Comments for Touched By Something: Page 1

I had to vote you guys back up. Cause, you know, I'm just gangsta like that. ❤

As YGS is not accepting submissions at this moment, I'll post this recent encounter here.

It was a few nights ago, I was a bit scared to sleep as I had read a few of the YGS submissions a few hours before. There was no sheet on the bed for me to cover with (my wife removed it or probably forgot to put it there). I usually sleep in total darkness as I can not sleep with the light on. I closed my eyes and drifted off to sleep with many things on my mind.

I was suddenly "awakened" by something that raised my top half off the bed (I was sleeping on my belly) and my head was turned forcibly (but slowly) in the direction of something. This 'something" was like an orb, it was glowing and kind of bluish in colour, it looked like electricity was inside of it and was trying to escape. It made a sort of hissing or humming sound and was floating near my head. I fought against it with all my might and woke up for the second time.

This time I made sure I was up as I sat up and moved around in bed. I heard the same humming noise ringing in my ear and as I looked towards the closet, I could make out the outline of a woman/man with long hair looking at me. I blinked my eyes a few times but it was still there.

The room got cold and I could feel the familiar tingling starting on my left foot moving upwards. I knew what was coming so I moved and shifted in the bed. As soon as I stopped moving, the feelings returned. I decided to keep my eyes open to see what was happening. So I stared at myself as I experienced the tingling, pins and needles sensation throughout my body. I felt the static electricity in my groin area, saw movements there but no external shadow or anything. I slept after it left.

Now a few nights after, I looked at the closet to see if I would see the outline of a person there, well as you can guess by now... Nothing was there.

These encounters only happen when I'm alone. When my wife is with me I feel nothing. My wife and I exchange rooms depends on where the baby is sleeping and it doesn't matter which room I'm in, it would happen when I'm alone.

I asked my wife a few days ago, if she ever experienced anything in the house, she said no but sometimes she gets scared for no reason when I'm not there or I come home late.

In 2008, when I was working in the jungle these attacks were frequent. I've had sparse attacks in 2009 and 2010 (less than 5). But since I started to research the subject matter the attacks have returned with a vengeance. Could it be the same entity or is a another that invited itself after my curiosity was aroused. Or could it all be attributed to sleep paralysis?

And I like your company, Lou. Just make sure you know what you're doing when you say nice things to me ❤

Ah, I'm happy again. The smileys are working.

Nice! They got me to, for my last comment. At least I am in good company.

Lou

Lou - I honestly hadn't noticed. That's how much those points mean to me! I swear I think that's the worse thing they did to this site when they established the voting system. Voting the comments up or down, yeah good idea. But not adding them up on our profiles. Bad idea. Too much competition and jealousy.

BTW, pissed a couple of people off lately so you can take your pick. And, frankly, I'm more upset that my smileys won't work than I am about the karma points LOL!

Miracles,
So who did you piss off? Everytime I see a comment from you, you are getting voted down. I think there may be some dissention amongst the Karma Queen's loyal disciples...?
That was a quick one...shouldn't be too hard to figure out...

Lou

guyinsane you will have all the help, prayers and formost friends and people that will listen here when and if you need them keep strong.

[at] freyaluna we are not that bad on here honest but there is a lot of history with succubussed but your point and oppinion is yours to give and people here will take it on board and even thank you for it please don't let this one stop you from returning and enjoying a great site 😁

Louslips + miracles how polite could have said bit stronger but like that one 😆
Carl

Lou - you know us well enough to know we won't take offense. We've even used that phrase a time or two, haven't we ladies? 😆

Freyaluna,

No harm, no foul. As you can see, once the fox was kicked out of the henhouse (no offense intended ladies), civility was restored.

Lou

Thank you darkness, I realize that now 😉. I just hope in the future everyone can be a bit more civil towards each other! As for me, I apologize for putting my two cents in where its probably not needed, but as I read this entire thread I couldn't help myself haha! That's just who I am

-Luna

guyinsane,
Physical attachments by entities are the most difficult to deal with. The first step in the process is a full commitment to ridding yourself of it. I am not speaking from experience with regards to your personal situation, but I have had an attachment... And it was more than just something that took interest in me.
Telling your wife would be an admirable and necessary step in this process. You have to deny this entity at every turn, without exception. Returning to your faith, as you implied, would also be very beneficial to you for multiple reasons.
There are more details to the tactics you will need to pursue, but nothing is going to help if you allow yourself to be enticed by the pleasure this situation provides. There is a real possibility, in my opinion, that this thing is going to effect your relationship with your wife. If your relationship is not in disarray now; then you have the rare opportunity to explain this all to your wife and convince her of what is happening. You must also collaborate on the fact that strain on your union will be coming soon, as a result of this force. If you can both prepare and recognize when outside forces are turning you against or away from each other, the more likely of ridding your life of this entity and preserving your marriage.

If you remain honest and true to this site, you will be helped.

Lou

[at] LSD - thank you for your words of encouragement. I will save your email and write to you in due time. I was an active member in my church and I'm trying to pick myself up and serve again.

I think I made a huge mistake of coming to this site and searching for this entity. Since I've joined, it has been difficult to ignore this thing. Over the weekend the attacks have increased and I open my eyes but the sensation still remains.

Your prayers are much needed and I myself will start praying. I think I want to tell my wife, I know she will believe me. I need help with this thing...

[at] martin thank you so much for editing the story. The explicit stuff is out and the essence of the story still remains.

[at] succubussed - I'm sorry you got so worked up about this and lost your cool.

[at] javelina - keep doing what you're doing. The moderators may have a hard time to monitor everything on this site and it is also the users responsibility to demand and set the standards they desire of such a site. You and the others are well within your rights and its good that you stick to your guns.

