Comments for Angelic: Page 1

lady-glow-
Yes I am asking for help, I just don't tolerate assumptions. Just think about it, you could've asked other questions, even if it was still disrespectful, you didn't have to imply I was a stupid child. The subject is about the story, not what you think my intelligence is. I'm not even saying I was right the entire way, I'm not. The point I have been trying to make is you had no right judging my intelligence, and I didn't have the right to judge how you treat others.

Respectfully,

phd-
I respect everyone's questions, not assumptions. I know nobody is out to get me, this isn't face book, and I'm not trying to see it that way if that's what you think. Again, I can take questions and arguments about what's true and what isn't, assumptions just gives me the obligation to make assumptions back, even though it makes me look selfish, and I shouldn't have been especially when I have already gotten my point across.

phd-
I know, I know. These are opinions I shouldn't be angry about, I was angry with only one person for implying I was a child, that is all. And I did apologize better to everyone, just a second ago, I commented for everyone, and apologized not to just one person in my last comment.

I don't have questions yet, everyone in this chat is right about it being too scrambled considering I was barely able to get the events and paragraphs in order. I do intend to ask questions in my next submission, mostly about how to deal with loved ones in the afterlife, if its possible anyone knows of that somewhat. I have no high hopes anyone is an expert on it, but that's the type of subject I intend to ask questions about in the next submission. I have no more intentions for arguing as long as nobody assumes something of me that isn't true. I was just trying to get my point across, harshly at some point, but also honestly after that part.

Ill have to wait for another Monday to submit the one I placed in order. Its obvious I did seem angry about what lady-glow said, and I'm honest enough to admit it was unnecessary what I had said about her because I did say enough after the top comment to rookdygin, the second one was too harsh, and just from the top of that comment I had already made my point. Generally I want anyone to know that I can take an argument respectfully, if someone assumes I'm a "child", or whatever, anything in general, they should expect me to assume something of them back. I might've seemed out of line the same as her, but I intend to be considerate when people want to understand my experience's better. Again, I apologize for the confusion, and the inconvenience, and I will change it as soon as I can when Monday comes.
Respectfully, to everyone who commented my story.

Respectfully,

Kya: Apologize, better to get facts straight though...

You pasted your experience and we would prefer asking direct questions and we suggest you don't take this personal, guess it has become too personal and notice the tension in your comments. We are not out there to get you...

rookdygin-
I understand, just as I said to lady-glow Ill work on pasting the events in the order I remember. I did apologize to her, and I honestly didn't mean it. She claimed that I made her day with my harsh words when she made my day first. But it doesn't matter, I should've left it where I had it cause I already made my point, and talking like that wasn't necessary.
Then again from what I mentioned to her, she didn't have to argue disrespectfully, I would've argued respectfully if she had as well. I was expecting arguments against my stories, I wasn't expecting to be treated like a child for it.
Anyway, Ill change the story, I want people here to like it, not to be confused.

lady-glow
Look, I just felt disrespected, you should expect the same thing back when commenting disrespectfully. I claimed I didn't know you, and I dont, try not to take it to heart, I act in the heat of the moment, and you made my day to.
You are right, Ill look on through the events, it'll still be the same words but Ill copy and paste them in the right order. The funny thing is, I'm a girl in shorts and flip flops to, I admit I did judge pretty harshly, but so did you, considering you expected me to be a child. Its not impossible to argue respectfully, if not arguing respectfully it you makes you look like the mean one, possibly a child, but child isn't how you seemed. Now, I do apologize for my judgmental assumption, but you can't deny that wasn't your attitude. When people read my stories Ill be considerate and listen them, Ill unscramble it and see what comments I get next time. I apologize for the confusion throughout this recent submission.

Rookdygin: here they go, on a silver tray and carried by an English Butler! 😆 😆

Hey lady-glow...please pass the Rocky Mountian Oysters and Mile High Champagne. 😉 😲 😁

Respectfully,

Rook

Kya,

Scrambling the order of events makes it very difficult for anyone to try and help you. Different types of hauntings and different kinds of spirits or entities tend to display patterns... It does not matter if they are good or evil... A pattern can be observed and this can help investagaters (sp?) determine what type of haunting or spirit is in the houshold or around an individual.

No one is here to Judge you but some of us are very direct... Myself included... When we question someone's experience. Things like 'out of order' details or 'oh yeah' that happened AFTER questions are being asked makes your experience sound 'manufactured'...

