Comments for Stalker Clad In Black: Page 1

Blackcat

Sorry my mistake and your description would make it easier.

If you were able to get anything out of him that would make my job a lot easier.

What else has he said to you it doesn't matter how small it may seem it could be what finds him.

I don't think the guy stalking me is Charles at all. The guy I saw that night looked completely different compared to the guy who is stalking me in and outside my dreams. I think I saw Charles once that night (when he touched my hand and smiled) but that's it. I got a good look at this guy's face from 2 different 'dreams' and parts of his face in another. He has no scars. His eyes look dark. He is pale. He has a strong jawline and dark hair that reaches his shoulder. He seems to be pretty tall but then again I'm 5 feet tall so haha it's hard to judge. He wore a dark suit the way a mortician might. I wonder if I can try to communicate more details out of him like name or some other information...

I think this might be the guy as he seems to be revealing himself a lot more lately and it felt confirmed in the one where I screamed as I turned around.

Blackcat

Don't think it's him as he had no scar.

We are looking at another Charles just now he was buried in New York but died in New Jersey so is still possible.

Blackcat

I gave the decentent your discription so she is going to see if her gran thinks it's correct.

Thank you so much. Is it possible he could have died another way?

I wonder if the description I gave of him will help.

Blackcat

If his body was found he will be on record somewhere. I'm trying to find photos of everyone else but so far no luck I found a decentent of another man who died in the bar but they have no photos of him.

Ohhh alright I get it now. That's extremely fascinating. Considering this guy is from NJ it seems, do you think he could be on record? Is it possible for him not to be?

Blackcat

It's been thought about for years it is still unexplained why spirits need to draw energy but it does seem every spirit needs to drain to show itself. This is the reason you can catch them on thermal camara and EMF detectors.

Haha thank you so much EmilyWilcox!
I am glad I helped your family out. It's amazing what sharing a story on the internet can do.

[at] Goggzy, so do all spirits drain energy as a necessity or is that usually those with ill intent? Also I feel like I ask you too many questions haha. Are there resources out there to learn more about this kind of phenomenon or is this just knowledge you've gained along the way with being a paranormal investigator and whatnot? Because I'd love to actually learn more about the paranormal but am not sure where to go for that.

Blackcat

The heavy fealing could be from the spirit draining the energy out of the air.

Thanks George and no he hasn't.

Blackcat I can't tell you how thankful I am for your bravery without you I still wouldn't know what happened.

Most of the time I have been sympathetic and open to the existence of the ghost in my life when I was in New Jersey. I actually remember that the last day we were going to move out finally (we drove all the way to FL as both mom and I are afraid of flying) I said out loud goodbye. Thinking the haunts would stay with the place. Once we got down here it didn't show at first but eventually started to and the only way I was able to confirm was quite recently actually. It was definitely more confirmed with the dreams.

Lately I've been conflicted as part of me doesn't want to push it away as it hasn't actually been violent with me but at the same time feel it needs to move on anyway even if it was the kindest ghost on the planet. I have a boyfriend, I'm heading to college soon, will end up moving out. Basically I'm growing up and it should understand up to this point that it can't keep following me unless it has darker intentions it has not made me aware of or it has no plan and is simply sticking around for the comfort. I'm still doing the cleansing though because this place has started feeling heavy. Whether it leaves or not, I just want this place to go back to feeling more homey and not spooky in certain rooms.:/

[at] Goggzy I'll try to communicate more clearly out loud and see if I can get answers.

[at] Mazzmarach I'll give a description of myself to make this clearer. So the guy is definitely 19th century style and I'm a big history nerd, especially with the 19th century. It actually inspires the way I like to dress a little bit in a modern way. Long pretty dresses, ballet flats, the works. I am black and white biracial but extremely white passing I suppose as I have a beige-y complexion, finer wavy-curly hair that's kind of long, and my features: roman nose, brown eyes, heart shaped face. I am not giving a picture as I think me being a teen means I should keep some form of myself hidden on here:P For what I wore before the dream, I was wearing my favorite long pale pink tank that looks kind of gown-ish. So if he likes me because I remind him of a past love, then I suppose she's small with brown wavy hair and brown eyes.

[at] EmilyWilcox, you're welcome. ^^ Never knew something like that would happen.

[at] Tweed, I have actually said that before haha. I was really angry after a day of school and it tried to contact me. Apparently, that didn't make it want to leave.

BlackCat, when I was a teenager, and a few times as an adult, I've had similar ghost problems. 'Similar' because I never let it escalate. A good old fashioned 'F' word, followed by an 'off' works a charm. Or, to quote Homer Simpson:

"I'm not gay, but I'll learn."

Intent, intent, intent is the key. It really is that simple.

Emily

Yes it is has your dad been in touch yet. This would have been better in the right story though.

Errr...Did this just turn into The Twilight Zone?