-FreyaLuna: There is a little bit more to it then what you think just a heads up for you. 😊

Wow...I'm only 20... And I'm sure most of you exceed that... So what baffles me is, as I am reading this entire... Shall we say..."debate"... All I can think is, "wow...everyone here needs to grow the heck up and agree to disagree.". You all have very valid points but you are also making total a**es of yourselves. This should not have went as far as it did... Like I said, grow up. And to succubussed: I'm sure everyone gets your point man, don't ride it. It's a waste of your time 😁

So for this being my first post ever, there you go LOL! I apologize if this seems harsh, but seeing this entire comment thread,it's pretty mild haha

I'm just wondering but is there a forum where all the bickerring can take place. Because frankly it's taken me a really long time to sift out the replies which aren't completely off topic.

Thanks Guyinsane, I think that there are equal probabilities as to whether this is psychosematic or paranormal, and you're probably in the best position to make a sound judgement on which you feel is most likely. As for whether your experience fits into the preset model of a certain experience type - all 'rules' regarding ephemeral occurunces should be taken more as guidlines since, by definition, they are notoriously hard to monitor and hence categorise.

PLEASE don't be put of telling us more stories

Holy crap! Do you folks realize what it has been like for me, I read this thread all weekend from a remote computer and wasn't able to sign on...yes, Martin, you should be thankful. The only thing I can figure out better than humans, are subhumans... I had this fool pegged months ago.
Nobody, nobody, nobody said these stories should not appear on this site! But think about it folks, if this was your only outlet... How vehemently would you defend it? Why else would you have to create a blog so people could talk more graphically? Pretty obvious what this individual got out of these conversations... Like I said before, if talking dirty to strangers is your thing... So be it. Just do it somewhere else.
And Javelina. Past experiences beyond your control may scar you forever, but they do not make you who you are. Don't change a thing... You are perfect.

Lou

It's utterly appalling how someone could be so personally disrespected here. It is not necessary.

Guyinsane, as it's been said if you want it to stop then ignore it and don't give him/her any attention. If you want it to continue then keep providing the attention he/she seeks.

But know this may be one of the most important forks in your road through life.

As for the personal bickering I hope the administration can edit it out and effectively deal with the worse offenders. It's too bad so many of these accounts end this way and I imagine it causes the admin a lot of unecessary work.

This is one of the very few places on the web people can open up and seek advice on this very real thing which may be happening in their life, something they dare not reveal to anyone in person. It's important for someone to share this and not keep it shelled and bottled within themselves.

There's a lot of advice given on this website which I vehemently disagree with. I also agree with many people's comments as they relate to the published story. The most important aspect of this is respecting each other.

We can all be respectful one to another. If we can't then we don't belong here.

After placing a few phone calls and doing some digging it wasn't that difficult to get to the point of discovery here. We've all been doing a lot of checking up on fact and fiction here in the last hour or two and have just come up with so many interesting facts it's almost too good!
So, I'm going to write a nice long account of this little dance here and give it to the site's owner. The authorities will back me up on a whole laundry list of these issues if need be. I'll leave that for another post though.
Wouldn't want to tip my hand too much as some things are still being investigated.
But this little soap opera is so very revealing, in so many ways, that I'm just bursting to tell it now!
But alas, my hands are tied. 😢
So, look for me in the funny pages folks, I'll be the one with the big smile. 😊
One more thing before I go, the real Matt? He is in no way involved in this mess. How do I know this? Succubussed has been posting here for how many years? Well, Matt was in prison for a few of those years and it wasn't in a place where he had access to post from. Also, Matt is a paraplegic, dead from the ribcage down. And, that rape happened before his accident and he was one of the people who saved my life that night. He would never have said what Succubussed said to me last night, not in a million years.

Just for the record, this clowns name is not and never was Matt Rosemier. His Facebook account lists his name as Mr.Smith.But then again "Smith"?

ok, zzsgranny. You're right. I only did this to hurt people.

None of what I have said is true.

I am all bulloney...

And so I should just get the out of here.

Bye.

Succubussed - so "everything" you have said is the truth and nothing but the truth? Really?

I don't have anything else to say except really?

That's Bullsh*t!...You're intentions were to get in with "the gang"...C'mon, you really don't think we're morons, do you?...You could have used an infinate number of user names, and instead you chose to play friend with the person who's the biggest thorn in your side... Give it up, you're not going to get one ounce of sympathy or empathy from me...

Well why do you have to be so mean? I don't get it. I don't care if your lover is Pure, as Matt or Succubussed. You should be kind and real either way. Your sexual preference never made me think less of you, your rude behaviour to my friends has. Don't feel like you can't share "normal stuff" here. That is just lame. Just be cool, can't you just do that?

LSD

Okay, guys (non gender-specific guys)...how am I a fake, how have I deceived anyone?

I have established a persona here on YGS that is built upon my very real experiences with a Succubus.

But there is another part of my life, and some of it includes paranormal experiences that have nothing to do with having sex with a Spirit.

I just wanted to share some of these stories, and so I created a YGS ID, using my real name. I didn't create the new ID in order to fool anyone. It was supposed to be a separate thing. It would have been nice (IMO) to have been able to share some of the paranormal experiences that I have had happen to me as just regular old me, and not this dude that everyone thinks of as being the man who has sex with a Succubus.

Go ahead and throw stones. I didn't do this to trick anyone. And I didn't use either ID to team up on anyone in an argument.

I just wanted to be able to share some regular stuff.

Then even more reason to bow your head in shame... The way you spoke to her last night?...And treating her like an underling?...And then talking to her, me and Miracles like you actually LIKE us?...You're one hell of a sick individual...

Actually, Zzsgranny, I AM an old friend to Javelina. I haven't told a single lie here.

I just failed to keep two parts of my existence separate. One is my existence as a Human involved with a Succubus, the other is the life I have lived up until the point that she came along, and I knew Javelina back then, back in the dsy.

I'm still the same guy.

