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xGhostBustersx (2 stories) (5 posts)
 
15 years ago (2010-02-07)
My cousin has had this before, a ghost having a thing for her❀. But it wasn't some lover from a previous life. It was some boy who hung himself in her bedroom cupboard. She was only about my age when it started to follow her about. I will type up the story soon. But I agree with 1926 about take caution. Ghosts can be quite unpredictable when they want to be, like us living. Lol

😊
1926 (3 posts)
 
15 years ago (2010-02-07)
Be careful with attached ghosts, because they might seem harmless at first, though they can become a harassment and become dangerous when you try to oppose them.
Think of it like an infatuation with someone you want, but know that you can't have.
It's bad enough trying to stop someone who is alive, and harassing you.
It's even worse trying to stop someone that is dead that you cannot stop.
Not all is bad, and not all is good. Take caution.
ZiShu (281 posts)
 
15 years ago (2010-02-07)
If this spirit does not leave into the light after you tried helping it then it may be a demon in disguise.
It's just fishy that he talks about having a relationship with you, incubi do that. The more you speak to him and allow him to hang around you, the harder it is for him to leave.
I hear you can try singing a beautiful song to the spirit, it will help move him on.
God Bless for now...
letaroO (1 stories) (8 posts)
 
15 years ago (2010-02-06)
they guys, thank you all for such warm comments! I really do appreciate all of them! ❀
Boldylocks, I feel that is exactly what I have to tell him and ask God to take him to the light along with his pal Can contact you anywhere else e.g. Email? 😁
PseudoHuman (2 stories) (7 posts)
 
15 years ago (2010-02-06)
I think your story is terribly fascinating. I have always believed in past lives so this story was of particular interest to me. I do agree that perhaps he might not be who he says he is or that he has a rather unnatural obsession that can turn out to be harmful to you. I have had an experience with a spirit reading my thoughts and telecommunicating and quite honestly it was scary and very uncomfortable. I would recommend what some of the other readers said about telling him he should move on.
cookie90 (1 stories) (9 posts)
 
15 years ago (2010-02-06)
This was a very interesting story. I honestly have never heard of this before. I would be terrified, and I don't see how you can talk to him and not be scared. 😁
I think it's very sweet how he is around you and cares for you. I would talk with him patiently. He obviously doesn't want to die from what you stated.
Tell him to go into the light and go to heaven. You can tell him that when you pass away you will see him again.
This situation is very tricky because there's a lot of things you don't know. Like, who are the other voices? What do they have to do with this man?
I would just be patient.
Good Luck! ❀
Boldylocks (13 posts)
 
15 years ago (2010-02-06)
I would ask him to respect you and not go in the bathroom when you are there-- because it does make you feel uncomfortable. Tell him that if he loves you, that you would appreciate he be a gentleman.

I do feel he has learned his lesson from the past-- that though he was not a caring person before, he realizes now how uncaring he really was. Sometimes it takes death and the loss of a loved one to come to that reality.

I do feel he is trying to make it up to you in a sense-- and that he isn't the type that will harrass you, so I would not tell him to get lost.

Pray for his soul- and ask that God would help him grow even more spiritually so that he can cross over and care for you from a place where both of your highest good is emphasized.

When he can cross over one day, he will be an even greater blessing to you because then he can do more to intercede and pray for you from the Heavenly realms (which is more effective than being stuck in the astral realm he is probably in right now.

Even when he crosses over, he can still come over and visit you in your home-- but then he will not feel overly emotionally attached. It will then be a spiritual love he will feel. Right now he has learned to love you and appreciate you, but even that love needs to mature to a spiritual level. Crossing over will help him come to that point in his spiritual growth.

Tell him that too- and don't you ever forget this man either- he is a part of your life, and while we are not meant to dwell on our past, we can always keep in our hearts the good of our past.--- including from our past lives.

I'm praying for both of you over there. I feel a tenderness towards him, and you both. We have to keep growing, and I want to see him cross over - and bring his one pal you heard him speaking with to the Heavenly realms as well--while he's at it!