Ummm wha? 😕

George is this the girl who found my great grandfather. And thank you.

Mazz

This has been ongoing and we do believe what has happened is Blackcat looks like a dead lover.

Because of blackcat we actually had names and solved a missing persons case we only had a photo of one person (the missing person named Charles Wilcox) there is still 75 names that are likely but with no photos of this person it will be impossible to find out if it's them.

Ahoy.

I hate to interrupt, but this is just a thought regarding this stalker. He likes you, he's angry that you don't remember him, and the first thing he did to you was scare you awake through a dream; do you think there is a possibility that you remind him of a long-dead loved one who broke his heart? What were you wearing and doing before that first dream? I understand that you might not remember, but this is the vibe I get from this particular stalker of yours.

Go with God,
Mazz

Blackcat

Also could be trying to show itself to you (do you remember me) this would make sense as well this is a case which is weird as it's romantic and aggressive (if both are the same spirit).

Ah okay. So showing itself you mean manifesting itself through dreams and speaking to me and touching me? That makes sense.

Blackcat

There is no reason a cleansing should not work and if it doesn't it's nothing to do with you or the ghost.

I feel a need to tell you the flickering lights might be it draining the power to show itself to you.

What you could do is maybe record overnight and see what you might find out, this could help it to leave you alone.

I have the same headphones! Haha that's awesome. I am going to try that.

If a cleansing doesn't work what exactly does that mean? Does that mean it's strong (it flickers my lights so o.o) or just simply not bad?

Blackcat

Headphones will definitely work that's what we use in reviewing (to be precise we use skullcandy). The one problem with reviewing is the boredom for us we do it to help people so its not to bad.

Would headphones help with that? Probably a dumb question. But especially when it comes to listening to anything, my headphones are definitely pretty strong when it comes to hearing videos that have really low volume.

Blackcat

If you are wanting to find what he wants a EVP (digital voice recorder) can help with this. I have actually used my phone a few times although it makes it harder to pick out anything without speakers.

Oh alright. That's actually really cool. School for me is almost over so that will most likely give me time to do shielding and cleansing... I wonder if I can on my own attempt to further communicate with it to see exactly what it wants. Though I am not sure how to go about that. I've never really been open about my ghost experiences until I joined this site. I wonder if anyone on here has way to "amplify" I guess is the word. Or if I should just do a cleansing.

Blackcat

I have never heard of someone dying from Ghost Attacks, Demonic Entities can kill but you don't have to worry about that.

My possession was not any form of aggression as I wanted to know how he died and he showed me.

We have had equipment destroyed, people attacked etc. Due to the spirit not wanting us there. Just like someone poking you to get your attention they poke harder until you pay attention.

I should say when I got pushed up stairs we (as a team) believe it was being protective, as the room I was going into had someone who broke into the house in it (we made an arrest which stopped the investigation).

Whoa that's pretty intense. Also good. I don't ever want to be an easier target because of that.

As long as no one has died from ghost attacks. 😢

Ghosts can be pretty angry, Jesus.

Blackcat

Depression can help the spirit feed but does not make you weaker to them than say me.

I have seen possession and people getting physically attacked by ghosts. I have been pushed up stairs had stones thrown at me and quite recently been slightly possessed.

Hm. I wonder if ghosts ever communicate with each other for simply being lonely. The same way we look for friends. Kinda like congregating. Feeding makes sense.

I doubt it will truly be aggressive beyond simply giving me a nasty scowl like it did. If it does make a turn for the worst, I'll have to convince my mom... Or maybe he will convince her...

This morning I spoke out loud because lights have been flickering lately when I sense a presence. I said, "that's one way to contact someone. Flickering the lights." And all of a sudden the bulb got brighter. I didn't see that as aggressive though. Then again I'm not a ghost expert ^^

The voices could be residual I suppose but what surprises me is that this new apartment was built in the 1960s or 70s? And the old place was like really old... Like going back about the late 1800s early 1900s or something. Which is why I believe they are residual of past members probably living here and leaving behind imprints. Some people on here have mentioned ghosts staying places even if something has been built on top of it. I'm going to go with residual though and this thing latching on.

I think it's good to mention that I have anxiety and mild depression, which could be what it feeds off of according to other people on this site.

Blackcat

If it is talking to others it might be feeding from other spirits.

The voices could also be residual and nothing to do with the spirit haunting you.

Hopefully it isn't going to be more aggressive in the future.

Okay. Thank you. The reason I've always been hesitant about this is because I am still a teenager and living with my mom so I've always tried to avoid having to have help up to the point of investigators. She's not the type to agree to it. The only way she might is if things were extremely serious such as full apparitions in front of her and blood curdling nightmares experienced on her end.

I've heard whispered conversations at night. I wonder if this thing is talking to itself, to me even though I'm trying to sleep, or to others. It's hard to distinguish different voices in whispers though. Because of other minor experiences in this apartment, I wonder if it talks to others...