Matt, you thought you were playin' us like the devil plays a fiddle... We had you pegged from the start...You're a fraud...There, I said what everybody else refused to... You presented yourself as a long lost friend to one of my closest friends and that burns my A$$ to no end... How dare you...

Martin, I apologise for my loss of composure, but this person should be down right ashamed of himself...

It's not a phone it's an iPad the computer. And I know I don't have to lie to kick it, so believe what you want. That's fine with me. This is just too ridiculous. Why are you turning in to an adolescent? I thought you were different, better. This is disappointing and proves your. Worth. This is not worth my time, I'm SO done.

Disappointed terribly.

LSD

A sincere apology from an insincere, duplicitous Fake? Well stranger things can happen, so who are we to question it's validity? NAAAH! I am throwing it!B.S.! You feeling all warm and snuggly in that Blankie,dude?

Before everyone gets all caught up in the drama of me pulling my own covers, please understand this...

I have never posted anything here that was false. Yes, I used a username, but so does everyone else. The content of every post I have made here has been 100% bonafide, and I stand by everything I have said.

I have not betrayed anyone, nor have I betrayed anyone's confidence.

Javelina, I didn't apologize for this, so you refusing to accept my "sorry" is a flap in the wind. I never said that I am sorry.

I haven't done anything wrong here. I did something incredibly stupid, but I didn't do anything wrong.

I wonder if this type of thing merits a call to... Hmmm something with three letters like initials or...
I KNOW! I have a great idea! I'll call... Ooops! Don't to ruin the surprise.
Tell Rashidah I said Hey!

Yes Matt, your creditability has gone down the drain and each time you post under the account of succubussed, people will know the truth about who you are... You and everything that comes out of your mouth is one big JOKE!...What an effing fraud you are, go back under a rock you grub... Grrrrrr 😠 😠 😠

Yeah, oh well. I guess this was bound to happen. My real name is now attached to my stories in this category.

If you want to talk about it with me, my email is in my profile.

Princesslotus, I don't accept that you calling me "Suck" was the fault of your phone. I have a smartphone too, and I would NEVER send someone a message that had auto-corrected their name into an insult. It's still your responsibility, and so when you post a comment that calls me "suck", yeah, you're calling me names.

[at] Succubussed,
Busted! What did you think I would not figure you out? And no one else is falling for it either. Nice try though... Oh sure, you're sorry.

Well now, guess we got another one who forgot to sign out of one account before commenting with the other's voice 😆 😆 😆

Oh well. I guess that everything has a reason.

For everyone that has decided to dislike me, I am here for a reason, and that is this...

There are invisible Beings that touch Humans sexually. They don't ask us, but it feels so pleasing that in most cases we consent, and so it can hardly be called "rape", even though it happens, at least initially, without our consent.

When this happens, it's very upsetting and confusing, and what makes it worse is the fact that we cannot talk about it with anyone we know. People freak out about it at the very least, and more often, judge us harshly for enjoying it.

The isolation that we feel is extreme. There is nobody with whom we can talk about this thing that happens to us.

And so we search the Internet, and some of us find our way here. And then when we describe what happens, there seems to be a segment of YGS members who have decided that this is inappropriate detail, even though this same sort of story has been published here on YGS for years.

And this bothers me, a lot.

Unfortunately, there seems to be a growing trend that everything that gets posted here be rated PG-13, and so when one of us describes this thing that happens, there is a massive clamor from a bunch of YGS regulars that obscures the issue at hand.

I am here because this happens to me, and I need to be able to talk about it. I am sorry if this upsets people. That's not my intent.

No smart one, I'm on an iPad & it corrects the spelling. Succ isn't a word, I didn't want to type your whole name. But I'm glad you came out of the closet now for you'r reveal Matt. Glad to be of assistance. I'm not out of line, I guess my iPad is. Sorry, hunny. I don't call names, I'm not 5.

LSD

Um...Confusion and WTF-ery reigns...Succubussed?...Matt?...wow

Actually, Suck, I don't care. You really should just put all your energy into reading more stories and let this one go. For real. Don't you have anything better to do?I'm sure someone else here could use your help too, this poor dude! His comments section sucks man. And if we are cool than just have some respect for this poster & your self and move on please? I'm sure he appreciated your input. And even if I'm cool with someone I will not hold back, I'm too real. I know I appreciate it when my friends tell me I'm out of line, or when it's just enough. I'm trying to save all of us from this headache. I apologise if I upset you, but man...c'mon! I'm done, I'm so sorry To the poster, I hope he sees this... Hope he returns. Bless y'all.

LSD

Actually, Princesslotus, if you scroll down, you will see that I did advise guyinsane to quit thinking about this Thing that is happening to him, if he wants to have it stop.

That if he gives it attention it will continue, and that includes discussing it here. So maybe his absence is because he really does want to get rid of it, and not that he is upset by anything that was said here in the comments section

On another note, I thought you and I were cool with each other. I guess not.

Peace, anyways.

This is f***ing stupid! Why don't you just give it a rest? This poor dude will probably never come back due to another one of your fits, succubussed. Please just let it go be bigger than this. Damn.

LSD

Aussiedaz--"Martin has made that very clear... What he also pointed out... Was that some parts of this story were a little too graphic of which most of us here agreed with."

What I am banging on about, Aussie, and what seems to be such a Big Bone of Contention, is that what you and several other people are complaining about is the language that Martin DID let get through.

Martin himself said that he edited some stuff out. That means, to me, that what got left in was by his approval. So when a few "Regular Posters" get their knickers all in a bunch and criticize the OP, it seems to me that the readers of this site are taking upon themselves authority that doesn't belong to them.

I think that the Webmaster knows what he's doing. When something gets through of which you and a few others do not approve, it's NOT a sign that he messed up; It's a very clear indication that your standards of what is acceptable here on YGS is different from what the owner of the site deems acceptable, and that you are attempting to exercise a tighter restriction on what gets allowed on YGS than the owner of the site allows.

