablecloth over it at night.

In a way these actions match the storys about bad spirits and so on. I don't know. The fact that the clearing worked, made me even more confused.

3. Some years later I started to get some visits again but not as intense as they were before. More OBE's, not so many erotic visits.

So much for now. 😊

The story sounds creepy but exciting at the same time! Thanks for sharing your out of this world exotic tale! 😁

Cordare: The accident/marriage breakup sounds serious.
How certain are you of the connection between your spirit lover and those events?

If really connected, that changes the picture altogether.
Some might ask, Would the pleasure you experienced be worth it?

Exactly and well stated Hoochler, your comments in your last paragraph about the bad rep. 😁

Your post is appreciated Cordare:

Various negative responses as well as downright ignorance are to be expected in connection with the publicizing of experiences involving sex demons.
Unfortunately, this unwarranted reaction frightens off or discourages some who have authentic, enlightening stories to share.

People who ordinarily think of themselves as much less gifted seem to suddenly become moral giants or great psychosexual scientists who know all about experiences they've never had and which they say they don't even WANT.
Responses like these ultimately reflect only the limitations of their source, wherein lies their true worth.

Again, welcome to YGS, Cordare.
We want to hear more from you and others with accounts like yours.
You may email me anytime.
Is it ok to email you?

What you are describing are classic tell tells of continued visitation by an incubus or succubus. I bet your original thought that an incubus has been visiting you is probably dead on.

Your story makes many more questions come to mind. How long ago was the "One night things went further"? You say your conflicting thoughts "made me get rid of it", what did you do to get rid of it?

From what I have read, it is not uncommon for an incubus (or succubus) to become jealous of it's human lover's human partner (s). Do you think that the accidents that were being arranged for your husband were at least part of the reason you got a divorce (i.e. The incubus was successful)?

Did your husband ever sense the presence of the incubus?

As to your question,
Did it seduce me to get my soul? I am by no means an expert, but the research I have done on this subject so far in general says that incubi are simply looking for sex and wish nothing sinister to their human partners or their human partner's souls. They enjoy the act itself as well as the sexual energy that is released in the process. They actually tend to be protective of their human partners and that tendency comes across in your story as well.

This story is sure to attract the comments of others at this site who have more knowledge (first hand experience actually) on this matter than me. Those with first hand experience are free to refute what I say here, but I really doubt they will.

I think incubi and succubae have suffered an undeserved bad rep since the middle ages when their general positive standing with the public was purposefully guided towards the negative by the great organized religions of the world for their own purposes that have nothing to do with the activities of the incubi and succubae themselves.

I hope this answers your questions and allays fears you may have had.

Welcome to YGS, Cordare.
Your experiences with the incubus you describe match with many other experiences reported in paranormal literature. So glad you decided to share.

Many accounts describe this experience as happening during the periods of consciousness you relate in your story. It appears that many erotic spirits, both male and female, approach their human partners during these states of consciousness, though not all do. Good you enjoyed it while it lasted!

Erotic spirits, or sex demons, usually have one main agenda, and that is PLEASURE.
Stories about taking away people's souls, etc., are myth-religion oriented and can be debated on and on.

A lot of people probably would like to know how you got rid of your spirit lover.
Your mention of jealousy is another commom thread in incubus accounts.
Thanks for finally telling your story...
Any other accounts from you are most welcome.

Before this dreaming theory goes on any further I want to say that I was not dreaming. Maybe I did not make that clear enough. I know when I am dreaming and these things were no dreams. There was certainly a difference. And I had a normal relation with my husband, meaning my body was in no special need or anything like that.
With "waking up" I meant that I came into a concious state of mind again. Sorry.

Um...hmm. So your sexual dreams are being chalked up to an incubus? I think there is a more reasonable explanation, such as you were simply dreaming. IF your bodyu goes without certain... Things for a while, it "takes care of itself" and its needs, generally while you sleep, causing dreams like that. Thanks for sharing your story, at any rate.

Firstly one has to ask how happy were you in your marriage? Did you husband fulfil your needs? I am sorry to get personal.

"It went down on me and just before I climaxed I woke up" So you were dreaming all this.

Do I take it that you did not sleep with your husband? Once again my apologies.

Could it be that because your needs as a woman were not being fulfilled you actually created all this yourself. It does happened, people create an imaginary friend/lover and the needs are fulfilled through dreams.

You do not say if after your break - these occurrances continued.