Comments for Sex With A Spirit: Page 1

Kitana, what you describe sounds very familiar to me. I have had the same thing going on for seven years now (mine is a female Spirit, I am male), and so far nothing "bad" has happened to me. You will hear a lot of opinions on this site from people with no actual experience in these matters, and if you have researched Incubi/Succubi on the Internet, you will already have encountered a lot of misinformation, again, written by people with no actual experience.

Most of what you will hear from these sources will be frightening, but if you check THEIR sources, you will discover that they've never actually encountered on of these Beings, or even spoken to someone who has.

I would suggest that you follow your own instincts in this. If this Being feels evil, then by all means, do not encourage it. If however it does not FEEL evil or bad, then maybe it's not.

According to my own experience and the experience of others who have this same sort of thing happen to them and with whom I have had direct contact, these Beings, whatever they are, seem to want only three things from us.

1. Attention. They seem to lover being noticed, and the more attention you pay to them the more the contact with them will be strengthened.

2. Sex. They love sex, and have appetites for it that far exceed any Human capacity for desire. They don't "drain" their Human lovers as the myths would have you believe, but they can wear a person out just as it would wear a person out having extended periods of sex with a Human. My Sex Spirit is not always aroused, but as she says, "Almost always".

3. Love. This surprised me when I first realized that my Sex Spirit loved me and wanted my love in return, but in fact, as I have come into contact with more and more people who have this happen to them, the love seems to be even more important to these Beings than the sex. And I think if I were going to caution you in this matter, it would be to tell you to be careful, you might wind up falling in love with a lover that you can never see or hold in your arms.

If your case is anything like mine (and others I know), and you continue to have sex with this Being, it will get noticeably better as time goes by. It still keeps getting better with mine. And because of this, you can become addicted to the pleasure, and you could fall in love with him based on the pleasure and soul-to-soul connection that you experience with him.

If you want to talk about this with others who share the same experience, click on my username and you'll find the URL for the forum in my profile.

I suppose if you don't feel like it is FORCING you into sex then it isn't a problem... If you are okay with it then that is all that matters really, I guess! I personally would not feel too comfortable with the situation though... Heheh
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I know what you mean about feeling a presence in your bedroom with you. Mine isn't at all sexual though... It is more thick and melancholic.

Hmmmmm...that seemed to be an excellent point.
You did say you missed your boyfriend a lot.

How to say this without sounding snarky? I guess I can't. As this always happens in bed, where I assume you are trying to sleep, are you absolutely positive that these events aren't dreams? What I'm saying is, if you are lying there trying to sleep, instead of reading or watching tv wide awake, it is possible to enter a dream like state without being fully asleep. These visitations could be your mind trying to satisfy an unfulfilled craving. I hope I'm making sense.
If you are wide awake and absolutely sure this isn't a dream, then do some thinking. If the tables were turned, and your boyfriend were the one receiving satisfaction from someone else, even a ghost, you'd probably feel pretty down. Just a thought.

Aya
In a way she is because she is not asking the spirit to leave.

Does your boyfriend know of this entity?

:d don't you think your being unfaithful to your boyfriend... What comes around goes around, 😊 ayy! And I don't think spirit can have sexual intercourse,:] it maybe an element, don't let your guard down... And take care...

-AYA > fidelity is the most important thing in a relationship! ❤

Wow...interesting. I think that I agree with Rashidah... It is not harming you and moreover seems to be pleasing you. I would suggest you and your boyfriend to make plans for a weekend away maybe at a bed and breakfast or the nearest Motel 6!:)

Well I see no problem here.
It is not like if you are feeling threatened or forced or anything along those lines.

Thank you for sharing your story ❤