That seems a tad presumptuous to me, and to get back to why this even bothers me at all... What this sort of action does is to inhibit those people to whom this does happen. Imagine if every time that someone posted about a ghost dog, seven or eight "Regular Posters" jumped in, criticizing the amount of graphic detail contained in the story.

My beef here is that you and a few others seem to be wanting to take control of YGS and turn it into something different from what it has been for years, and as far as I am concerned, this site is just about perfect, as is.

Thank you dear. And yes I know, but it's in my heart & I love my job 😊 I will be here again, more often. Had to take a break for a while. Bless you!

LSD

Zzsgranny, I am pretty much (not entirely, just pretty much, but that's enough, eh?) good with agreeing to disagree.

Please know that when the next person comes along and describes something of this nature and five or six "Regular Posters" jump their case, complaining that there is too much graphic detail in their story, that I will still be here, defending that person, and their right to use this site as I think it it was intended to be. As a place where people who experience unnatural things can come talk about it freely, without being judged.

Princesslotus, your words of wisdom, borne through experience--even though I don't agree with your theology--are a welcome contribution to this discussion. Thank you for showing up and piping in (I was hoping you'd come along).

Succubussed, what you are not understanding is, no one is trying to shut down this subject and discourage people from coming forward and Martin has made that very clear... What he also pointed out... Was that some parts of this story were a little too graphic of which most of us here agreed with... The author can still receive advise privately with people like yourself should he want to continue a relationship with one and go into personal details, I doubt stories like this will get knocked back for lack of graphics... Something else you should comprehend.

Your views on what is acceptable language when describing the experience are not the average view of the general public... Considering the general public come from a broad spectrum of people including children, religious groups, teenagers and parents etc... These groups have to be considered when setting guidelines as Martin I'm sure would agree with... Your choice to have a relationship with one is your business, but I think its fair to say you belong to an minority view and do have some bias on the topic and that's understandable...that's why you started your own web site... I don't know what else to say to you except get over it... You control your web site and set the rules and expect people to abide by them... Well you should respect the rules and guidelines that Martin has here... THE END.

Succubussed: I've gone back and reread all of these comments, and no where did I see anyone asking that this catagory be completely removed from YGS, only that future posts be cleaned up, and not as explicite as former accounts were... There was the suggestion of a sister site, but I think Martin has his hands full with the "three sisters" as it is, and so, deemed not possible, and unfeasible...I'm sure that's one point where we can all agree 😊

You have the right to maintain your stance and opinions, and so does everyone else...It's a subject that creates passionate responses, pro and con... So hopefully, we can all just "agree to disagree" and move on from here on out...

I think this dead horse has enough broken bones...

I'm so sorry this is happening to you. I know just how you feel. A succubus/iincubus attached it's self to me at a VERY young age & followed me everywhere. I have learned to battle it & through helping others with the same... Issues has really done me some good. Being a leader in the church I'm a big target for spiritual warfare so still to this day I deal with this thing. It causes you fear, embarrassment & confusion. I've felt ashamed at times. Things like this just cause me to cling to God closer& closer. It's hard to resist something that feels so pleasurable, but you can, through God it is possible. It's hard work, but there is hope, I promise. Maybe I can minister a bit to you one on one. I've helped friends on this sight & others across the world. So if you feel comfortable I'm more than happy to help. No pressure 😊 😊 I continue praying for you. Bless you & yours.

Lotustopnotch8 [at] gmail.com

LSD

Having made that apology (sincerely), however, I still stand by my position that the clamor to shut this sort of story down serves only to discourage those to whom it happens from opening up and talking about it here.

YGS provides a very valuable service by providing a place to talk about this sort of phenomenon. To those who would deny this part of YGS, I say that you're being selfish and closed minded, in a place that should be a bastion of open-minded tolerance of the unexplained.

Actually, Rashidah, I'm the one who should apologize.

Javelina, I am sorry. My comment was way out of line. Please forgive me.

I think they both should apologize to each other. Not just one person. Seriously guys grow up.

Apparently you all do not find that this page is messed up enough.

now succubussed that comment was totaly out of line, your getting too personal now disagreeing on a story is one thing but that was un~called for you should appologise to javilina.
Your totaly throwing that out of context.
That was low, you were making your points and javilina was making hers, that's why comments is open but not for personal Bi***ing.

I edited out a few sentences that were deemed too graphic upon my personal review. I want to make it clear that we have no problems with the phenomenon itself, this is part of human experiences with the paranormal, but this is also a general public site and there is no need for graphic details.

Succubussed,
Yes, as a matter of fact, I am loads of laughs! I'm a heck of a Scrabble player, and I love to put together Jigsaw puzzles too.
What kind of fun were you talking about?

Succubussed, do you not have any morals at all... Regardless of what you think of Javelina and your stance on the argument here... You last comment was a disgraceful one to someone who was once traumatized by cruel circumstances... Shame on you.

Succubussed,
Alright, my opinion on the scenarios you have been laying out as examples? The last one in particular? It sounds like rape to me. I'm not giving in. I can see the rape aspect of your given example...and? How does that justify the explicit nature of this story?
My opinion? It doesn't. Are you trying to tell me that the women on this site have no experience when it comes to rape? I can't answer for the others here but I can for myself. As a victim of a gang rape I can say this, no explicit description can hold more intensity than what I have just revealed. You do not convince me with that argument.

succubussed I agree ygs does not need "fixing" but then I don't feel that people are griping about the story it's self but the wording used in it.
I did read a few more of the sucubi stories posted as you surgested to aussiedaz before I commented and yes one or 2 did use risky wording that some might not like to read but also like I said others made there point obvious without "full explanation" if you get my drift.

You say if you don't like to read it don't read the stories, some people enjoy the stories but sometimes the poster could use slightly less to the letter wording.

All of the people who visit here on a regular basis would have seen the message from martin stating that things have gotten busy and not all the editors are working so some things will slip by and unfortunatly this one did.