Just saying.

Respectfully,

Rook

Kya: you are asking for help in this forum and it would be a great help for the rest of the members if your story were written in not the confusing way it is, or, like you say, scrambled.

Either we like it or not, in the cyberspace, the writing style of a person is going to be the "first impression" given to the rest of the inhabitants of this particular world. 😐

I guess that is the reason why I thought you are a very young person and why you think this lady in flip-flops and cut off shorts is a "spoiled high class" gal.😆 😆

You made my day!

phd-
*sigh* Again, like I have said to lady glow, agree with what you want, or think what you want, I'm going to tell you what I have told her. The story is scrambled, that doesn't mean a child is behind it, the details werent explained fully cause my first love was a douche, and made things too personal in my life, the one who told me my note was "disturbing". This ghost was a mystery to me for years, until my first love left.
It is a bit of romance, but it was between a real person I had feelings for who was a bad influence in my love life, and an entity that had feelings for me during that time.
By the way, its not logical to be disrespectful about someones memories, I wouldve have been a lot less harsh if she wasnt, regardless the point of the situation.

rookdygin -
Thank you, maybe your right, maybe he just has history with me, who knows. I can't say for sure, but I havnt described him as an angel because the first time I did see him was in full detail like another person was there, he seemed angelic only twice in my life so far, the other times its more like another person was just there. Id be calling him an angel if he were angelic more than twice, but its possible, you could be right.

Its honestly good to see someone actually being respectful, and not depicting themselves as a spoiled high class talking down people like shes better than they are. Dont get me wrong, I'm not saying that's what or who this person is, but that's exactly how shes acting. *feel free to ignore this part, I don't know her, and I don't care to say anymore about somebody I don't know, or care about*

lady-glow
It doesn't matter how old I am, the stories I have submitted so far is years worth of time and memories dealing with the after life. It wasn't a different admierer, and when I thought it was, he told me that it wasn't him and the whole time he said it was "disturbing" to see my answer to the note. Further more, he told me it wasn't even his hand writing, again, I assumed it was the little girl, the times about this boy was described out of order, and I didn't even mention my first love that lived with me because it made it too fictional. All the bs he made me deal with over the years in this place was too detailed, so I didn't even mention him. My first love is the family member that left I have mentioned a caouple times in the story.
In fact the "I love you" note was when I didn't even know the face of this ghost. I decided to have the story scrambled on purpose, cause if not it wouldve gotten too detailed in my personal love life again, and I didn't want that happening. You can think what you want, but you werent there, and your not me. Not all of it was explained in full detail only to keep my sexual business with both of them out of it. Yes, I was involved with one guy under the same roof, supposed to be my future family member, over the years with him I didn't even know this ghost that I later on have seen, he was mysterious to me for years, believe it or not. Even when my first love was here, I again did not know this ghost. Ghostly activities have happened through him while my first love was here, but not once have I actually seen his face until three weeks after my love left. Dont mind my story being portrayed as scrambled, if that's why you think a child wrote this. You say you don't want to be rude, but you are, I don't care if you have your opinions about it, I respect that, and Ill respect it even more if you argue nicely.

You asked before I could lady-glow...

Further more; at the risk of sounding like a really negative person AND perhaps reading way to far between the lines of this series of experiences but I feel this needs to be said...

Our minds can 'gloss' over some really horriable events... And you mention this...

"The second time I saw him as something angelic was when my father was betrayed by an old friend, and room mate. He always gave him the benefit of the doubt and knew him for twenty years, but was always creepy with me and expected me to run into his arms after I grew up even though he used to change my diapers. I felt betrayed to, cause I even knew him for years, he turned out to be a horrible person."

I am worried the 'first sightings' may have been something much worse... And the last sighting more of a Guardian Angel... Or a Comforting Spirit of some sort letting you know the 'bad stuff' is over. As well as providing some of the comforting 'gestures' you received 'along' the way.

Hate to 'go there' but I can not ignore my 'gut feelings' either. I hope and Pray I am wrong... But I felt it needed to be said...asked...whatever...

Respectfully,

Rook

agreed, seems more like romance to me...
Are you sure your not imagining things... Again being rude, just logical

Kya: what makes you think that the "I love you" note was written by a ghost and not by a person? -Perhaps by one of your friends or by a secret admirer.

How old are you, exactly?
I don't want to be rude but your story looks more like the romantic dream of a teen girl than a paranormal experience.

Thanks for sharing.