Comments for Sex With Steven The Ghost: Page 1

Hi Sleeping,

I am very happy to know that Rook's cleansing ritual is working. Though I am not surprised, as far as I know it has excellent feed-back. 😊

Well, I seriously hope you'll go from SleepingwithSteven to Sleeping beauty instead.

Take care and keep us posted.

Beautinside,

Thank you for reading my post.

Yes, I have been given great advice. I started the cleansing ritual yesterday. For the first time in ages I slept like a baby. (Thanks to Rooks cleansing method)

Yes, I have told Steven to leave except the last time because I wanted some answers.

Yes, I've told my shrink in the past and family members about all the spirits I see and I was admitted into a mental hospital because they didn't believe me. I was there for 6 weeks.

Over the past 2 years since being discharged from hospital I keep things to myself. I tell my shrink some things but I don't go into detail because I don't want to be admitted back into the mental hospital.

Good news, Steven didn't visit last night. He hasn't been around for about a week since I posted my experience. The cleansing ritual I did yesterday will hopefully keep him and other spirits away.

Thank you for reading my post and for your feedback. Most appreciated. ❤ 😘

Hi Sleeping,

What an ordeal, I've read through all comments and you've been given good advice.

I understand that this must be so unsettling, scary and frustrating to you... But it is so wrong, it can't be your friend. If you don't mind me asking, have you told it to leave?

I'd like to ask you another question and please don't get me wrong because I know that you are still trying to figure it all out and it's hard...
You mentioned you have told your psychiatrist about it, can you tell me what did he say about it? You also mentioned that you didn't want him thinking you were crazy again, can you tell me why?
I'd truly appreciate if you could answer to those questions.

Please take care. ❤

Melds,

I sent Lady-Glow a follow-up comment saying I apologized because my comment came across harsh. It wasn't intended and that's why I sent another comment simply saying thanks for your interest and I'm going to give Rooks cleansing ritual a go as advised by Curious Dee.

I've started that today and I just wanted to hold back now until I see what happens.

I feel very confident Rooks cleansing will work because it has for others.

I have put up a new post yesterday and another one today. If they get published we can all talk again.

Thanks for all the amazing feedback everyone. I really appreciate your time and comments.

❤ 😘

Sleeping - Oh my. Please read the last paragraph of my submission to you and then read your response to lady-glow. See what I mean? I know you apologised to her but it leaves a little hiccup in the works.

Regards, Melda

Lady Glow,

I've read a couple of your posts and added them to my profile. They are interesting. I haven't commented because I really don't know enough yet to contribute.

All I know about are my own experiences.

My last comment to you wasn't meant to be disrespectful in any way. I do respect your knowledge and know you have been here a long time and have a lot of experiences to share. All I meant by my comment is I have few things I can do to get rid if Steve now thanks to suggestions from other member's and I'm going to give them a go.

I do appreciate your interest in Steve and my post but I'm just going to hold back now and do the cleansing ritual and see what happens.

Thanks again

Have a nice day. 😘

Question: " I see spirits, ghosts, hag's, incubus, etc and its frustrating..."

How can you tell them apart? It is not like every an any entity walks around carrying an ID telling its nature, is it?

Please don't think that I'm making fun of you, I only find it interesting that you seem to be able to differentiate them when, after reading so many stories, it's very common to not even tell ghosts apart from living people based only on their appearance.
In some instances the only clue a person has, is the knowledge that the individual they are seeing has recently passed away.
When, as a child, you saw your uncle, - were you scared because you thought he was a disembodied person or did you react with fear because it was a big surprise to see him there?

And, if you are able to detect the difference between all those wicked entities, have you ever 'seen' any positive ones? Wouldn't that mean you'd be capable to know Steve's true nature?

Sorry for my random questions, if you don't know the answers, someone else reading this thread might know them.

Aporetic, in my experience, it is only demonic entities who deceive the way "Steve" seems to be deceiving.

Twilight,

Thank you for your sincere kind words and for taking me seriously. Most people think I'm crazy and don't believe I see spirits, ghosts, hag's, incubus, etc and its frustrating. I've dealt with this my entire life since seeing my uncle when I was a young girl.

I guess people only believe their own experiences.

Thank you twilight for your best wishes. I really appreciate it. ❤ ❤ ❤

Aporetic,

I don't know who it is. His face didn't look like Jeff's. But I've heard ghost, demons, spirits, and incubus can change their appearances and age so that you are fooled.

I don't know. I came here for help and answers.

I posted another story yesterday about my father. I have seen his spirit at my mothers place and other spirits, Shadow's, hag's, and don't understand why I can see them and others can't.

I'm going to do the cleansing ritual and see if things change. Rook knows his stuff and I feel confident.

Thank you for reading and your response. Glad you got a laugh out if it. As for me, it really does scare me cause it happens often.
❤

SWS, thank you for getting back to my questions. I couldn't imagine having to deal with what you're going through, and wish you the best that you'll be able to make him leave.

Greetings SleepingWithSteve

Firstly, my inner-child can't stop gigging at the title of your narrative.