Guyinsane did say in a comment himself that he will tone down the wording in his next story, this story does sound genuine I'm not disputing that but it was more explisite than most.
I know that if the whole team were working on editing the posts that this one would have been picked up on and guyinsane would have been asked to refrase some bits (had this done to one of mine)

Now when I said a sister site could help the point I wanted to make was that some posters (myself included I admit) scan through the rules and don't take it all on board but if a second area that was 18+ only could take said posts and the writer could put the bits they wanted to put obviously even this could be abused
But at least parents who can block sites with adult ratings won't have to worry about there kids seeing things like that, I know most parents won't have time to watch everything there kids do online that's why parent control was created.

Sorry if this sounds like I'm ranting on not my intention
Carl

Javelina, scroll down and see my comment that starts with your username and says "That's exactly it"

I wrote that in response to a question you wrote where you said--"What do you mean by the last part of this sentence?
"what used to be a means for people who have this happen to them into a place where nobody would feel comfortable describing anything sexual at all."
Is that why you're so upset?

I am interested in what you would have to say about this.

Succubussed,
The Question? Issues? The only issue I'm concerned with is the only one I have even discussed here. Please repeat the question.

taz, thanks for the vote of confidence, and yes, I have been studying these Beings for a long time, but all that my studying has done is to make me realize that I know even less about Sex Beings now than I did when I started. They are a puzzle.

As for making a sister site or any other changes... I am not in favor of this idea.

YGS seems to work just fine. It ain't broke, and it don't need fixing.

As long as people would stop griping about it!

*cuss words*

That sounds right to me Granny and again thank you for answering my original question of which I directed at the team here at YGS... I think all of us know how unappreciative the job of being a mod can feel sometimes, especially when there are arguments before you like this one... But we are thankful for the hours of work you all put in running the joint and let's all move forward together with a better understanding and with in the guidelines of YGS. ❤

Succubussed, I agree, but any rule is open to interpretation... And you're not the only one to make an a** out of yourself! 😆...I think when these heated discussions occur, the tendancy is there for all of us to do so...

"Technical details", according to my interpretation, is the usage of specific terminology to describe those bodily functions that occur and organs utilized in copulation, and play by play reporting like bragging to your buddies in the locker room...

Just my opinion, though... 😊

Great points taz.

A sister site for these stories should be made. Succubussed based on his experiences will be of great help there.

By the mean time we should reference other sites for this issue so that the author can get more help and advice.

zzsgranny and Javelina, I have definitely gone through the guidelines recently in order to make sure that I wasn't making an a** of myself.

I do that often enough.

I did read the guidelines, and I think that you will agree that if not vague, they do at least leave room for interpretation. What are "technical details"?

And as I said, there are dozens of other Succubus/Incubus/Sexual Ghost stories that equal or even exceed the detail in this story, and I think that the problem that some people are having with it is a recent thing that goes counter to what YGS has been all these years.

And Javelina... You didn't really answer me and the comment I wrote, addressing your issues. It would be cool if you did

oops sorry aussiedaz
Spelt name wrong no offence ment and I proof read too 😲

some very good points have been thrown in here tonight.
Succubussed your right there should be a place for people to tell there stories without fear or ridicule. And this site does that job but it does allow young people to use it too and that is a point to be concidered.

Aussiedan unfotunatly this one is a bit explicit most of the others I have looked at tend not to use so much discription but still get the point across.

Miracles the idea of a sister site for the more explicit storys sounds like an idea that could work I have read one story where the poster just said "area was touched" it was obvious what area without being spelt out but some first timers might write the exact thing they mean without thinking who would read it and to be honest some adults might take offence too.

Zzsgranny there is no way to garentee that martin and co would catch all the under 13s getting on but an 18+ site could be blocked by parents control on comps so a sister site with 18+ rate could be a thing to look into.

And back to succubussed you seam to be the person who I personaly think would be the person to help with this sister site if one could be made up you have your site yourself and have said you have researched sucubi for a long time.

Thank you Granny, for the answer to my question.

Regards Daz.

"This site is for the general public. No sexually explicit content is allowed. You can mention a sexual experience with general terms, but there really is no need for technical details."

*From the submission guidelines*

[at] Succubussed,
And in all that roaming and searching you have somehow passed over the guidelines rules for posting both stories and comments? Because you don't make any valid argument for allowing something that is clearly against the site's stated guidelines. I don't get why your case is so special, I really don't. Sorry.

Javelina, that's exactly it.

Try to understand how it might feel to a person who has something invisible groping them in their bed. It feels sort of creepy since it's NOT a Human, and you can't see whatever it is that's doing it, but it feels really REALLY good.

Imagine the conflicting feelings that you would have. And you can't talk about it, even with your closest friends because they'll think you're nuts, or a major perv ("Hey guys! Guess what! _____ thinks he/she is having sex with a ghost!")

So you roam around the Internet, and you find all of this baloney on Wikipedia and other sites that says this is a mortal evil and wow how messed up is THAT, but then hey...

You find YGS, and there are other people here who have had this happen to them as well. And maybe if you talk about it, someone else who has had this happen to them will pipe up and you won't feel like such a freak about it.

But then, here comes a dozen people, ragging on about how this stuff doesn't belong here, it can't be real or you'd never talk about it, you pervert son of a blabbity blah, and so yes... All of this does, in my opinion, discourage people who really have this happen to them from being able to talk about it here.

And there aint many places where a person can talk about this, so it bums me out to see this site turning so hostile toward this sort of paranormal experience.

Do you see my point?

No mate,... These stories can be difficult and painful to confront for the recipient and I do encourage them to come forward... I am asking the question is there any type of code or guidelines by law that must be followed here because their is no age restriction... Graphic details step by step... Some of these stories are like soft p0rn... Now, should the onus be on the mod to decline a couple and ask the author to tone it down a little...that's the angle I'm coming from... On this story if I were the mod... I would welcome the story but ask the author to re write it and tone it down... I think this one just crosses that line.

