Comments for Until Death Do Us Part? What Happened To That?: Page 2

His rabbi was his cousin and he said he does not do exorcism and that I should tell him that I still love and care for him. After our engagement we were trying for a baby and I had told him that I was not pregnant but he was telling everyone at the hospital that I was and the nurse said the cancer got worse.

Angel9090 because of you I have submitted my first story. Thankyou
I believe you when you say you have tired many times. I've been there. You said his Rabbi knows of this situation, have you asked personally for his advice?
You made a comment about him thinking you were pregnant. Is their a reason you think he may have thought that way? He would know that wasn't the case when he passed.
So I'm thinking one of two things. 1) He feels that he was lied to about the child he wanted. 2) He may just feel that he need to wait for you to have a child.
I still think if you do a cleanse in combination with the looking in the mirror and saying you love him and letting him go daily. I think it could work for you. Either way it wouldn't hurt to try it for a while and see if it helps.

He is not hurting me and he helps me a lot and he even helps other people if I ask him to or if he can. However, having him around all the time is making my social life suffer. I had one guy come over to my house once and I heard three loud taps my bedroom door and my date looked up in shock. I was so embarrassed. My date knew nothing of my past. I said out loud "you can stay and watch or you can go take a walk" then I heard the front door slam shut. However the front door was already closed. My date was wide eyed at this time to hear me address something and it responded.

Angel - then if he doesn't want to go, and he's not harming you, leave him alone. I think if you continue to insist, and are persistent in that effort, all you'll end up doing is making him upset. Why risk that?

I only trust the proven ones that I see on TV and I do not want to waste my money paying people who cannot help me and are only out to make money. For example, someone told me of a good one who can make him cross over and I ended up paying almost seven hundred dollars to her and nothing happened. I think I can do more than a lot of psychics it is just that he does not want to go. Each time I ask him to cross over he would vibrate the finger that he put the engagement ring on other times he would make a circle with the vibrations around the same finger.

My personal opinion here: Brown is a joke. I don't believe a thing she says.

Are there other empaths, sensitives, psychics, etc. In your area that can help you out? Ones that are credible?

I told him a hundred times to cross over but he refused to do so even though he has helped me to cross over other spirits. I have even had a few exorcisms done on me which has not helped. I called Sylvia Brown one time but she wanted to make a show of it but I am a private person. I think he will hang around forever.

I truly believe he was just stopping by so you can see him one more time. Chinese believe that when a person dies, they will come back home within the first 7 days to visit their home and loved ones. Even if he thought you were pregnant when he died, he would definitely know the truth after he dies.

Then I would try communicating with him and telling him he needs to cross over and to be happy. Reassure him you'll be fine. There are different methods to communication, just don't use an ouija board.

His cousin is a rabbi and he knows about it as well so there we go I have two witnesses and my entire family knows about it. We were planning on having one child and I think he thought I was pregnant when he died.

I told his folks about it and his brother was crying. He was a good jew

I have tried to cross him over many times but I hear the front door slams and I think he is dodging me. I feel my private being a lot of times and I do not like this at all and there is no doubt he is giving me these vibrations so he can communicate with me. He was buried with his wedding ring on because he said that he does not want another man to wear it. He died of cancer at age 37. I was his first. We dated for about four years.

Try looking into a mirror every day and say his name, tell him you love him and that you release him. Example John, I love you, I release you. Do this every day. I have a story that I am going to try to get typed up that is along the same lines that your story is. This was the advice I was given and it helped me. Believe me when I say I do understand what you are going through.

ah, I haven't read her previous tales. Thanks BJJ for the information.

If, check the comments op has left on other stories. She has made that claim once or twice.

miracles - haha we must be twins today 😉
Notjustme- very valid point. Since it seems that they were at peace and then just randomly came back
Wishnot- where did it say they were a medium? 😕

Angel9090- Umm seeing that you are a medium I would think you would have the answers to that. Did you try your white candle thing? Did you summon the archangels again? Just curious because you said it has worked before for you.

Dear Angel9090 - First off, I will start by stating I am not particularly religious, and everything I am about to say is purely from my personal experience with loved ones who has died. I used to think that once they "crossed the light" means they can't come back to visit. It's not true. They can be at peace and still be around to watch over you. I lost my ex boyfriend to a ca accident in 2008 and since then has he ever taught me tons about the afterlife. Please read my stories "here when I'm needed".
May I ask, have you "dreamed" of him since? I put dreamed in quotations because that's how they communicate after death most times. I don't know how he passed away, but sometimes that does affect how they are in the afterlife. I will wait for your reply before continuing on. Thank you.

ifi - we must be on the same wavelength 😉

Angel - as ifi said, some people won't take your word for it just because you said it's 100% true. As a matter of fact, there are some members who automatically disbelieve a story because of that claim. Since we are a true ghost stories site, we hope that people won't submit untrue stories. However, none of us are ignorant enough to believe that every story published on this site is true, regardless if the o/p claims their story is.

As ifi said, your fiance could be lingering because he feels he has unfinished business. We've had stories where the living don't want their deceased loved ones to leave them which, I believe, also can tie them here. Whatever his reason for staying, if you want him to crossover, I wish you the best 😊

I'm just going to let you know, just because you say it's 100% true doesn't mean people will take your word for it. There will always be s skeptic.

I would try to help him pass. It could be that he has unfinished business, aka you, and wants to stay behind. Which is natural since you two were to be married. I am sorry for your loss by the way.

I hear a cleansing helps those who want to cross, cross over. Rook has one on his profile others have sworn by if you don't know how.