I have just one question regarding your reply to Cups: 'PS: He's not solid, he's a dark shadow of a man with a clear face, but not solid.'

You suspect Steve is Jeff because of his hesitation in answering your question. Could you not ascertain this from his 'appearance'? '...a man with a clear face,...".

To the other members: Is it common (or even at all possible) for a ghost to change its appearance? Are shape-shifters real or just Hollywood sensationalism? I've read several comments on YGS that state a ghost's character/personality doesn't change because she/he no is longer human? Would the same not apply to his appearance?

SWS, please take care and sending warm, fighting spirit energy your way to help your resolve in getting Steve/Jeff to move on.

Apo

Cup,

Thank you very much. I found the article. I will start the ritual tomorrow morning. I need to get some sandalwood insence first.

Thanks again. ❤

Curious Dee

I found the ritual. Thank you. I will get insence in the morning and start with day one.

Rooks knows his stuff. I've read a few of his posts and his bio.

Thanks again. ❤

Sleeping,

If you click on the link in my previous comment, and scroll down Rook's profile to Cleansing and Shielding Method; You'll see Day one, Day two, and so on. It's not too far down.

Keep us updated on how it works it. All the best ❤

Dee

Cups,

I have Rooks profile saved and a couple of his posts.

I'm not sure where on his profile to find the cleansing ritual.

Do you have a link? Or is the ritual written in one of his posts?

Thanks for your concern.

❤

Thanks for the reply, SWS. I am a bit alarmed by all this though... If you try the cleansing, please update us.

Cups,

PS: He's not solid, he's a dark shadow of a man with a clear face, but not solid. I close my eyes the second he arrived because I get scared. Hard to explain, but he doesn't scare me but the situation does.

Yes, I have told him to leave many times in my head, except the last time because I wanted to know why he was targeting me. I asked him questions that seemed to be out aloud and not in my head.

❤

Cups,

I don't believe its due to my medication, but then again who knows. I've seen shadows and ghosts since I was very young when my uncle came to me one night to say goodbye. He stood by my door, I froze and when I was able, I ran into my parents room and told them what happened. The next day we got a call from the UK saying my uncle died roughly the same time I saw him.

I have a few more experiences that I will share soon.

I haven't got time now, I just got back from doing the weekly shopping.

Thank you for your feedback, most appreciated. ❤

RCRuskin,

I know whatever/whoever these visitors are, they are only going to be nice for as long as they want to. Demons, ghosts, shadows, dreams? Who knows, but yes, I will be careful. I have a picture of Jesus above my bed now and I pray.

Thank you very much for reading my post and your comment. ❤

I have little to add, and I know that I'll get more than a few downvotes but I don't care much about that.

Something about this experience bothers me on so many levels and it is hard for me to put my finger on exactly what. Though the warnings and questions many have already posted reflect some of my feelings.

Please be careful.

Hello twighlight,

Yes, I've told him to leave in the past by thinking it in my head. Not being able to move makes it hard to fight him off. That's why the last encounter I had, I asked as many questions as I could. Because he stalled before answering I thought he was lying.

I don't have feelings for him. I named my account after him because he's always visiting me. Not always for sex. Sometimes he just sits on the end of the bed or stands by my bed and watches me.

When he visits, I'm not scared of him, but I still try and avoid looking at him.

Thank you for reading my post and for your feedback.
❤

I don't mean for my question to come off rude, or disrespectful, because I mean no offense in asking this, but reading what you wrote about Steve, and seeing that you choose to name your account off him, have you developed feelings for him? I know you say that you get scared when he comes to you, to the point where you're frozen in fear, but then you allowing him to have sex with you, and then you start to ask personal questions about him, makes me wonder if after him coming to you for so long, you've somewhat gotten use to it, to where you enjoy having him visit you, despite what he comes for. To me, if you truly feared him, you would not be able to just allow him to have sex with you each time, without trying to fight him off, or would go as far as naming your account after him. Again I mean no disrespect in what I'm asking, nore am I judging you by any of it! I only ask because if you have gotten attached to him, to where you've developed feelings for him, I feel that he won't stop coming to you, because he knows that you don't want him to leave. With his answers to your questions you've asked him not really adding up, it sounds like he's not really being very truthful as to who he really is. Have you ever tried to get him to talk to you without letting him have his way with you first, to see if you can get more answers as to who he really is, and why he's coming to you? Whatever you decide to do, I do wish you the very best, and hope everything works out for you. I'm sorry if my questions were offensive in anyway, and hope you understand I really meant no disrespect in what I said.

Lady-Glow,

I did the Math like you did. He says he's 32 but isn't. I read somewhere ghosts can be what ever age they want, what ever appearance and can change often and that's why I didn't think too much of him saying he was 32 but actually born in 1949.

He didn't sound like Jeff, he didn't look like Jeff. Most of the time I had my eyes closed because I was scared. I just froze but my mouth moved and I asked him questions.