Succubussed,
You know we are talking about something completely different. Why do you insist we have ulterior motives? Do you think these descriptive accounts are appropriate for the allowed age group?

Succubussed,
What do you mean by the last part of this sentence?
"what used to be a means for people who have this happen to them into a place where nobody would feel comfortable describing anything sexual at all."
Is that why you're so upset? 😕

Ok, Aussie and Javelina... If I understand you, what you would like is for YGS to disallow these sorts of stories entirely in order to ensure that nothing too graphic be available to the under-18 set?

Really?

Succubussed, I think you are missing the point, I have made a complaint to the web master about the standard of these stories and the code of practise that allows this site to display stories to those under the age of 18, now just because there is 400 similar stories already here, does not mean that on some occasions the line hasn't been crossed according to the code... Now I would suggest 4 years ago people may of not being disturbed or offended by the material written then... That doesn't mean that the guidelines may of not been breeched...

Now perhaps their well with in the guidelines and everything is fine... Perhaps their is no code... I don't know and perhaps the web master don't appreciate me asking this question the way I am... Are you trying to suggest to me that this question is unfair? If you don't know the answer yourself I would suggest you stop trying to sidetrack the issue.

zzgranny,
That's a wonderful idea! I myself, have no objection whatsoever to the category itself, it exists because the phenomenon exists is how I see it. In my opinion, as it sits now, with it being so openly descriptive, I fear the unintended consequences could actually harm not just the younger readers, but the site as a whole, and that would be a travesty.
My intentions from the first comment I posted to this story on, were sincere. Any side sniping was just a defensive reflex and nothing more.

Why on earth would the author want to come back here and read childish spats?

I mean really?

Well said Succubussed. I second that.

This page has too many spats. It is disrespectful to the author. He probably got scared off this page.

Well, Granny, since you asked 😆. Is there a possibility of a sister site for these stories?

Most of us have acknowledged that there are, indeed, sexual beings of some sort, whether they are created in our minds or actually exist. I'm not sure that it matters where they come from. The fact remains, there are people who need and want help. I've mentioned once before that I was one of those people. So talking to people who've experienced similar things does help.

Having a forum geared specifically for these experiences could possibly alleviate some of the issues raised here and allow the posters to get the help they are looking for.

However, this doesn't appear to be the right forum for it. We have a sister site for spiritual experiences as well as psychic experiences. Martin even referred one of my stories to the psychic site, rather than this one. So why couldn't editors refer these stories to a sister site, the same as Martin did my story?

zzsgranny--"So that said, let's get it all in the open, and SOMEBODY help provide a solution that satisfies all concerned, including the editors and Martin..."

I have a suggestion. How about everybody quit trying to do the Webmaster and Editors job, and just accept the idea that if one of these stories appears on the page that it's been approved and quit B****ing about it?

It's distracting and doesn't accomplish a thing.

If you don't like this sort of story, don't read it. If you're not comfortable with your 13 year-old or older children reading it, then don't let them get on the Internet without your supervision.

I'm seriously not trying to start or engage in a fight here, but this complaining and demanding that this sort of story be shut down is turning what used to be a means for people who have this happen to them into a place where nobody would feel comfortable describing anything sexual at all.

I personally, can see both sides of this discussion... If I had a child younger than 18, I would not want them reading some of this stuff, whether posted yesterday or 4 years ago, doesn't matter... It is a subject that needs to be addressed and help provided if available...Also, a subject used by a few individuals as a cheap thrill...

I think Martin and the editors are stuck between a rock and a hard place when it comes to this subject... Even with an u/18 rule, who's to say that that rule would be observed?...I mean, look at all the under 13 year olds that sneak in that we're unaware of... Which takes us full circle, and back to the main concern of more than one member...

So that said, let's get it all in the open, and SOMEBODY help provide a solution that satisfies all concerned, including the editors and Martin...

If there is no way to solve it, then we need to be accepting of the status-quo...We don't have to like it, or hate it, or comment on it, or argue about it... Because obviously those approaches haven't solved anything to date...

Javelina, I have nothing to say to you that I haven't already said, so I'm not going to continue with the back and forth that you seem to desire. Every single question and issue that you raise with me here has already been dealt with by me here, and so I believe that any further attempts at communicating with you are a waste of my time.

Peace. I wish you well, but I totally disagree with you and think that you need to lighten up more than a little.

Aussiedaz, if you would like, I would be more than happy to sift through the 100+ Succubus/Incubus/Sexual Ghost stories on this site and provide the links to show you that the above story is well within the range of what gets posted here. Seriously... Go through the stories in this category and you'll see that the above story is nothing new. What IS new is this group of "Regular Posters" to whom you refer who seem to have taken it upon themselves to decide for everyone what is allowed and not allowed to be posted to YGS.

This "10 Regular Posters" to whom you refer is the problem that I am having with the members of YGS, in fact. In my opinion, these "regular posters" are a self-congratulatory group that seems to have taken it upon themselves to decide what is and is not appropriate here on this site.

And in their frequent criticisms of the material contained in these stories, the Regular Posters are discouraging people who are experiencing this, and who might otherwise come forward if it weren't turning into such a hostile environment for them on this site. That, in my opinion, is a g** damned shame, and counter to what this site has the potential to be.

I don't understand why "Regular Posters" should be given any more status than anyone else. In my opinion, the Regular Poster is nothing more than someone who has enough free time to get involved in an Internet group. That doesn't qualify anyone to be the judge of others.

And one more final thing... If you or anyone else are letting your 13 year-old children have unsupervised access to the Internet, then you should HOPE that this site is the most raunchy that they visit.