Black cat

If shielding or cleansing doesn't work I would get you some help from psychic etc. Until we can find what he wants, your case is still ongoing for my team and we all agree if we eventually need to come over to help we will.

The reason I never approached it is because I've suffered the same thing for a few years now since I moved out of New Jersey: the dreams, voices/touches/etc. No one's ever gotten hurt so I left it alone never thinking it could escalate. But I still agree that it should be gotten rid of.

After I do the cleansing/shielding, what happens if it doesn't work?

Black cat

I'm still not sure myself wether this is someone asking you if you remember him from the past and you saying no could have made him aggressive.

I believe you will be better getting the spirit to leave before he physically hurts someone.

Thank you so much for responding Goggzy. I'm still confused by the "do you remember me". I still can't tell if he meant if I've been aware of him for a while now... Then yes. Or if he means some kind of past life or whatever. If so, then no.

I still feel his presence around me. What just happened recently (being a couple days ago) is I was sitting at my laptop doing some homework, listening to music, the usual and I started feeling a heavy presence. I mean I literally felt a force pushing up against me and started feeling drowsy/dizzy. Like what is this? Is it trying to get my attention or hurt me?

Whenever it's more clear, I am more focused and there are usually electronics around me. He's actually pretty silent around my boyfriend. Including my boyfriend is pretty serious about me and attached to me... So I don't know if that has anything to do with this.

I looked at the shielding so I am going to have to find a day to do that as my mom hates when the blinds are open and the shield requires letting light in. So when I get the opportunity, perhaps in a day or two when she's out, then I will.

Also my mom always tells me about her dreams no matter how weird. And just right now my mom told me about a dream where my boyfriend had died and I was screaming/crying in her dream. Okay. Maybe I am being hysterical right now and it's simply pure coincidence but with all that's happened with this ghost, it's hard to not shake the feeling.

Black cat

I would definitely try shielding now as it is going on for to long, I don't believe it's because of you and you shouldn't either.

This man is definitely a creep and since he was angry when you didn't remember him it no longer looks like he is in love with you.

He also could still be confused but this seems less likely now.

The do you remember me could've been him reaching out to get more control, with his voice being mumbled sometimes and clear at others is quite easy to find the answer when his voice is clear is there more electronic devices on, are you more scared, is your boyfriend over as this could all be what he feeds of.

So it could be a ghost or poltergeist? Hm. Interesting... Thank you for assisting me, Tweed. I'll give these a try. I've sensed other spirits in apartments I've lived in... If I created a poltergeist could it communicate with it? Because one night when I woke, I could hear whispering communication between more than one ghost and it terrified me. I apologize for not mentioning this beforehand as I wasn't sure if it was important or not.

Blackcatattack,

I could be wrong but I'm pretty sure a created poltergeist could communicate through dream. Or you dreamed it because you were sensing it's intent. Whether it's an actual ghost or poltergeist is really not important. The point is they're out of line and it will only get worse.

Take a look at Rook's cleansing method detailed here:
Http://www.yourghoststories.com/user-profile.php?user=8155

All cleansing and shielding operates on your own intent and it's your intent which will keep this thing away.

Yep and considering you're aware I'm a teenager (18 in a few months) and this person or thing has been following me for a while and even creepier and disturbing. It needs to go away before I become too accustomed to it. But I think I lured it in. I talk out loud and upon learning of my hearing and feeling/sensing "gift" have even at times spoken towards entities I've believed to be around me at the time. So because of how open I am this is probably my fault in a way. Also I thought poltergeist were created and didn't think they'd appear in a person's dreams... I don't have too much knowledge about this and am afraid to search it on the internet because I don't think I'll find anything remotely accurate considering how saturated the poltergeist is with hollywood.

That's what I thought because it's acted aggressive with me and then acts romantically. It apparently knows I have a boyfriend. There's no way it couldn't know with how often I spend time with him. My boyfriend doesn't believe in paranormal stuff so... I don't talk to him about this.

I've seen cases where ghosts, especially male ghosts try to seduce or play around with living girls for satisfaction... Hey kind of like real life:P I am kidding... But yeah... I actually mentioned on another person's story how because ghosts are not living they have the benefit of attempting to trick or lie to the living. I never really looked into cleansing and shielding because I was unsure of how it would work. Given I don't put much into them I never thought they'd work. But I would certainly look at them if they really do help.

Still even with not believing it actually cares about me, I still do wonder why it's been around me more so long now. Ugh.

Hi BlackCatAttack,

First thing I'd do is tell the boyfriend, if you haven't already. Hope he's ok with paranormal matters.

Have a feeling this ghost is simply trying it on. I don't buy the deep connection angle because it doesn't add up. Given your age this could be a poltergeist and/or someone who thinks you're an easy target.

Have you looked into cleansing and shielding?