Hugs
Boldy
Surya (39 stories) (867 posts)
 
15 years ago (2010-02-06)
This story touched a nerve with me. I can only advise you to tell him to leave you alone. His time has passed he needs to move on. Please do not let him get to close to you. Forbid him to enter your home again.
Akemi (guest)
 
15 years ago (2010-02-06)
that sounds sweet. He cares for you, and he seems to know that you care about him, without the romantic feelings though. Ask him if he is willing to go to heaven. See what he says about that. Good luck
aussiedaz (19 stories) (1566 posts)
 
15 years ago (2010-02-05)
He could be a soul mate from a past life, letting you know he is with you, but he also has to understand that you are in this life to fulfill your own spiritual journey, I think you should ask him to leave you alone and if he truly loves you he will, just my opinion wish you well what ever you decide.
gothguy32 (6 posts)
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15 years ago (2010-02-05)
if its demon try to summon a Gaurdian Shade they are shadows that protect you everywhere you go from demons and living ppl
moonshadow (3 stories) (146 posts)
 
15 years ago (2010-02-05)
id find something not quite right about this spirit it seems when he is communacting with you and as you said you heard other voices in your head whispering and he is talking to other spirits who are asking him how things are going I wouldent like this at all I think you should see a professional psychic for advice take care and let me know what happens...

MMAHMED611. There most certinaly is good spirits and those who come in visitation and it's not allways demons if God werent going to allow spirits to be about then he wouldent allow demons to be around either trying to harm us good spirits don't harm us anyway and I do have great belife in God...
letaroO (1 stories) (8 posts)
 
15 years ago (2010-02-05)
Phobic1981, kiezechxie, MMAHMED611 thank you very much for your comments and suggestions!
MMAHMED611 (16 posts)
 
15 years ago (2010-02-05)
Here are some words of advice if you like to hear:

1. There are no such things as spirits/ghosts of dead people. These are demons posing as them. If you believe in God and Him being perfect, how can you imagine that he let's the spirits of some dead people to roam around and affect others.

2. Demons are expert liars and because some of them live for hundreds and even thousands of years, it's not hard at all for them to come up with stories about people who lived say many years ago.

3. God has given them special abilities so that they can see you, but you cannot. They can travel long distances in a very short time.

4. Be very firm and ask this demon to leave you once and forever. Pray to the one true God to remove this entity from your life. Otherwise this entity can ruin your life and you might never have a normal life in the future.

Again, it is a sincere advice from someone who knows quite a bit about these supernatural entities/beings. If you take it, it will help you and if you don't it's your wish. I stand to neither gain nor lose anything.

Take care...
kiezechxie (7 posts)
 
15 years ago (2010-02-04)
letaro, your story is very interesting...
But you should know what I have known, yeah there's a super natural, I really believes in them. But its going to be real if you take its seriously... Just remember! No one can help you rather than the god's heaven above us.
And your self try to pray every nigth and day.
And if I where you I was talking to that ghost that "he never be alive again!" said it in madly voice. Ghost are scared to death in mad voices... Dont be friendly to him! I bet you they didn't want mad voices! Thanks for reading my advice I hope its helps you a bit,

Kiezechxie_22_zxkhenxz
Phobic1981 (2 stories) (14 posts)
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15 years ago (2010-02-04)
Just a word of caution... If it were me, I'd be very cautious about giving any entity permission to enter my mind, like put thoughts in my head. Could be harmless, but could also lead down a very bad road, if this spirit is not who he says he is.

Now, if he is, you can only try to help. Try to convince him that moving on is the right thing to do, since you're not going to be with him. Tell him he'll be happier, maybe even (this sounds a little nuts but hey, who cares) tell him about near-death experiences where people talk about what Heaven is like. Couldn't hurt. After all, if you're meant to be together, you'll find each other when the time is right. Good luck and again, please be careful.
letaroO (1 stories) (8 posts)
 
15 years ago (2010-02-04)
Andy1, thanks for your point of view! Good luck to you too:) If ghost goes to back to higher realms will it find new love there?
Andy1 (3 posts)
 
15 years ago (2010-02-04)
I honestly think you should try to tell him to get with someone else, he really can't be with you... Thanks for the story and good luck. 😁
letaroO (1 stories) (8 posts)
 
15 years ago (2010-02-04)
bigC, thanks a lot for your thoughts, very much appreciated!:)
bigC (4 stories) (80 posts)
 
15 years ago (2010-02-04)
it seems he really loved you last time to actually find you in another life he probably doesn't want to let go

Well possibilities if you're a romantic have him stay until your old both go the same time and try to find each other again.

2: try to have him let go of you.

Or something else I can't think of right now
Do what you will

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