Succubussed, As I said in my last comment you can look away from one or two stories that walk along the boundary of decency and slip through editing... I'm sure there are others here as well... As I said too in my last post... In my opinion there are too many here... I don't know the guidelines of practise and what this site can reveal without being whacked with an u/18 restriction... What I can tell you is... Today there are up to 10 regular posters here that I know of and who in my opinion, would on balance speak for the parents of the children that stumble across this site from time to time... They are finding the detail in the story a little disturbing and don't believe the standard is acceptable for children to read... Now I can appreciate how tiring and sometimes painful it is for a mod to sift through story to story and some will get through the net that can't be help... I guess I am asking the web master to set the record straight and let us all know what that the standard is... Cause that seems to be the only way to settle this with out dragging it on... In regards to the subject I take it very serious and do believe people need help... But I think there are those that submit here who are not genuine and are getting a kick out of what their writing and I think also some here are getting turned on by it... Now I'm not after an argument with anyone, this is my complaint to the web master and I will respect his reply if his willing.

Regards

Succubussed,
I realize now what the problem may be as far as the comments go anyway. You've entirely turned the comments that were made on this story into what you have perceived them to be and not what they actually said.
First, no one has made any judgement as to the existence or not of these beings. It seems no matter how we put our words, you still don't seem to understand. I don't have a position on their existence because I have no experience to fall back on. My objection now and as long as the age limit for this site is 13 years, the graphic descriptions used in these accounts. I doubt my opinion on that will likely change in the future either. As I've repeated ad nauseum, this is inappropriate reading material for that age group, it will just have to be my town cry each time I see a story that goes that far in it's descriptions. You cannot change that no matter how much you wish it were about something you could really complain about. The fact that you aren't bothered has he quite puzzled though. This makes no sense to me at all. Are you saying this is the type of reading material you would endorse for the younger readers on this site? Please get back to me with your answer for this question, I feel this is most important.

Sorry, Miracles51031... I misspoke. Yes, the forum is still fully operational, and yes, it is a place where people who experience this sort of thing can come talk about it without being judged, but it's still a second step on the way toward being able to discuss what happens to those of us that this happens to.

If you do a google search on most of the symptoms that Humans experience when sexually touched by a Sex Being, most of the pages that come up are here on YGS.

I don't want to get all full of myself and act as if our little forum is enough, when in fact this site right here is still the primary go-to for people who have suddenly discovered that something invisible is having sex with them and don't know how to deal with it.

YGS is still the first place that people run to, and so it really bothers me when these same people catch all kinds of flack about the content of their stories when they open up and talk about it here.

I guess you could say that I am on a bit of a crusade about it, but my motives are clean.

Succubussed - I'm a little confused by a comment you just made. You said "There is no other place that I know of besides this one on the Web where they can talk about it." I thought you had a site that was specifically for this subject. Several of us have referred people on here to you for this very reason. Is that site no longer in operation? If that's the case, then we will no longer need to refer people there.

Aussiediaz, if you go through the stories in this category, I think that you will find that this one particular story is no more graphic in detail than many, and much less so than some.

I don't think that there is a degeneration of standards happening here on YGS, whereby increasingly graphic sexual material is slipping through. I think what's going on is an increasing resistance by certain members of YGS to any discussion of this phenomenon in anything other than the vaguest terms, and it is that trend that I feel needs to be addressed and resisted.

To illustrate my point, try reading this one. This story is 4 years old, and is easily as graphic in the description of what happened as is this story here.

Http://www.yourghoststories.com/real-ghost-story.php?story=1182

It's four years old, and it's not the only one that I could show you that is as graphic as the story here, so there really is no increasing tendency toward graphic sexual content on this site, nor is there a decreasing tendency of the Webmaster or the Editors to weed this stuff out.

What I AM seeing is a growing tendency among YGS members (especially the newer members) toward intolerance of stories of this nature, and that bothers me enough to say something about it.

As I have said before... This thing really does happen to people. There is no other place that I know of besides this one on the Web where they can talk about it.

Are the people that hare this happen to them supposed to just stuff it and keep it inside?

I think a little less stridence by certain members toward this type of story being posted might go a long way toward making YGS a friendlier, and more helpful site to all.

That's the problem there are too many, you could look away at one or two of them, but the standard of writing material in regards to these kind of stories is really getting in the gutter... If they put an under 18 restrictions on this site then yes fair enough no one could complain, I just think this site has better standards than that and the community in general are decent people who respect the seriousness of these stories but are just concerned about children reading them... The subject itself is one to be taken serious and their are those here who can genuinely offer help... But at the end of the day it is up to the web master, its his site.

There are many stories here that are too graphic. It is best you complain about all of the rest.

Or maybe this isn't the right site for people to come here for this type of issue. It seems to rile people up.

Discussions on incubi are very touchy for most who do not really have understanding in that area. That is why I referred the author to other sites that are more centered around this topic.

To the web master, considering young teenagers do come here seeking advise... I have to agree with Javelina that this story is just a little too explicit... I can see where the author has apologized for the story being too graphic... But the onus in my opinion is with the editor... I know I am only another one here of many and of coarse I don't have to read them... And this is not my site... But the way this story was written in my opinion does not have enough class here for its viewers.

guyinsane...one thing you might want to keep in mind is that if you continue to think about her, even negatively, it will establish a link between the two of you. Like I said, they seem to feed on attention.

That includes coming here and reading about what others say she might be or what she might want.

If you decide to cut ties, you will have to make it 100% and not even think about her. And that includes coming here to see what people have said about her.

You can email me if you want (email is in my profile), and I will respond, but please be aware that this pursuit will strengthen the connection.

Succubussed,
Is that all you've got? PLEASE! I'm not going to argue editors decisions, as far as I know, YOU could be an editor. Now that would be a silly thing for me to do if what I said were true, wouldn't it? And I'm not so sure I'm wrong in my wild guess to tell you the truth. I mean, there has to be some reason you keep using that as your bait. That's all I see this as...bait. You trying to get me to say something truly outrageous in the hopes of getting me banned. How close an I? Am I warm, cold... Or HOT? Sorry pal, not today. Not this girl and definitely not by you. So come back when you come up with something a lot less obvious and a little more up to the opponent's speed.

