Comments for I'm In Love With A Ghost And We Had Sex: Page 1

i don't think this is a good idea he should be encouraged to go to where hes meant to be there is no way he would be happier stuck here than going on to the light its just wrong, and what will happen when you get overhim and meet someone else no matter how you feel now you will eventualy stop greiving and get on with your life. If you truly love him then it should be unconditional and for his own good he should be encouraged to move on you should seek help from a medium to help if nesasery.

Allthough I realise that my comment is not the general oppinion I haven't said anything unhelpfull or rude, and play devils advocate on topics that most people that I have seen on this site deal with heavy handedly I am simply seeking to explore all possibilities. So allthough you may not agree with me the removal of karma points is not only rude its being done for the wrong reasons sigh. At anyrate this situation is an odd one as is. Thus allthough I realise that she is a young lady she might not be ready to let him go yet. I am not argueing nor was I that eventauly the connection needs to lesson but only when they are both ready

Tatie25j, There is a possibility that what is touching you and having sex with you is not the Ghost of a Human, but what I call a "Sex Being". I really don't know what they are (I have a female one that has been with me for 7 years), but I do know that they are not now, nor have they ever been, Human.

All that I do know about them is that they are almost always invisible, and all that they seem to want from the Humans that they become attached to is sex and love, usually in that order.

Much of what you describe sounds very familiar to those of us who have a Sex Being in their lives, from the touching that begins every time you lie down (mostly on your back, yes?), to the electric feeling of the touching, to the eventual penetration (for women. For men it's the other way around).

I am not saying that there isn't any possibility that this Being that is touching you is the Ghost of your fianc

Firstly sorry about your loss. I read your story twice. You two definitely had a strong bond. I do actually feel you need to let go and let him go and just hold on to all the memories you had together. The sexually parts unfortunately I believe is you manifesting this yourself. You obvioulsy still ache for him physically. Accept what has happened and move on.

Surya

you know eventually he is going to get strong enough to hold you down with no effort at all. The more you interact the stronger he becomes, and in turn he will most likely never leave you. No matter how much you try to get away.

Um, Puppeteer, I am very much aware that some ghosts hang around until their loved ones can join them. What I'm saying is that the level of contact between the departed and the living in this case is troublesome. We are not talking about an old couple who had a long, happy life together and now he is passed and she is in her twilight years to rejoin him soon.
We are talking about a young man, staying on this plane engaging in a relationship with a young woman that is making it impossible for her to truly grieve, heal, and get on with her life. She is too young to spend her life in half-mourninig. She has a lot of years ahead of her yet.
The intensity of this relationship is highly unusual. Neither can move on while this continues. Even after he completes his journey, he will look in on her from time to time. Letting him go doesn't mean they will never have contact again. It just means the contact will be lessened to a point where she can truly heal.

Good god are you at it again love between the living and the dead is not allways and unhealthy thing. Admitidly odd in this day and age but there are spirits who retain a powerfull bond with a human with no adverse consiquences. Thus I am not barking at you Badjuju but did you also maybe consider the accounts of spirits waiting for their lover to cross over so they can as well. The passing of the dead is not a one sided affair if the spirit isn't ready to move on he can't or the bond he formed with her may be strong enough to keep him in this world until they can both obtain paradise. Its not so simple as the dead stay in their realm and the living in this one some spirits cannot cross until it is their time. Sorry to rant but this time I have to put my foot down for the sake of the live one and the spirit before she does something they will both regret. As to Tatie25j your question the answer is yes it is possible of course the choice is yours but I didn't want you to choose without knowing both sides of the story
What ever you choose I wish you and your lover nothing but happiness

Your freind,
The Puppeteer

I agree with BadJuuJuu! This is very unhealthy for both of you and there is a very good chance of him growing stronger and stronger and the two of you continuing this sexual relationship until he won't want to cross over and you won't want to allow him to cross over. There are things that you can do in his honor. Start some type of scholarship fund or something else positive in his name to keep his memory alive, but by all means, the relationship has to end so he can cross over to where he needs to be and you can go on with your life. You don't want this to start affecting your life, relationships with family and friends and if you are walking down the streets talking to him and other people can't see him, people are going to start thinking your not all there. You know what I mean?
I wish you the best in life.

Very beautifully told. This story is one of my favorites on facebook ❤

I was going to say the same thing as BadJuuJuu, you need to grieve and go through that process. This is unhealthy for both you and him. I know it will be hard to do this, but you will have to. You won't be able to see him, he is passed over, so he will never really be 'him' again (in his solid human form, I mean. Ever need help, just email me.
Love & Light, Rachel ❤

I believe it! I had this happen to me for about 13 years up until about 5 months ago (my husband did a protection spell around me and it has stopped, for now)...the only thing is, I didn't know the person who was visiting me.
I played with the Ouija board with a friend about 13 years ago and I got this entity that attached itself to me.
The first time I was visited by this thing I was laying on my back and I opened my eyes and saw a tall winged demonic thing standing above me... It was at least 8 feet tall and its wings stretched way out, maybe about the length of the room (the measurements seem way bigger, it almost seemed that he was standing tall enough to go through my ceiling!)

I used to wake up and I couldn't move or scream and my eyes were the only thing that could move, so I was laying there being violated and it felt like the same thing you are describing... An electric feeling and an almost ticklish feeling by my thigh area.
A few times it made a low growling sound and I tried my hardest to turn my head or move anything and it just scared the s**t out of me! The whole time I would be paralyzed I would glance over and see my fiance at the time just sleeping next to me... It was freaky that he didn't have a clue that I was being terrorized.
Other times I was being visited by two at once (crazy!)

Have you tried to contact him using a pendulum? Or doing automatic writing?

I'm very sorry for your loss. It must be very difficult.
Ok, now I'm not trying to be insensitive. I'm sorry if I come across that way.
When the people who we have a deep, enduring bond with pass, they sometimes come back to us. They usually fill the role of guardian, of protector, and to help ease our grief so that we can heal and move past the sadness. That seems to be the most common reason a loved one returns.
I have heard of relationships like yours that continue with one person no longer living. This is the part where I fear I may sound insensitive, so, truly, forgive me if this comes across wrong.
It is impossible to come to terms with your loss while he is still taking such an active role in your life. In time, you will have to fully complete the grieving process, in order for your heart to heal. It won't happen while you are still in a relationship of this sort. In time, you will have to let him go.
He is still on this plane to be with you. He needs to cross into the light, or he may end up trapped here. You have to tell him that it's ok to cross over, that you are strong enough to carry on by yourself. You don't have to do it today, but in time, you will have to. For his sake, and for your own.
You will have to complete the grieving process, which is just impossible right now. You are so young, it would be a shame to spend your life in a state of half-mourning. Right now, you are both in limbo. It isn't good for either of you.
That's just my thoughts. My heart goes out to you.