He didn't visit me when I was in hospital. He did visit me 6 months or so before I was admitted and ever since on and off over the past 2 years since I've been out of hospital.

I will do as you say and pray.

Thank you for reading and shedding some light. I appreciate it.
❤

Hello Dee,

Thank you for the link to Rooks profile. I will definitely try what you said.

I don't understand why these ghosts are coming to me. Why is it that I can see and hear them?

I have other experiences that I will post soon.

In the meantime, thank you for all your help and making time to read my post.

❤

Tweed,

Thank you so much for your kind words and reading my post.

I have read Melds comments and replied to her. I will look up Rook and read some of his posts.

Yes, I have told my shrink about my dreams/ sleep paralysis.
(I don't want him to think I'm crazy AGAIN).😕

Thank you Tweed for you caring words of wisdom. ❤

Melds

I didn't tell him to leave because I wanted to know who he was and why he keeps coming to me.

As for thinking it was Jeff, It crossed my mind because he was the only person I knew who died in 1999.

Yes, I believe in god and I will get this unit blessed.

No, the hag and Steven don't come at the same time.

Yes, I have had a lot of experiences besides Steven, the hag, and my uncle.

Thanks for your comments. ❤

Hi Sleeping,

Do you think the incidents with Steve are related to sleep paralysis? I'm thinking Steve isn't Jeff (as Melda pointed out, a friend wouldn't do that). So, in my opinion, Steve sounds like he needs to hit the road. 😜 I would recommend a cleansing of yourself and your house. There is a member here (Rook) that has a great method. Here is the link:

Http://www.yourghoststories.com/user-profile.php?user=8155

Scroll down to Rook's Cleansing and Shielding Method. It's been used successfully by many people. 😊 Hopefully you get the peace you deserve.

All the best ❤
Dee

Hi Sleepingwith,

I really like all the advice you've received from everyone so far. Wanted to also add this thought to the mix.

Grieving the loss of someone can awaken feelings which were hidden while they were alive. For example someone realises how much they treasured someone's friendship. Or valued someone's input.
The same could be said for sexual attraction. You may have been attracted to this man at some point and for whatever reason suppressed this. Your grieving process may have uncovered these feelings and your mind has created a kind of reenactment routine. I would explore this possibility with your psychiatrist.

I also want to highlight something Melda said:
"I doubt whether normal, well-balanced people would become incubi or succubi when they pass on, so if your friend Jeff was a nice guy it's very unlikely that he is your unwelcome visitor."

My thoughts exactly. Sleepswith, please think about what Melda said there.

Wish you the best.

I have the same questions as Valkricry plus some of my own and, sorry but, in my opinion, the answers are not in any of your two profile pages.

Does Steve's voice sound as Jeff's?

If, according to your profile "Steve is he was born in 1949 but thinks he's 32 years old, he died in 1999 and is from Lancaster."
Let's do the math: 1999 - 32 = 1967 NOT 1949

So, either Steve is not Jeff, or your ghost is not exactly good at math, or whoever he is (was?), he's lying to you.

As I have told you in a previous comment:
"If Steve really passed away in 1999, it's time for him to go to take the next step regardless of how much you enjoy his company.

The right thing to do is to tell him that he doesn't belong in this plane and must go to the light. Perhaps you should talk to a religious leader of your faith asking for help.

You wouldn't want to keep a teenager forever in kindergarten, would you? Then, why to hold a spirit on the physical world?"

SLeepingWithSteve - Besides seeing your uncle before his death and your reference to the "hag" on your profile page, have you ever had other paranormal experiences?

Have you ever been bothered by Steve and the hag simultaneously? I know that the hag is alleged to go hand in hand with sleep paralysis. I don't know this from personal experience but merely by reading this site and a bit of research.

Fortunately I have never been confronted by amorous ghosts 😨

If you were able to talk to Steve in your frozen state, surely you should have been able to tell him to go away and leave you alone and that his attentions were not welcome?

I doubt whether normal, well-balanced people would become incubi or succubi when they pass on, so if your friend Jeff was a nice guy it's very unlikely that he is your unwelcome visitor.

I don't know whether you practice any specific religion but if you do it would be a good idea to get your home blessed. If you have no religious faith whatsoever, perhaps you could visit Rookdygin's page and have a look at his cleansing method.

Please don't get annoyed if you are asked a lot of questions. Most people on this site like to understand and believe people's publications. I'm not suggesting that you have any difficulty with replying to comments, so please take that remark in the manner in which it is intended.

Regards, Melda

Hi Val, Most of the answers to your questions are on my profile page. Thanks for your comments. ❤

I've questions. How long was this going on before you had the courage to ask questions? How did you ask them from your 'frozen' state? From my understanding those in sleep paralysis usually can't talk, move, et cetera. So,I'm a bit confused.
Is it possible that this Steven is a hallucination of sorts due to the sp? I know that they do go hand in hand quite often.
Have you spoken with your psychiatrist about this? Could it be some weird side effect of medication?
Let's say it is real (not a hallucination or side effect but a ghost). Why would Jeff lie to you about who he was?