Javelina...although I might like to address the many issues you raise, I am going to stick with the one.

The stories posted on YGS are approved by the editors (including the Webmaster himself). Therefore, your repeated complaints that these stories are too graphic is a complaint that means that you think that the editors (or Webmaster himself) are not doing their job in keeping this site kid-friendly.

Are you actually saying that you don't think the owner of the site is not doing his job properly?

If a story gets published here, it means that someone in charge deemed it an acceptable story, AS WRITTEN. When you complain that the wording is "too graphic", or that the story is somehow inappropriate, you are in fact complaining about the administration of YGS.

It's like this... Suppose you go to a country that allows topless sunbathing. You take your kids there, and they see some boobs. Who do you complain to... The woman who, obeying the laws, allowed your children to see her breasts, or do you take it up with the authorities who allow this?

Maybe you shouldn't complain at all. Maybe you should just avoid the beach where you might see something that will upset you.

I for one, am really pleased that YGS allows this sort of story, and your repeated complaints make me wonder why you don't get yourself some semblance of a life.

Please, it's very hard to describe the attention of a Sex Demon without getting graphic. I think guyinsane has done a commendable job here. YGS seems to think that what he wrote is acceptable or his story wouldn't have been published. Why are you having such a problem with it, and if you ARE having such a problem with it, why are you reading stories in this category?

Javelina

I read a few of the stories in the Sexual Ghost category a few days before I posted my story. I didn't rummaged the entire site. I posted my encounter because it was like getting rid of a burden as I never told anyone about what I had experienced. I felt the need to share my encounter because some of the stories were very similar to mine.

I have looked at some of the other categories after I had posted mine and after I saw that teenagers were posting so I went to check out the rules. To be honest I thought I would have had to resubmit the story but anyways what's done is done.

This site has taught me much and has helped in some manner to provide answers to questions I've had for a long time. I must say that I sleep better at nights. I've ignored all "supernatural" touches also... Thank you for your well wishes.

[at] Succubussed,
Here we are again, and how often you assume you are always in the right when it comes to this category astounds me. Please don't get me wrong here, I do realize you've got experience on the subject. But for me that's where it stops. Your hovering over each and every story as if it were your own child is quite distressing and doesn't give much of a margin for error. You know, just in case you happen to be wrong in your assessment. It could, and does happen everyday in every other category on this site, so what makes this one so special? Because you say so? You don't let it go to your head too much now, do you?
There's a big difference between you and I and I'm not speaking of the obvious here. You see when I make a mistake or do something stupid I own up to it, I'm not putting forth anything about myself that says I know more than anyone else on any subject here. Alas, we cannot say the same in your case, now can we? You've made a project out of trying to keep others from wanting to comment on "your" turf. You go out of your way to undermine any opinion that doesn't follow your dogma. No one can have an opinion but you. If you don't see the wrong in that then you're worse off than I thought.
Don't try to bully me away from this category, it won't work. I'm not the type that takes bullying well. You should know that by now. If I have an opinion, I'll offer it. You are also not the owner of this site and your opinions are the same as mine, WELCOME. At least that's how I read it. If you know of a separate set of rules that apply to you only, then please enlighten me. Heaven knows I wouldn't want to continue making the same mistake over and over again. How pointless is that?
So excuse me for wandering where you are unwilling to allow others, but I don't give a rip about your invisible boundary lines. And neither should anyone else.
My problem with this account was it's graphic description, not the language. I realize you'd like to paint it otherwise, but not today pal. If you can't see past your selfish desire to keep these accounts to yourself and not allow others to say their piece then you might want to check your priorities. The age limit is what concerns me, why that is such a problem for you to understand is most assuredly troubling. And unbecoming of anyone, especially someone who sees himself as an expert as you so obviously do. I wouldn't want a teenager in my family to read such graphic accounts and I certainly hope you feel the same. If you don't, then it's you sir who are the problem, not I.

guyinsane2008,
Thank you for your prompt reply to my comments. As it stands, I've yet to see a story get re-edited once it's been posted but I've only been on this site for just under a year and I can say it's not impossible.
As for the rules and not reading them before posting? I'm going to hold my opinion to myself, for now. You did say you'd read stories here before posting your account and have also commented. So you aren't so new after all and the story will most likely stay as written.
How very sad that this has occurred. I can only shake my head and wonder what will come next.
I hope you find what you're looking for here, it would be a shame after all this if you were to walk away no better off than when you first arrived. As I said before, people on this site take these matters seriously. None of us want to see anyone walk away without learning something that might give them solace in their time of need.

Javelina, there are so many things in error in your comment that I wouldn't even know where to start, so I am going to focus on just one issue you have with this story.

You go on at great length, criticizing guiyinsane for the "graphic language" that he used to describe his experience. This isn't the first time you've gotten your feather in a ruffle over the nature of the language in a story in the Succubus/Incubus/Sexual Ghost category.

Has it not occurred to you that the webmaster of this site has deemed this category to be valid in the discussion of the paranormal, and more importantly, has it not occurred to you that every single story that gets posted on this site has been reviewed and approved by the editors? If it makes it to the YGS page, someone in charge approved it.

Are you trying to say that you know how to run this site better than the webmaster? Because when you criticize the language that is used in a story, you are criticizing the judgment of the editor who approved it.

Again, I suggest to YOU, that if this kind of thing bothers you so much, quit reading these types of stories.

[at] Sucubussed - as you stated, it can be addictive as I have also experienced but I don't want it to continue. For the past 2 years the attacks were very infrequent when compared to the 2008 period (when I was based at that location). However, I guess the fact that I'm on this site may have renewed interest in these beings. I am ignoring all invisible touches and hopefully it will stop soon.